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Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 2
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That is terribly inconsiderate of this man. Maybe you should remind
him that you are honoring him with your most intimate embrace. He should care enough
to take his time.
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 3
Posted: 9/27/2005 12:08:02 AM
Yeah,,some guys are clueless. I was with my guy for 2 yrs (FWB) and he still didnt understand he concept of foreplay, which is one of the reasons i ended it. He considered it that i was being aggressive by suggesting things like the way i like to be touched,,,, where,,,etc,,,, and he hates aggressive women. lol So yeah,,'some' guys are utterly clueless and 'un-teachable'. lol
Joined: 9/5/2004
Msg: 7
Posted: 9/27/2005 6:00:26 AM
The worst was when my ex and I were trying to get pregnant. How the hell do you remain interested in foreplay (or anything else) when you're screwing around 3 times a day for a week.

"honey, i'm ovulating. get your hairy butt in here and do your dirty business."

Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 9
Posted: 9/27/2005 6:19:59 AM
MM I thought being with a woman smelling her scent in her hair slowlly touching and caresing her body from her toes to her ears, kissing every where you touch and making this last for hours is foreplay. It shocks me no check that, it doesnt shock me that the almighty orgasm is all thats on a mans mind when hes with a woman. I suppose these guys dont savor the ice cream cone of life either but rather just get a headache from eating it so fast? Enjoy a woman the one your with savor every inch of her essence, and then try to hang on for the ride of your life. Ah the joy of making a woman satisfied.
 ~Dangerous Liaison~
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 11
Posted: 9/27/2005 1:43:00 PM
show him how to introduce teasing into foreplay by demonstrating on him. He will get the picture really quick.
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 13
Posted: 9/27/2005 3:24:32 PM
It is the ultimate, without foreplay, the rest can be really boring. I would rather build up to the moment. But that I am not into WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM. Occasional quicky aside, but then that depends on the mood of both.
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 17
Posted: 9/27/2005 6:14:27 PM
you contribute to the problem by tolerating it.
Just say "no" to bad sex, LMAO.
Joined: 8/3/2005
Msg: 20
Posted: 9/27/2005 6:33:12 PM
Maybe you could try some pictures?? He may not know for real!
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 21
Posted: 9/11/2008 7:16:02 PM
actually i think foreplay is what makes lovemaking a wonderfull experience plus what gut would refuse making his girl orgasm.
Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 9/11/2008 7:32:18 PM

you contribute to the problem by tolerating it.
Just say "no" to bad sex, LMAO.

Right on Pandy!

If you enable him to keep doing it, then this is more your fault than his. Someone gave you a spine and a voice...use either or both. And don't expect men to "get hints"...ain't gonna happen.

Back to the OP - Foreplay to me is essential. Without it, sex is

Exception being quickies of course.

Joined: 7/25/2008
Msg: 23
Posted: 9/11/2008 7:37:13 PM
Sounds like he's young and inexperienced. Show him what you like and how it affects you. Start before the clothes come off!

He'll thank you for it!
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 24
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:03:46 PM
one option, just take him to bed drop his pants don't even take them off and jump on and ride him for a while then get off and say 'wow that was great sex' did you like it and see what his reaction is. If it is not WTF then he has no clue and likely will never 'get it'
Joined: 12/10/2006
Msg: 25
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:51:22 PM
No foreplay is like expecting sex without kissing......cold. Where is the turn on?
Joined: 6/20/2008
Msg: 26
Posted: 9/11/2008 10:23:31 PM
I love foreplay and do it for hours but some guys dont. Here are some reasons I would not or could not get into foreplay.

1) partner dont turn you on. Or worse irritates you.
2) this is a big one. ODOR, ruins the mood fast.
3) talks too much or is a trafic cop in bed.

Other than these things foreplay is great. If these things happen I listed above that could be a reason a guy want to get it over with.
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 27
Posted: 9/11/2008 11:21:52 PM
Married to one that doesn't have a clue. well guess he didn't care . After 40 years i think he must know by now ! Too Late !
It is very selfish of the man. And being young had a lot to do with it. But then after him reading all those playboys and watching all those porn~~ you would think he would know ! I guess some just don't care no matter how much you tell them ? They get a lot more back if she is happy right ??
Joined: 6/20/2008
Msg: 28
Posted: 9/11/2008 11:25:53 PM
dewey that could be the problem. you tell him and make another chore for him. do something crazy and knock his socks off instead. Make him have to pull the sheets out of his crack.
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 29
Posted: 9/12/2008 12:09:40 AM
Life's too short to put up with a selfish/clueless lover. Ditch him and move on.
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/12/2008 1:28:38 AM
With the quickie being the exception; I can't imagine sex without foreplay. I have no time, or patients, for a selfish lover.
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 31
Posted: 9/12/2008 8:25:43 AM
I like sixteen play ....foreplay *4 girls
Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:01:34 AM
Some men do foreplay because it make the woman turned on or it's necessary requirement for sex. I personally enjoy it tremendously for my own pleasure. I like to fondle and caress my woman long before intercourse. Often I will slide my hands inside her blouse and caress her breasts and nipples, or kiss her neck and shoulders, or slow dancing very close. I prefer her to wear skirts so that I might slide my hands under her skirt and caress her. To me this is the best part of sex, the long build up and caressing. It's not something to rush through just before sex. It's as if sitting down for a wonderful meal. You don't want to gulp down the hors d'oeuves, appetizers, soup etc and quickly get to the main course. It's so much better to linger and enjoy the wonderful bounty before you and enjoy it for it's own pleasure.
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 33
Posted: 9/12/2008 9:12:30 AM
Oh hellsapopin I forgot my answer now after reading your it hot in here or what???

I couldn't be with a man that didn't enjoy wouldn't seem right somehow.
Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/13/2008 8:20:08 AM
Hey i know this a little off subject but how important is penis size
Joined: 8/20/2008
Msg: 35
Posted: 9/13/2008 8:36:25 AM
Sounds to me he is only thinking with his unit. His mind is not in it. He is selfish. Foreplay is 90% of the pleasure. Find someone that is more concerned about you, that will relish the thought of enjoying every inch of you. Someone who gets off at the thought providing you pleasure more than achieving his own pleasure.
Joined: 12/10/2006
Msg: 36
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:28:26 PM
And does he just lay there while you do all the work for you and him?
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 37
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:37:19 PM
Alright, I'm I the only one whose never heard it called "groundhog hole"?
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