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 Chrissi324
Joined: 4/28/2019
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I hate that there is limitation in the posts in this forum
So he did reply in the evening that he wants to go for a beer etc.
I have a feeling he looks closely what im doing in pof.
At this point im confused as we dont know each other well and I don't know what the hell is going on.
Maybe i need to have a conversation if we indeed meet on Monday .
 FFS38
Joined: 8/12/2011
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Posted: 5/11/2019 6:58:00 PM

At this point im confused as we dont know each other well and I don't know what the hell is going on.


So what do you do, do you take things to the next level?
That's a decision you have to make.
But once you've consummated your feelings for each other on that level then the bond becomes closer. That's what I've found anyway.
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Posted: 5/11/2019 9:49:33 PM
You can not really be this dumb,,,
He wants to get laid, when he does he will be off to the next chick. not me, lol,, but his next conquest.
You are a very pretty girl, you can do better.

if ya choose to
 SomeWhereInTheStratosfere
Joined: 5/8/2019
Msg: 4
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Posted: 5/12/2019 3:21:39 AM
This is from the other thread

So i dunno whats happening here.
I wish people were more consistent

He is being consistent. He's consistently jerking you around and you don't want to acknowledge it. This is what happens when a man plays games and a woman allows it. Total waste of everyone's time. Men that are interested, act interested. Men that just want to get laid behave all wishy washy and play games.

I'm not sure why you made a new thread. You probably won't like the answers in this one either.
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Posted: 5/12/2019 3:38:05 AM
This guy has seeped his way right into your head. The more shady he acts, the more intrigued you become. I can't fault the guy, though. He's doing what works. The only part I object to is the fact he's probably banging other women and not telling you about it.
 FFS38
Joined: 8/12/2011
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Posted: 5/12/2019 3:56:48 AM

I'm not sure why you made a new thread. You probably won't like the answers in this one either.


I didn't get that part either, maybe she thought there's a limit to the number of replies on the other one.
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
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Posted: 5/12/2019 4:49:11 AM
^^^
Probably couldn't post because more than 2 in 10 last posts thingy.
Boy I predicted all this!
 Chrissi324
Joined: 4/28/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 1:18:54 AM
Ceased contact with him

Not into playing games at all
 SomeWhereInTheStratosfere
Joined: 5/8/2019
Msg: 9
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Posted: 5/13/2019 5:32:43 AM

Ceased contact with him

Not into playing games at all

Let me change that for you. I'm getting tired of allowing him to play games with me.

This is what I posted in the last thread


Don't worry, I won't even say, " I told you so", ……….. when you come back to make another thread wishing you would have listened to that old, ugly, stinky lady.


I called that correctly, right down to the new thread. See..... old, ugly, stinky ladies, know what they're talkin bout. I won't even say," I told you so". Keep these words in mind: INTERESTED MEN, ACT INTERESTED. If you would like a list of positive traits to look for in a potential suitor, I would be pleased to offer that list too.
 wood_smell_as_sweet
Joined: 2/20/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 7:33:56 AM

Ceased contact with him

Not into playing games at all


He's not playing games. He's blatantly showing you that his interest in you is only lukewarm at the very best. You are way more interested in him than he is in you. You need to follow through on your resolve to cease contact with him. Block him so that he can't contact you ever again. He's just not worth all the angst he's causing you. Look for somebody else who shows stronger interest in you. You need a man who's willing to make definite plans to see you and doesn't flake out on you at the last minute.
 Chrissi324
Joined: 4/28/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 7:43:03 AM
He is playing games for sure.
The Irish guy has texted me again and said im great and wants to have kids with me.

Ahhahahah. I told him to screw off
 wood_smell_as_sweet
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Posted: 5/13/2019 9:22:14 AM
Chrissi324, he doesn't care enough about you to play games. He is just NOT THAT INTO YOU. Period. Stop making him a priority when he is only making you an afterthought.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 5/13/2019 10:12:20 AM

He is playing games for sure.
The Irish guy has texted me again and said im great and wants to have kids with me.

