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 hairybum
Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 5
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Sure, as long as it means I don't have to give him oral sex either.
 kelly71
Joined: 10/19/2005
Msg: 11
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:36:44 PM
no.......

unless I could have a stunt double fill in for him for that...
 sleepless_in_Newmarket
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 12
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:40:34 PM
Funny, my first girlfriend so to speak, same thing. Loved to receive, but would not give. Her policy. "I would never do that!', she said.

I dated a woman this year who loved to receive, but would not give, either. Also refused to assume the doggy position. Thought it was "degrading". Oh, and her handjobs were limp-wristed two-finger debacles. Oi Vey. Just my luck. Needless to say, I gave her the boot.
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 13
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:45:44 PM
Yeah, not sure if I could do it.
If it's somthing we can work through..then fine.
But without Oral...I just..wouldnt be as satisfied, since I mostly only cum from oral sex..
So....
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 15
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:49:35 PM

I think it's mostly a chicks' issue not to go down

True, somewhat. I know when I first started giving oral, I didnt like it too much because I didnt like to swallow.
Now, I still dont like to swallow :) lol ( Sue me) But I love the feeling of cum in my mouth, i just let it trail down my lips afterwards..he's fine with that, and So am I. I just cam't stomach the cum is all, feels like raw egg whites sliding down my throat. Ick.
 kelly71
Joined: 10/19/2005
Msg: 16
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:50:04 PM
John -

your bubbies? Must be a Canadian term, eh?

I also wouldn't date a man if they wouldn't LET me go down.
 sleepless_in_Newmarket
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 17
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 12:50:36 PM
That's funny. I remember in high school a friend of mine had a lot of fun asking other guys if they've ever eaten at the Y. They'd say, "No, the food is bad there." or some such remark. We would laugh and laugh.
 sleepless_in_Newmarket
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 22
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 3:00:50 PM
You know, the old generation viewed things differently I think. I remember as a 20 year old, my dad and I got into a heated discussion about certain STDs, and I let it slip that you can get them through oral sex as well. His reaction?

"Why would you want to put your mouth there? You could a disease my son! That's for sickos. Normal people don't do that! Only sickies do stuff like that!"


 Buck00012000
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 24
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:28:18 PM
I'm sorry....I can't get past Kel having a stunt double and who that might be....

Okay..first...I would not date a man regardless

And...it is the first question on my predate application for women: 1) Do you give head? If answer is no, do not proceed to question 2 and get the hell out of my sight!
 i am4u
Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 25
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:37:38 PM
yes i have and it is cool i will not die if i get none
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 28
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 5:12:29 PM
sometimes NO BJs are better than BAD BJs.
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 31
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 5:59:03 PM
Given that I'm not interested in sex at all, that kind of thing would be irrelevant for someone dating me.
 Buck00012000
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 32
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 6:34:32 PM
Ted, it's a freaking good thing that it's irrelevant to you since I don't see you getting any for a long time Bubba!
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 33
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 6:39:22 PM
it's quite possible that i could die without head.

i think i have a medical condition that will cause my brain to explode if i don't get head on a regular basis.

it hasn't been proven by a doctor yet...but i'm just not willing to risk it.
 helen of troy
Joined: 9/5/2005
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/15/2005 7:32:23 PM
I agree with arri, no muff pie is better than bad muff pie! I dont care if I receive it. I find guys are usually better with their hands and fucking.
 East Van Man
Joined: 7/25/2004
Msg: 41
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 3:26:50 AM
Of course love is deeper than just oral sex. Only a unbelievably shallow person would say NO
 blondegreeneyedgal
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 48
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 9:32:34 AM
^ agrees lol all depends what else hes good at it but generally no would be my answer
 JPitalian
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 54
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 10:19:48 AM
I don't care if she came over striaght from the playboy mansion.. no head, no girlfriend. It's the damn 2000's and chicks still think its gross or they don't know how. Watch a freeking porn i mean it's not that difficult. I love hooking up a chick and I expect it in return. And ladies for godsake shave that thing... jeez. Nothing worst then getting down there and finding the set of keys your lost last week. Oh yeah just watch the teeth and we'll get along fine!
 Nader60
Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 55
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 10:50:45 AM
I did in college. My girlfriend neither gave nor received. It just wasn't her thing. I don't know if she thought it was dirty or what. It would be tough to be in a relationship like that today.
 hightechredneck
Joined: 9/7/2005
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 10:53:08 AM
I dated a chick for 3 years that would not give oral. She always wanted oral, but always refused to give. That was OK with me though because I don't get into getting blow jobs that much anyway.
 LMAN_67
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 58
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/16/2005 7:26:07 PM
i could never date someone who didnt love to give oral..its happened alot actually ..where i didnt even bother "pursuibg"someone cause she said she didnt like giving bjs..to each theyre own..but i couldnt go without...
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 60
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 7:46:11 AM
In a word?.....NO!! I don't have a problem with someone who doesn't like oral sex, but I would not be interested in dating them either.
 §püngl䧧
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 61
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:36:58 AM
LOL...this question really made me think. The typical response for me would be..if I loved them blah blah...but when I thought honestly..no...I don't think I would! YIKES. haha The shallow side of me.. Damn though, that's just too much to have to resign myself to miss out on...
 69aries
Joined: 12/12/2006
Msg: 62
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:48:27 AM
i would open up the communication lines, and ask "why"?

it might be, as the last poster said, " just too much, to have to resign myself to miss out on..." but then again...???
 Vitiate
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 68
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 2:33:41 PM
Depends...

First of all I'd have to test to see if she's being real or playing a role...

"I don't give oral" and then after a while caves and gives oral could just be by design...

Makes you feel more special, see?...Like you're different from the rest...I'd play along for a little bit to see if she was telling the truth.

If she was, then I'd just get her reallllllllllllllllllllll drunk and see if that has any impact....if not, then the next time I'd get her real drunk again and put it in her butt...

The next day, I'd tell her how AMAZING her butt was then offer her a choice...we could do that instead (keep in mind her ass will be KILLING her) make sure to stress how happy it made you and how much sexier she is than anyone else in that department...or you could SETTLE for oral...the choice is hers.
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