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 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 1
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is it possible to have a sort of light bulb moment when you get over an ex? i had been having a hard time getting over a 4 year relationship.

i'm involved with someone now and i know it was stressful for him. i'd get that faraway look, cry for nothing.......you know the drill

but lately i have been getting stronger and today, i don't know, i just feel really really over him.

does that happen?
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 2
oh my god.....i'm over him
Posted: 11/16/2005 1:49:37 PM
good to know, folks. thanks for the reassurance!
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/16/2005 1:56:34 PM
haha! i'll bet it did.

it is a good feeling. freeing!
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/16/2005 2:00:48 PM
he deserves it. god he has been fantastic. he's let me know that he hates how i still felt about my ex, but that i was worth it.

i owe him big!!

i can't imagine being so lucky to have found someone like that
 ZarinaZ
Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 5
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oh my god.....i'm over him
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:40:15 AM
I surely hope so...I am dealing with that now..a fairly new break up after 3 years and he is in Iraq and doesn't want to deal with our relationship right now.."Move on he says"...right i am trying but it's not easy...I'm glad your light switched on..looking for mine.
 DeagleNINja
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/12/2006 1:24:20 AM
Congratulations!

Now if only I could get over you....
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 1/12/2006 9:03:56 AM
it's been a little over a year now.

having the occasional "moment" happens but i no longer daydream about what if...
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:43:18 PM
Yes, it happens, then you get your period, and WHAM! you're back to crying again.
But it does get easier as time goes on, until finally you stop crying completely. And you look at the man in your arms and think 'What was I crying so much for?'
Beth
 VivaciousVixen2010
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 9
oh my god.....i'm over him
Posted: 8/14/2009 12:16:02 AM
i think one of the biggest healing gifts that an ex can give you is for you to realize that he doesn't want you and doesn't care. if he did he would be with you. why would you want somebody who rejects you?
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