Ahhahahah. I told him to screw off


It's obvious that you like the attention and the drama...
 Lindatasy
Joined: 5/1/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 11:10:03 AM
Lots of flakes abound lately, it seems. I had several guys flake out on me lately, including the guy I thought I was going to be involved with. Just vanished, mid-amazing conversation. Poof, gone. Oh well. He will never know what he's missing out on.

Also had a guy I was dating for several months last year vanish on me. We broke up in January, and he was pretty mad because he didn't get his way. Three months later in April, he contacts me again, all apologetic, telling me he made a mistake, missed me, he was wrong, etc. He called me after I responded to his message, we had a good talk, he told he'd call me back again later that day, but.....wait for it......nothing. So I called him twice, went straight to voice mail, messaged him a few times, because I was genuinely worried that something had happened to him, but no answer. I know he is alive and well, because I see he is active online, and I stopped reaching out because this is just bizarre behavior for a guy who is exactly my age. He really wants me to chase after him, that was the issue he had when were dating I think. He didn't like that I was busy with my own stuff and could only see him on the weekends (he's semi-retired and has lots of time). So yeah, the vanishing acts appear to be a thing for all age groups.
 spectravision
Joined: 3/20/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 12:05:30 PM

It's obvious that you like the attention and the drama


I couldn't agree more.
 FFS38
Joined: 8/12/2011
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Posted: 5/13/2019 12:29:49 PM

It's obvious that you like the attention and the drama..


Isn't that the general idea on here lol 😁

Given that most people's complaints on here are based on a severe lack of attention 😂
 browneyesboo
Joined: 1/17/2018
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Posted: 5/13/2019 12:56:46 PM
How come there are two threads of this?
I don't really care...I was just looking for attention.

 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 5/13/2019 5:28:03 PM
^^^^^
Best comment yet!
 FFS38
Joined: 8/12/2011
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Posted: 5/13/2019 6:08:26 PM
^^Haha, now the men have had their say the women seem to be coming out of the woodwork,

sharpening their claws....
 spectravision
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Posted: 5/13/2019 6:24:33 PM
^^ It must be all that catnip
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 5/13/2019 7:55:20 PM

So he did reply in the evening that he wants to go for a beer etc.

Okay, so he did respond that evening. Alright.

I have a feeling he looks closely what im doing in pof.

How is he tracking you on POF? Does he keep asking you about how you're doing on POF, wanting details, taking notes? I hope you're not basing it on him being online. :)

Ceased contact with him

Not into playing games at all

So you posted this on Monday, so I'm assuming he cancelled the Monday date? Or said something leading up to it that got you frustrated? What was it?
 Chrissi324
Joined: 4/28/2019
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Posted: 5/13/2019 10:06:44 PM
Basically we said on Saturday to meet monday and where to go. Sunday goes with no word and Monday the same from him

I deleted his number
 SomeWhereInTheStratosfere
Joined: 5/8/2019
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Posted: 5/14/2019 3:52:28 AM

^Haha, now the men have had their say the women seem to be coming out of the woodwork,

sharpening their claws....

hahaha they are the usual suspects. Some things never change around here!.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 1/17/2018
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Posted: 5/14/2019 6:32:09 AM

^^Haha, now the men have had their say the women seem to be coming out of the woodwork,

sharpening their claws....


Why do you say that? I was just noticing the other thread stopped and this one started.
Hardly a "cat" fight....unless I don't know what a cat fight is.
I don't see me arguing with anyone here....or giving them a hard time.
 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 3/1/2019
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Posted: 5/14/2019 9:50:23 AM
No worries Boo
Female who has something to say about men= man-hater
Female who has something to say about women= b1tchy/‘catty’ (that’s the in word at the mo)
It’s tough being Woman :)
I thought you funny
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