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 crazyastheycum
Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 1
oral sex and the double standardPage 1 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
why is it that alot of men will let a woman give him oral sex, but will not return the favor? i have the RULE of if a woman will not let me "smell the flowers", she aint gettin none from me. why do other men feel that it is "gross" or whatever to give oral sex to a woman. and also, ladies that will recieve but not give, why?
 badbadgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 2
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 1:38:39 AM
there should be more men like u
 Tick Tock
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/3/2005 4:01:01 AM
^ IMHO, women who say that have a very low self image and are afraid that YOU may be revolted by THEM. I've had women say that before but I really doubted them, so I continued to push my luck until they had a weak moment. Let me tell you, once it happens they'll want it again and again. Once it happens, you must reassure them that you really loved doing it otherwise they will second guess what just happened.
 WING-NUT
Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 4
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:06:37 PM
I didn't know such an animal existed...There are men that don;t give oral???? DAYMN, I could stay down there for hours.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 5
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:17:08 PM
Hello Falln. I like your thinking. I would never expect a woman to go down on me, just because I gave her oral. I do it because I want to satisfy them to the utmost, before haveing penetration. I think it is as great lead up to good sex, because a woman can have 3 times as many orgasm as a man can.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 6
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:21:45 PM
I also think that ALL women like oral sex. If they do not want a man to go down on them, it may be because they are from the OLD SCHOOL, or that they think it is dirty. but, maybe because they do not think that they are clean enough for a man to give them ORAL.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 7
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:25:51 PM
I agree with you. A womans juices are sweet, and I could stay there all day.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 8
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:28:46 PM
Fallen Angel, I do not think that a man should insist that a woman give him head. It should be a WANT TO thing.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 9
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:30:34 PM
Fallen Angel, I do not think that a man should insist that a woman give him head. It should be a WANT TO thing.
 loves4play2
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 10
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:33:02 PM
Hustler, I cannot believe that you have not had a lot of men wanting to give you ORAL. I could spend all day with you honey.
 crazyastheycum
Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 11
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/5/2005 1:52:47 AM
ok, i never said that if i go down that you better go down too, what i said was that when a girl or guy will let someone go down on them but wont go down on thier partner EVER, that it was a double standard.
 TastyDik
Joined: 10/6/2005
Msg: 13
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/6/2005 1:44:01 PM
I think as long as she's clean, I will lick and eat her until her cooch and ass wrinkles up as if she was bathing in a tub. IMO some women are inhibited and are afraid to have a guy go down there. On the other hand, some women think its gross or demeening to fellate a guy. I guess, if it becomes too much of a problem, then MOVE ON. Someone else will appreciate you much better.
 PhyneLiquor
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 14
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 3:27:35 PM
i actually love to give, but i don't like to receive...

...i think maybe because an ex once stopped in the middle of doing it and calmly told me that she "could bite it off" if she wanted to..

I immediately suggested we move on to "other activities" , ever since I've had a phobia..

but I still love to give, and feel, see, hear, & taste her excited reactions...

Since then I have had women try to go down on me but I push them away, I just can't relax and feel comfortable with it..but I go down on them, almost all love it and want more..I can't complain that they are selfish since many do make the offer..but I turn it down..

come to think of it, what a B**** my ex was.. LOL
 TangoUnchained
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/7/2005 10:34:00 PM
Ya gotta be able to give N take. Simple rule of the day.
 Ashes2Ashes
Joined: 10/7/2005
Msg: 16
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:39:44 PM
is it just me or is anyone else getting a little turned on with all this oral sex talk lol cuz i havent had any in so long and i wasn't even thinkin bout it till i came on this site and now im craving it lol
 TangoUnchained
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/8/2005 1:06:38 AM
lol, it's a passion for some people :D It's never that far from my mind.
 PhyneLiquor
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 18
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 3:57:47 AM
For all the guys so proud and intent on advertising they can eat it all night and not want or do anything else, I don't think there's that many women that want only that and NOT a good pounding after..(IME, anyway..)


and if there IS, they can get THAT from a woman! (maybe better than you can do it..)

So I wouldn't be beating my chest TOO much about the only thing you love to do is eat it..they'll probably think it's because you can't get it up anyway! LOL :)

Are you guys lesbians trapped in a man's body or what??

or think you're so ugly you "have to", etc.
 PhyneLiquor
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 19
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:05:51 AM
ooh a touch of hostility there?

I spend a max. of one hour a day in the gym, if it's any of your business..

(I'm sure you're way too busy to spare an hour every other day though...)

seems like maybe you are more in love with your 'cycle than with your woman? do you lick it too?
does it keep you warm at night? (maybe if you get 'er good & hot & snuggle against the tailpipes..)
 PhyneLiquor
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 20
Medal and Applause for NS_PI, please!!
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:24:02 AM
everybody chip in to buy a medal for NS_PI and give him a standing ovation because he's such a "hero" for wanting to please the woman and not have sex in return, as he has told us over & over again..

maybe if he had self-esteem he wouldn't be reduced to being a sex-toy to be used by a woman with no pleasure for himself..
 Jaybo_31
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 21
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:07:52 PM
Is it easy: it feels much better to get your****sucked them to eat a women.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 9/25/2007 2:36:00 PM
God must be an engineer. only an engineer would run a refuse disposal pipeline through a recreation area.
 john52758
Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:40:17 PM
Geez! I could not even imagine not going down....and all around !
 thickpipe
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:43:23 PM
I like to eat p****y. You know I am having the same issue with my girlfriend. She likes it hen I go down on her but she won't put the hog in her mouth.
 thickpipe
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 27
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:47:48 PM
HA HA HA HA HA!! STINKWEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I always called a nasty smellin kooch "ViVa Laree" or even better "Vinigans Farm"
 Keithslegacy
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:12:40 PM
I've never had a problem with it......unless it reeks down there.
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