So how do/have women here been successful in detecting, disarming and deleting the one track horn-dogs here without sounding like hard-assed byatches? really nothing you can add to profile without pushing most/all men away. the pervs will message anyway. coming on too strong on a first meet, tell him so. if he continues, just leave! there is I fine line between inapropriate and a complement. some clearly cross it by far. some pof women move their line too far and any complement is a red flag, others don't have a line at all. put yours where your comfortable and don't judge your next date on the last ones actions.