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 badbadgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 6
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^^^^so annoying, people always talking about their ex

and what about guys who can't help to stare at all the women passing by...
i'm not the jealous type but try to do this discretly
make me feel special a little bit...show me that your more interested in me than the others
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 8
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/30/2005 8:29:16 PM
having to keep up BOTH ends of the conversation because he's quiet/shy. Nothing wrong with that, just not for me.
 sammysalt
Joined: 8/24/2005
Msg: 18
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 8:17:37 AM
Its been forever, because me being married and all.(Not allowed to, so I don't.) lol But I would say when it hits me he wants to sleep with me, and don't know me yet. Not because he is really in to me, but thats just just how he is. I'm not attracted to someone that anyone could have. Its a major turn off.
 crazy_lady
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 23
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:20:32 PM
When a guys just rambles and rambles on about himself and me not being able to get a word in.

Then he finally realizes what he is doing and askes me a question ... eg.. "so, what do you like to do in your spare time?" I say.. oh, I like to garden .. and he starts to ramble on again about how much he likes to garden

grrrrrrrrrrrrrr no second date necessary! And I always tell them the reason for no next date!
 Grrretel
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 26
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:37:50 PM
poorly dressed - baseball caps especially
 Jaybo_31
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 29
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:34:37 PM
Women who just want to have sex. I get sick of it.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 35
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 8:31:22 PM
Her cell phone constantly going off and her talking on it each time it rings, not asking them to call back. I suppose it's her way of getting out of the date perhaps.
 kitchensink
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 54
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/14/2005 1:37:41 AM
When the woman talks non-stop about herself -- her life, her job, her interests, her likes, dislikes -- and you end up playing the role of bartender or psychiatrist and doing nothing but listening. *yawn*
 Cindycane
Joined: 9/6/2005
Msg: 57
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/21/2005 2:14:29 AM
When the conversation is heading south or the conversations feel forced. I hate that! Not just on dates though. It suck online too!
 odlss
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 64
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 3/20/2006 5:39:53 AM
turns out its me
 bewitchingsecret
Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 67
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 3/20/2006 6:59:38 AM

turns out its me


~ too funny

It turns me off when they show up 6 inches shorter than they claimed to be. If you're going to lie about something that I'll certainly notice, what other lies are there?
 Blanka
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 102
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 5/22/2006 7:07:00 PM
when the woman spends the first date telling me what she isn't going to do on the first date.
 ceastwood
Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 112
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:57:12 AM
if he is breathin,,,that is funny,,i say that about women sometimes,,
 bewitchingsecret
Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 132
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 8:42:57 PM
having to ask his mom if his curfew can be extended
 a_vamp
Joined: 4/24/2004
Msg: 134
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 1:36:01 AM
Constantly telling me some chicks around us (er.. where?) were checking him out cuz he's cute...

Hey... my eyes KNOW what is cute and and what's not.....
 a_vamp
Joined: 4/24/2004
Msg: 137
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:31:25 AM

his man boobs are bigger than ur rather impressive ones.



funny......
 lovemeforself
Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 156
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 6:49:18 AM
looking like he just came out the gutter. i was at a gathering my date comes walking through the door and he looked and smelled like he fell off the back of a fecal truck. he was just F***** up so i turned him right around hell he deffanantly was not staying with me it was the funniest s*** i ever saw
 baited hook
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 170
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/22/2006 10:38:06 AM
to many to list but here are a few: bad teeth, smelly breath, uninquisative, confrontational, know it all (cause they just dont know anything) third nipple
 HummerNuts
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 176
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:52:19 AM
Over baring men.. men that are far to pushy, there is a line between showing the lady you ar interested in her, body language ect..... and being vulgar, spitting out you wanna f%$#k... there is a way to a woman, and for me, thats not it. The way in would be through intellect, eye contact, honesty and being yourself... cause eventually it will come shine through
 supfreaks
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 180
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 9:44:10 AM
insecurity, being too quiet, and not laughing at my jokes...
 Lil Red Riding Hood
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 184
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:14:58 PM
A booger that's sticking out of his nose and every time he inhales and exhales, it shows.

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

And don't laugh, I've ran into that three times so far.....hahahaha
 2manyfrogs
Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 197
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/26/2006 6:14:33 PM
I once went out with a guy that bragged about still wearing the shoes he wore in high school. He was 32 years old. He always wanted to set at home and watch TV, cause it "was cheaper" than the movies.
I hate it when the guy is rude to the waitress or has road rage. You can almost bet he would treat his woman that way, too.
Bad breath, bad teeth, passing gas, dropping his drawers to show you his new "bareness" on the first date, rinsing his retainer in his water glass in a restaurant, making passes at other women, telling you he is falling in love with you, assuming you are his girl from now on, telling you he wants you to meet his parents, not leaving a tip at the restaurant........ I could go on and on....
 BuschBrosFan
Joined: 8/5/2006
Msg: 198
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/26/2006 6:41:52 PM
wow.. you girls are making me sound soooooo good. Glad i dont do that sh*t.
 DrWho999
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 202
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Posted: 11/14/2006 3:13:48 PM
Being late, by far, is the biggest turn off. It just sets the mood for the rest of the evening.
 Ratero-park-man
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 204
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 11/14/2006 3:21:22 PM
I guesse a bad attitude is one thing that would be an easy turn-off, along with being arrogant and not being genuine.
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