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 harryarse
Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 2
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MOST WOMEN TALK ABOUT IT,ITS ALL TALK
 BulldogMedic
Joined: 12/31/2004
Msg: 3
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/1/2005 8:05:20 PM
do many women think about swinging?? - I don't know.

do many women think about swinging at me with their fists?? - Yes.
 rxxx2600
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 5
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/2/2005 2:23:45 PM
I just had to ad my two cents worth...
I have had the wonderful experience of being in a threesome FFM and am very glad to have had the opportunity to do so...and still I fantasize about my next threesome experience.
In my opinion I think most women are really more sexually liberated then they dare let on...after all what will the neighbours think...next time try inviting the neighbours over.

RX
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 10
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:41:54 PM
never tried, but since I am a guy I'm dying to try...just want to experience it to say I've done it and see if i've been missing out...

Who am I kidding? I know I've been missing out
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 12
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:45:51 PM
I am well aware, rub it in a bit more why don't you! lol
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 13
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:49:06 PM
and then find another person and invite me to join haha
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 14
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:51:52 PM
or an early birthday present, either or...i'd be more than grateful
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 15
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:53:39 PM
oh for sure, I'd probably think i died and went to heaven
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 16
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 1:56:25 PM
praying for it
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 17
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:05:38 PM
yes, how'd you know?
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 19
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:09:34 PM
so what kind of threesomes have you been in then?
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 21
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:14:09 PM
thats awesome...jealous
 biggum2k
Joined: 11/26/2004
Msg: 22
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:15:57 PM
so who initiated the action?
 endogoddess
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 25
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do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 4/6/2005 1:04:44 PM
I think many women think about it, but are to afraid to act. I have done it with my partner and it was fabulous. I'm always looking for a sexy woman to join me.
 SweetShaker
Joined: 7/2/2004
Msg: 26
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do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 4/6/2005 1:09:43 PM
I have always wanted to try, but have never found the people to try with, or found them at the wrong time.

When I told my husband, the poor man, I thought he was going to be sick or divorce me on the spot.

But yeah, I still think about it all the time.
 beachinbabe
Joined: 12/14/2004
Msg: 27
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 6/26/2005 11:25:23 AM
Swingin is alot of fun. More people are into it than ya think! I've found people that I work with and in my hood, that swing! So you never know? your pharmacist or doctor or waitress may swing? I love it!!!
 beachinbabe
Joined: 12/14/2004
Msg: 29
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 6/26/2005 12:48:48 PM
swinging to me is 2 couples of more.......playin with each other, and enjoying the whole experience.....
 PlaynWithDummies
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 41
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 10/23/2006 6:58:53 PM
I thought this thread was about sex swings..... ooops,
carry on.
 PlaynWithDummies
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 43
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 10/23/2006 7:20:36 PM
^^ well I wasn't thinking that it would be necessarily easier on the back persay. I was thinking about wall sex, and when the guy is much taller for you than normal.

Unless you use a bench or stool, or you wear 4" heels. But I find that image pretty funny. Think about it, you are both butt nekked, and you are against the wall wearing your 4" heeled boots....

I just about piss my pants laughing. All that is missing is a whip! Yeee--haw.

So, the obvious choice would be to schwing baby.
 Kliener
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 48
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 11/18/2006 11:32:17 AM
Never well on my behalf I would never be interested in swinging.

That kinda stuff leads to being on Springer or Maury and everyone can laugh at you.
I don't want to be that kinda girl that has to test 7 guys to find out who the daddy is of my baby.
 sugar?baby
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 62
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 1/21/2007 4:16:42 PM
hmmmmmmmmmm I have to reply to this message, number 4 that is! i am a Bisexual women as of recently i guess? Its something i allways wanted to look at since I can remember but just recently had my adventures with threesomesinc.. women, i joined a very hot couple for a night and i had another encounter with a women and a man whom were friends and yea i agree that most of my friends think about it too even if they flat out deny!I mean they asked soo many questions about the experience, but srsly women are beautiful, erotic, soft and yea men are beautiful too, just some advice if its something you really want to explore just go for it! it was srsly amazing and i am sooo lookin forward to more research on this lol, sooo yea saksyallie where abouts do you live???I would be happy to help ya out! :)
 floridaman4u
Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 87
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do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 2/11/2007 5:38:32 PM
it can be way 2 much fun... but be careful what you wish 4 and how you approach it...there are 4 the most part 2 types of swingers .(in couples ).. those who love it and those who it tears apart ... my advice is visit a local swing club with only intention to observe and then talk it over at a later date ....and never insist ,push or force your partner...and remember it works both ways you want another girl ..be prepared to share her with another man it will at some point be an issue.... swinging is a lifestyle not a fix 4 your marriage problems ... and it has to be 4 an added plus to ur sex life not because somethings missing ... if your both 100% in it can be the best if not your looking at disaster .... best wishes ..
 floridaman4u
Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 89
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do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 2/12/2007 9:00:10 AM
4 lack of a better word swinging describes all outside one on one ... my no mistake its swinging i have been involved in several different types of 3rd and more party type of relations and swinging is swinging ... have fun ...
 Fun_Jess
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 91
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 2/12/2007 10:21:58 PM
thinking and doing are 2 completely different things
 rxxx2600
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 97
do many women think about swinging??
Posted: 3/30/2007 6:12:29 PM
I've been in the swinging lifestyle for about 6 yrs...and while swinging may not be for every couple...my experience has been nothing short of fantastic.
I am part of a loving, secure relationship and we have found swinging to be a very fun rewarding enhancement to our relationship. We only play together as a couple and there is no jealously or distrust in our relationship and the experience as even brought us closer as a couple
We are free to explore our sexual fantasies and have met some wonderful new friends along the way...
I've read this thread in it's entirety and a lot of folks have this pre-concieved notion on what swinging is...in short...swinging is entirely what ever you want it to be...there are many, many different variations. It's not always about swapping partners and having sex..It's about connecting with other open mined folks and having some good clean adult fun...and most of us heathly adults just happen to enjoy sex...
If your relationship is a little shaky or your confused with what you want out of a relationship...I don't recommend this lifestyle...it is more for those happy and secure with themselfs and their relationship and looking to explore what the lifestyle can offer.
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