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 endogoddess
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 4
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I would love watching or helping a man please himself with toys
 brawnydog
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 8
Toys for Boys
Posted: 8/22/2005 4:51:37 PM
That's going to be a topic that's real easy to search.
 YingKissesYang
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 13
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Toys for Boys
Posted: 9/15/2005 1:47:23 PM
Toys I like include Hotwheels and Transformers!
 passionfly
Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 14
Toys for Boys
Posted: 9/15/2005 2:03:51 PM
is this what you are talking about? http://www.fleshlight.com/main/

I can picture the power going out in your house and you grabbing the wrong item LOL
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 16
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Toys for Boys
Posted: 6/1/2008 11:37:44 AM
I have a Fleshlight and works good. a lot men buy them to get use a woman. I had sex for 30 min.with a woman and didt cum sines I was use to uesing my hand now I use my Fleshlight and my penis works better having sex with women:)
 Merrylass
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 31
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Toys for Boys
Posted: 6/12/2008 7:12:58 AM
Please God tell me why people keep posting asking what 'men' or 'women' like? There is no BORG, folks. No groupthink. The planet is populated with individuals and each one has different tastes. Forget worrying about what 'men' or 'women' want and ask the person in your life. Nothing in the world is universally liked or universally disliked.
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 39
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Toys for Boys
Posted: 7/19/2008 11:05:57 AM
The Fleshlight is the toy that was made for hung men in mind but its still kind of tight.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 40
The Fleshlight
Posted: 7/19/2008 1:48:10 PM

I think its friggin hot....then again....im an odd person...


Putting a flash light in your butt is hot? wow

Society is so friggin perverse that its almost cool to be like a mindless animal in heat.

I've read posts where people say beastiality should be ok, and that having sex with teens should be ok.

We are officially mindless dogs in heat. Its ridiculous.
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 45
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 7/19/2008 5:17:08 PM
You can hold The Fleshlight for the guy as he is useing it.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 47
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 7/19/2008 11:50:30 PM
For all the people morally ranting about the Fleshlight without knowing what it is, try looking it up on this crazy thing we have today called "the internet". It's not a butt thing, it's a fake vagina in a tube that resembles a flashlight thus the play on words. The inventor went to great lengths to make it better than an actual vagina which may explain it's popularity. Not that it should matter if it is a butt thing anyway since anyone who isn't an idiot should know it's the only route to the male "g-spot" and maybe the sex forums aren't the place for the sexually retarded and uninformed.

domo: Are you actually closed minded enough to think that a man can't have toys but a woman can? How is it "creepy" to do what satisfies you? You're whole "women need toys but men don't because a hand is close enough" statement is stupid and makes zero sense. I don't think I've ever had sex with a woman that had 5 tentacles in her vagina which was open on the other end. Maybe that's just your dates. A hand feels NOTHING like the real thing and since the Fleshlight feels WAY better than the real thing, your logic (I use the term lightly) is flawed. You sound guilt ridden and sexually repressed to me.
 Happily Ever...maybe
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 48
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 7/20/2008 12:06:13 AM

Personally, if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't care if my guy or girl used a toy with themselves, however, if it was getting in the way of our relationship, then I'd be concerned. If they were preferring an evening with themselves rather than you, then I'd be very unhappy


That hits the nail right on the head. Toys, for women and for men, are perfectly fine, as substitutes for the real thing, or even to enjoy while playing with a partner. Same goes for people who enjoy porn from time to time. None of these things are a problem, unless you start using them to avoid your partner. Or if you're single, to avoid getting out and being social, and maybe finding a partner.
 scarter78
Joined: 5/4/2007
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 7/29/2008 3:15:33 PM
A female friend of mine bought one for me because she was curious about experimenting with toys. I was pleasantly surprised.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 51
The Fleshlight
Posted: 10/20/2008 10:03:01 AM
Whatever floats your boat. If you enjoy it, who cares what anyone else thinks. I wonder if its anything like an actual vagina? I know dildo's aren't a replacement for the real deal.
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:38:34 AM
Nothing is...sigh...but when you're alone and such...well..
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 10/20/2008 1:35:13 PM
That is the key to using most toys.......much better together, but if there is not another that is always around.....you have yourself to enjoy......

What is very enjoyable, for me at least, is when the one I am dating and having sex with, wants to open up enough to share all her toys, and how she uses them. Why should it be any different for men? The point is to be open and communicate your needs and desires, and if toys are part of that, then so should the sharing of them be also.....

