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Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 3
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Dam I wish I would have thought of that!
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 5
The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 3/22/2006 4:01:36 PM
Very good...even though only a woman could be that Still laughing. (I notice not many men have posted
Joined: 1/5/2005
Msg: 6
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The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 3/22/2006 8:52:58 PM
hhhmmm.. I hate shrimp.. what else could be used? :)
 veni vedi vici
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 7
The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 3/22/2006 9:05:36 PM
way to go!thumbs up on that one!!
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 8
The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 7/3/2007 8:47:56 PM
I agree steve, and here's an example of your principle in action,
I met a woman on this site on jan25 this year.
We agreed during our first ever conversation that we were both looking for a 'friend with benefits' with intimacy and affection of course (like friends have) and nothing too serious as she had just separated from her husband after 17 years and I hadn't been in a relationship for many years and wasn't emotionally equipped to deal with attaching my feelings to another person. We agreed, talked long into the night, well I talked and she listened happily to my descriptions of everything we would be doing together and we met the next day and... pretty much did them.
She was open about the fact that she had been very promiscuous with other guys since her separation and I accepted that, but she didn't tell anymore than that and implied she was over that behaviour.
I have never had a 'casual sexual relationship' before so I didn't know how often we should talk or meet up. I left it to her to call me. The next day I received a txt, then I replied and then I called her and then the next day she called me and then the next... you can see where I'm going with this.
Over the next few months I stayed at her house while her kids were there. I helped in the garden, cooked them a meal, we talked for hours every night and when we met up we had some really romantic nights, one in particular during that summer when the thunderstorm roared outside while the cooling wind blew through the house and and the candles and incense burned and the music played... that was great.
I had been jealous because I knew that she was seeing other guys and her profile was always still up on plentyoffish and she was onlnie checking it every day but I could deal with it, sure I didn't like it but I put up with it, even the funny looking 'bruises' she appeared with.
I deserved everything I got, right?
I started to think about her every day and although we were only supposed to be casual sex friends I realised that we had become more.
After three months things started to change, just as I fell ill, oddly, (I think she thought people being sick was boring to her), and one day I was overcome by this sense that something bad was going to happen and that she had had enough of me. During our call that night I expected to get dumped but all was as normal so I let the feeling pass. Over the next few days I thought, "I think I've fallen in love with her. I will tell her and see what happens." so I planned to do that.
But before I could we had a little break for about a week from seeing each other due to some situation in her life and I couldn't call her till she said it was ok and during that week I received the carefully composed txt message that said she 'didn't have time in her life for me and bye'. I was stunned and thought I'd wait to see if she called me.
A week later, nothing. By now I was hurt, angry, depressed, jealous- all the usuals and one Sunday morning I woke up and checked plentyoffish and saw she'd been online checking her ad and suddenly thought right, let's see what's going on here cause this is a gyp.
I invented Daimo69. He's blonde, 32, 6 foot 2, athletic, loves her team, lives nearby and is sending her a message.
Three minutes later...
She's replied and wants to chat right now on msn. Daimo69 hasn't got msn so they'll chat using plentyoff's email and to speed things up he'll ask 10 questions to start with: Does she like sex? Does she like young hot studs? Does she want to meet this afternoon? (After all he lives nearby!) All answered in the affirmative in glowing terms except for that afternoon's meeting (I must give her credit, she had a cold and told him it 'wasn't a good look for a first meeting') but still the excuse for dumping me was looking a bit thin at this point.
Daimo69's response to her eager reply,
"Actually this is... (real name held back for legal reasons)
I just wanted to make sure you were a liar
and that you lied to me
I hope someone
tricks you into caring
and then hurts you one day."
Revenge? Maybe, but you have to know don't you? When you care and someone just drops you like a poo at a fart factory and goes on their merry way, you need closure. But that wasn't it.
Within two weeks, I started talking to her again as 'friends'. I felt like she was keeping me on the same emotional level as we had had but without any option to express that affection and I knew it was never going to grow into what I wanted, that is to love her, even if she still saw other guys, I'm not that immature. It's not wrong to want to show affection physically to the person you love is it? There was still a nagging pain because she never really explained why she'd dropped me and it became obvious to me (I'm psychic) that she was happily banging someone else. I felt it in my soul. I admitted to her I loved her and that I'd been planning to tell her. Her reply was "You depress people". That was callous.
So, I got into her email account (password change secret question was a cinch) and read every single email in there and used her pass to look at every single dating site she was on and read everything on her accounts.
On one dating site I noticed a 'woman looking for women' in her 'friends' list, so, as would be fittingly logical, (since men are truly nothing to her emotionally), she is beginning to think about becoming bi and then eventually a full blown lesbian.
The married traveling salesman guy she'd been giving it to was anally obsessed with her, sent her porn clips and described her 'lovingly' as "my little whore in the bedroom" to which, upon reading, she twittered with excitement and encouraged him even more to use her as a sex toy. There were other messages I found there too from other guys.
Sadly, I concluded that she fitted the dictionary definition of a 'harlot' or what we call in Australia, 'a mole'.
Closure was becoming mine.
I am not proud to say but I learned something about myself reading those messages and that was, I am evil.
I let rip at her with the insulting txt messages and after a few hours, she guessed what I'd done.
Her sad and lonely, not yet ex husband ,who's still in love with her, would sell the house from under her and/or would nearly certainly kill her if he knew the content of even one of those messages. To this day she has no idea if I made a copy of her account and burned it to disc and/or whether I will one day send it to hubby. Who knows, it might happen. I feel the revenge cycle is not yet complete. These may have only been pre-emptive strikes. I'll see how I feel day to day. I am extremely cunning when injured.
She wasn't too pleased I'd been into her account.
I hope she likes to know how it feels to have power taken back and that she learns a lesson about using men as playthings and hurting a man who loves you.
My broken heart still hurts. It always will. I am loyal to my affections.
For anyone reading who is nursing one, it never goes away, you just get more used to the pain being there over time and it becomes like you can't feel it as much.
I really am a horrible for doing that to her.
But to be fair, I did txt her her new password.
Joined: 7/22/2004
Msg: 9
The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 7/3/2007 9:29:17 PM
Wonder what men reading will think?
First he would view all the women who liked this sort of vendictiveness.( the ones who posted) . Respect goes out the window for them. Next, he would keep track of these women, never to write them or date them, because they have extremely low mentality and are nasty. They would think a little deeper. If these women who posted would like something like this, Just what other filthy agendas are they capable of.
Lastly, what goes around, comes around, and not by you, it always comes back to you 10 fold. In the Bible, meaning the same thing, it states: You Reap What You Sow.
Its no wonder you women who posted are single. You might not have posted the original, but you are all connected by concuring association.
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 11
The Ultimate Revenge
Posted: 7/4/2007 4:05:37 PM
Hey ohiolady59,
If you read my story properly you would see that I recognised that I was immature emotionally from the start of the relationship with her and so we made an arrangement to safeguard from this becoming a problem. See the first part? Perhaps I didn't expound the idea to its fullest extent for you to see, but this woman began making advances toward me on such a regular basis that I was bound to get used to her being around and from these I was sure to develop an affection beyond that which I felt was safe. She knew that and cultivated it, then betrayed it. It was my fault I didn't do something about it but i was emotionally immature and liked it. Perhaps I thought there was going to be more to our relationship as time went on, hence my 'immature' reaction to being passed over so she could lavish her affections on strangers.
If you're going to cast aspersions on others maybe you need to examine the stated facts more closely before posting. It will make you seem less ignorant. And if you find revenge so distateful, wtf are you doing in this thread anyway?
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