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 bdlover2
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There is a friendly and helpful guy at work. He has touched me on my arm, shoulder, back. He has teased me some, he does that with everyone. He has bought me something, he has for others as well though. He asks me questions, asks what I am doing sometimes. He notices when anything is wrong with my shirt/apron/vest. He gave me a pen multiple times. He asks for my help and he helps me without me asking. . Is he just friendly, and a talker?
If he is just a big flirt, just flirt at work with me, sex, really likes me? Is he just a friendly, helpful touchy feely guy?
 __TEXASCHICK__
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/1/2019 5:31:34 PM
Ya met a Texan, we are alllll like that. lol
 2ufo
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Posted: 4/2/2019 12:11:59 PM
Yep. We Texans are all like that... friendly and flirty (in a non-sexual manner).
Flirty in a sexual manner also, but this doesn’t sound like that.
 fullmoonguy2
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/2/2019 12:49:33 PM

There is a friendly and helpful guy at work.


He has touched me on my arm, shoulder, back.


Is he just a friendly, helpful touchy feely guy?


Is his name Joe Biden?


He gave me a pen multiple times.


Well, that cinches it.
He has the hots for you, and wants to see you handing a phallic symbol.
 bdlover2
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Posted: 4/2/2019 2:40:08 PM
So what do you think?
 bdlover2
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Posted: 4/2/2019 2:42:28 PM
You are being sarcastic. I am looking for an answer.
 spectravision
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/2/2019 2:51:34 PM

So what do you think?


It got answered. He is a nice guy. The end.
 norwegianguy456
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/2/2019 3:56:57 PM

Is his name Joe Biden?

Beat me to it.

Is he just friendly, and a talker?

He definitely is, and that is at least a big part of it. But no, it's not an indicator that he Actually likes you in-that-way, if he has much the same demeanor with others.

But he could like you. Showing that you like someone shouldn't be interpreted as like-like. What you described can easily be just someone being friendly.

To some, they're not going to be so friendly and outgoing toward someone with a smile & be so helpful unless they like-like them. To some, they do that to everyone to one degree or another. What you should do is flirt with him some. See how he responds. Remember -- flirting isn't merely being nice & outgoing & friendly. But it doesn't mean blatantly "hitting on" either.
 LeFouGamboj
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:22:34 PM
@ OP


Is he just a friendly, helpful touchy feely guy?


^ this is exactly the thing that will..... nowadays get a man into deep trouble in the work-place......if this man does this "with everyone"......he is asking for trouble because there will always be someone who will not welcome his forwardness, and in the #metoo era..........he will not fare well!


He asks for my help


He could be a genuine person....But its just as likely that this guy is somebody who is looking for some kind of validation....or trying overly hard to get along with his peers.

IMO.......I would proceed with caution.....and not get too caught up with his "charm".
 bdlover2
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Posted: 4/3/2019 8:23:53 AM
And what is wrong with that?
 bdlover2
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Posted: 4/3/2019 8:24:45 AM
No, that is not what they were saying. That is why I asked. I asked them, not you.
 bdlover2
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/3/2019 8:39:17 AM
There is more then this, message me.
 MeramecRiverRat
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Posted: 4/3/2019 8:52:49 AM


He notices when anything is wrong with my shirt/apron/vest.


If he offers to help you fix what's wrong with your clothing, he probably wants you. Wants you even more if he goes ahead and fixes your outfit without asking first. A woman at my previous job went ahead and "corrected" a supposed problem with my clothes without asking.

I let a gal borrow my pen at work last month, but she asked me.
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 4/3/2019 9:24:37 AM
^^^
I let a gal borrow my pen at work last month, but she asked me.


I never let anyone else use my pens. Way too personal a transaction. I love my pens. They are special.
Plus people never give them back<<<

;-0
 bdlover2
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Posted: 4/3/2019 2:29:24 PM
He has helped me with my vest without asking.
 Million_Reasons
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Posted: 4/3/2019 6:33:33 PM
^Only one way to find out.

Ask him out for a beverage (coffee, boba, c***tails, milkshake...whatever) after work.


Good luck! :)
 FFS38
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Posted: 4/4/2019 5:30:44 PM
If you do ask him out perhaps forewarn him you're a bd lover?
 dynamicones
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/5/2019 6:06:15 PM
I"m like this, flirt with everybody cut up with everybody they all thought i was a man whore as they mostly knew my life as well, it was harmless enough, on the other hand i've also had 9 affairs at work, so the bigger question is are you interested in him, if so? flirt back and let it develop. having said that be prepared to have to make the move, it is at work and he is a guy and the rules are different. the 9 affairs? they all had to come to me. btw that was over a 20 year period
 bdlover2
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/7/2019 4:38:14 PM
It isn't bad lover. It is something else.
 bdlover2
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/7/2019 4:40:00 PM
having said that be prepared to have to make the move, it is at work and he is a guy and the rules are different. Make the move? The rules are different? What does that mean?
 FFS38
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Q About A Guy At Work
Posted: 4/8/2019 4:16:37 AM

It isn't bad lover. It is something else.


I never said it was. I assumed it meant big d**k lover, so I made a joke of it. But I could be wrong?
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