Just my opinion.......
 jawnithan
Joined: 8/1/2010
Msg: 57
Toys for Boys
Posted: 9/8/2010 2:25:55 PM
How did you get it for free?
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 60
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/9/2010 7:13:21 AM
the only thing wrong with the fleshlight is it has no fingers ...I wanted to marry mine but there was no where to put the ring
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 62
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/9/2010 9:27:56 AM
But but.....why marry it if you're getting "serviced" for NOTHING?!!


that's the very question i keep asking my self after marrying my wife ... was getting it for free now i don't get it at all ...that's the reason for the fleshlight


As long as the man is not using farm animals to masturbate; it's all good!!!


well technically sex with a farm animal would not be masturbation ...sense a farm animal is alive ..or if it is not alive then you have a few more issues ... can you say necrophilia with farm animals .. now that's sick
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/9/2010 9:44:29 AM
Is there a farm animal double standard? LOL

It's okay to sleep with a dead farm animal (down comforter).
And it's okay to eat a dead farm animal - steak! Mmmmm. (Unless you're a vegetarian. But then, what's a humanitarian?)

But it's not okay to have sex with farm animals, dead or alive.
Fine with me, they're not my type.

So, deerdog1 - does the Fleshlight light up your nights?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 65
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/9/2010 6:31:32 PM

Now that is CRAZY!!!! Can't even phantom someone acting on this, but WTF do I know?!!!


Better avoid those roughnecks in the oil patch. Probably no opportunities out on those ocean rigs, but the flatlanders are something else again. I'm pretty sure they'd opt for the warm and stability of four legs over some cold, new-fangled toy, 'specially one that needed accessories, and maintenance. Lol
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 66
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/13/2010 7:30:29 AM

So, deerdog1 - does the Fleshlight light up your nights?


actually I dont have one and have never had one ...a fleshlight that is ...well actually I have never had a farm animal either ...well sexually that is ..alive or dead

its called humor ..that and being bored ..that and being a person that just has to put my 2 cents in ... a personality disorder ..I know ...so I if I read a thread and don't have anything relevant to say ..I crack a joke ...some of them work ..some fall flat ...what can I say...running my mouth when I really didn't have anything to say has gotten me laid way more times than keeping it shut ...maybe when I should have ..just saying
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 67
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/13/2010 7:44:50 AM
Ya know I think it has alot to do with how comfortable one is with their sense of sexuality.

I had a boyfriend that had a fleshlight. It's a cool tool. Nothing any different than other toys. From mild to wild. I think when you allow your partner to truly be himself with you then sex is more enjoyable for those involved.
Toys are a part of play.

Maybe youve hit on alot of women's achilles heel. Like they say men are touchy about size.. maybe women are touchy about toys.
Maybe some women feel like if you have the real thing laying beside you why would you want THAT?... as if somehow it takes away from them.

Security is an issue for many people.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 68
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/13/2010 7:54:47 AM

Maybe some women feel like if you have the real thing laying beside you why would you want THAT?... as if somehow it takes away from them.


you can pretty much bet that a fleshlight never has a headache ....which brings up another issue in all my relationships I have never ...never turned down a partner for sex ...but all of them had toys ...and thought nothing about admitting they used them... Now I on the other hand have been turned down so much they now call me ...bed spread .....but you can bet if one of these toys came in the mail for me it would be the crime of the century

Damn the more I read the more I wish I could figure out how to get one of these things
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 69
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/13/2010 12:58:22 PM
It's okay to sleep with a dead farm animal (down comforter).
And it's okay to eat a dead farm animal - steak! Mmmmm. (Unless you're a vegetarian. But then, what's a humanitarian?)

But it's not okay to have sex with farm animals, dead or alive.
Fine with me, they're not my type.

Very good point! But actually, I don't think there's anything against having sex with dead farm animals, though.... you can eat them... or do them if you wish... or even sell them. But no sex with live ones.

Of course, I don't know how much worse a woman would react to a guy having sex with a live sheep vs ground beef. Of course, if she would complain about the ground beef, he could always hand her a sausage while he was going at it and begin a duet of "Old MacDonald had a farm..."
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 71
The Fleshlight
Posted: 9/14/2010 7:53:04 AM

I don't believe in masturbation so I think that yes it is wrong


oh come on you cant just make a statement like that and leave it at that...

you don't believe in masturbation for anyone?? ..you don't believe in masturbation for married people like your self ??.. you believe that masturbation is a sin that will send you to hell ??.. you think it is a sin for people who have no relationship and no release.. you believe that it is better for them to just be sexually frustrated ..in a bad mood .. desperate for companionship ..because of a buildup in hormones because they have no outlet ???.. have you ever masturbated???..do you believe it be better in the belly of a prostitute than spilled on the ground??...I'm married too and don't masturbate ... but there have been times in my life when it was necessary ..if it is a sin ...God ...your God ..made our sex drive ..and he made it accumulative ...he made it so powerful a intoxicant that without release many of are different people and without masturbation or a partner over time we would resort to worse sins ...if you are a mother ...and have a little boy especially ..the first thing they learn after finding their hands is that pulling on their penis feels really good ...and my daughter was not much different ..one of her little fingers stayed in her little coochie anytime her diaper was off ..and she would just smile and put it back if you pulled it out... nope pregnantlady you need to elaborate a bit more on your post
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