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 shelleybear
Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 1
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It just give me a tremendous case of blue-balls.
Am I the only one whjo can't?
Has anyone been able to actually deal with this problem, and is it really a problem?
What do you ladies think?
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:25:46 AM
the guy ive been seeing for two years couldnt. Until a few nights ago
But then again, he said that he;s never been able to do it, and well, hes 44, so.... :)
Pleasant surprise.
 Jersey101
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:27:14 AM
I have never run across a guy that cannot cum orally. But I find if it is me on the recieving end of oral then I have trouble letting go. almost like i am too nervous to just let loose. Guys are probably different. another thing is you might be wanting it so much that you over think it in your mind and cant let go.
 shelleybear
Joined: 5/5/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:36:07 AM
Reading your profile, I'm only suprised it took two years.
Bravo!
 shelleybear
Joined: 5/5/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:40:43 AM
Closest I ever came to cumming that way was bringing myself as close as I could while she watched and then having her suck me as I did. Still doesn't count in my opinion.
I'm afraid that as far as orgasm goes, I"m pretty much a "Tab A" in "Slot B" kind of guy
 MDNinja
Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:41:21 AM
I can only cum through my**** not my mouth.
 shelleybear
Joined: 5/5/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:42:52 AM
Ah, humor.
Always welcome.
 Bandito
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:43:39 AM
I would cum evertime my now ex wife would threaten orally to leave me...does that count?

Bana-dito
 christopher1972
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:49:19 AM
Well if its the first load no problems here, if its my 2nd or 3rd she'll have to work at it.
 rickyb18
Joined: 7/30/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/20/2005 3:04:45 PM
ive never been able to, but then again, maybe we havent found the right person who knows how to do it right
 xX420Xx
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:00:50 PM
I can that in a weakness
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:05:13 PM
once.

other than that, it takes me a while to cum anyway...orally or not.
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:32:15 PM
the truth?

when i was a kid, i was beaten up a lot. i was smaller, and i was mouthy back then as well.

kids being kids, the groin is a popular area to target...and because of that, i've lost some sensation down there. everything still feels good...but most times i quite easily outlast my partner...and cumming is something that i need to concentrate on.

moreso if i've been "hitting the sauce"...

*edit*

there are a few upsides tho...

i've never been a 2-stroke choke.
blueballs don't happen. ever.
 Brako
Joined: 12/16/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 11:42:17 PM
Two Thumbs Up!!!!!
 averagejoe..no
Joined: 12/19/2005
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Posted: 12/22/2005 6:44:00 PM
wtf i hope this thread is a joke
 averagejoe..no
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/22/2005 6:54:25 PM
all i can say if i had a nickle for everytime i have (need help on lessons im me ill give u my exgirlfriends #)
 jennthelpn
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/19/2006 6:17:09 PM
every single guy I have given head to had no problem finishing
 Real_Brunette
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:23:38 AM
my son's father was unable to cum orally. I even took the challenge. He thinks it is psychological..I think he is right.
 mrcandyman187
Joined: 8/8/2005
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Posted: 2/5/2006 9:04:05 AM
It's all about how well a woman reads you when she's doing it. If she can't read how I'm moving, shaking, moaning (or wimpering, lol) to certain movements and realise what's making me excited the most at a particular time, then it will take me a LONG time to ejaculate. If she's good at doing that, then I can cum pretty fast indeed.

Personally, I like getting a blowjob more than sex, but I'd rather have sex more often than getting a blowjob. I guess it keeps it a little special. It should be a treat for doing something good ;)
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 2/8/2006 12:00:35 PM
I've never been able to cum orally. I'm too thick, no one can get a good hold on me
I gave up a long time ago.
I say, just lay back, I'll do you.
 PrincessNaughty
Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 2/8/2006 12:09:11 PM
Is it with every woman?? Or just a few?? Maybe if it is just a few those girls need to work on their skills. I have yet to come across a man that I couldn't get off orally.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 2/8/2006 12:24:00 PM
It's no big deal to me. I appreciate the effort but it doesn't work on me.
I have fun anyway.
 JustG
Joined: 11/9/2004
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Posted: 2/8/2006 4:23:21 PM
I have only busted twice in my life from a BJ and it took those two a good 20 mins or so.
 Gmaverick
Joined: 12/31/2005
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Posted: 2/9/2006 12:03:01 PM
Posted By: carol27 on 12/20/2005 148 PM
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Message: Never had a man who had a problem with me giving him an orgasm orally....I have had a few guys tell me that they hadn't been able to before they met me.

You probably don't have a "problem"...you just haven't met someone who knows how to hit your spot(s).

I completely agree with you, and you are probably very good at it, cos I had girls who were able to and many who weren't.
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Joined: 4/15/2005
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Posted: 2/10/2006 12:20:44 AM
The word your hunting for is spit right, how many guys can spit... orally? ummm, pretty much anyone with lips and a tongue i thought... hmm...

I think most people call it expectorating, though that is a rather clever, perhaps needlessly colloquial way of saying it, perhaps horking a loog if you prefer.

Hoenstly, Um, it really rather depends on the girl…
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