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If a woman dates a man 20 years older than them, that would suggest that the man could possibly be a pedophile.
20 is to 40 as; 10 is to 30.
In the "How young is too young" thread, most men said 18 is as young as they will go. So what is stopping them? Legalities, an imaginary line that is not to be crossed. In the Victorian age women were married as young as 13, and were often mothers by 14. Even in the Bible pedophilia was accepted.
How many men have quams with dating someone 20 years younger than them if they were in their 40's? How much would you honestly have in common with them? There would be no reminiscing, no "Remember when". So why would women go for aged men? Wisdom? Sorry, but age does not equate to wisdom. Money? Again, age does not equate to money.
Commonality has just been disproven, age is irrelevant... So it comes down to two things shallowness of the woman, or a mental disorder steming from the Electra Complex.
The male side of the story is one of two things (or both), he is a pervert or he is going through a mid-life crisis.