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 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 5
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Seriously? geeze, I shouldnt be in this forum, I love oral.
Any girl who would refuse it..well. I dunno.

The only things I can come up with, and I think they are good are:

a) She has had it before, and didnt orgasm from it. Time wasted. ( im sure your good at it, but it takes alot for a girl to be able to cum during oral from the first time with a guy. At least it did for me)

b.) Maybe she's afraid she will taste bad.

c) Maybe she as a rash from shaving

d.) Maybe it just plain grosses her out to have a mans face down there
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 12/29/2005 8:29:31 PM

No way cause then I'd have to see if she was bigger than me then my ego would be crushed if she was. lol


I dont get it.?
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/29/2005 8:40:08 PM
Riiight...missed that part. Damn, sorry guys.

Anyways, harvey, yeah, ive heard that women dont like it because of the whole" well...i PEE from there - how gross"

Needless to say, I'd imagine those women aren't into Golden SHowers, then eh??

The things people miss out on....*sighs* lol
 Stillalicious
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/29/2005 8:57:09 PM
I don't get it myself....oral rocks!
 linne
Joined: 11/7/2005
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Posted: 12/29/2005 9:19:12 PM
I don't like it, I'm glad my guy never insists.. The only time I've enjoyed it was when I was drunk, but still, no orgasm. psychological hangups? meh.
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
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Posted: 12/29/2005 9:33:59 PM
lol
*golden showers are very erotic and fun*
Anyways.....*ahem*
She likes anal, eh? Good girl :)
I guess she just hates oral. *shrugs* Nothing you can do about it.
But wait...does she give YOU oral?
 coldcanuk
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/29/2005 11:57:39 PM
I love to give it to a lady... nothing like a little Canadian Beaver for breakfast!!

 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 12/30/2005 6:44:47 AM
Assume the position ... I am on my way
 BrianHunter
Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/30/2005 7:03:39 AM
In some ways I wish I had that probelm! It's worse when they enjoy it, ask for it, even crave it sometimes, but don't want to give in return!!

FunnyGirl... you're one in a million!!!!
 coldcanuk
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:44:57 AM
Never found a lady who would say no to me!!
 coldcanuk
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:50:20 AM
I come with a "having fun guarantee"...
 tigah_72
Joined: 1/5/2007
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Posted: 2/4/2007 8:35:57 AM
Its very intimate and I've never been comfortable enough for a guy to do that(all the way). A few times I was close enough to men to have them do it but then, they didn't like doing it. Its no biggie to me either way. I just have to be with someone for a long time before I would consider it. I guess I don't hate it really, I am just inexperienced. (and met the wrong men.)

As for foreplay, you can do other things as well. Kissing, necking, nipple play, using fingers... tons of options.

Its not the end of the world LOL

It takes me a long long long time to orgasm that way and some men don't have the patience. I do know that! I have let guys try it with me a bit and they complained about doing for awhile. Such babies LOL LOL



 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:54:18 PM
I can't believe there are some that don't like oral. I luv it !!!
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 2/6/2007 8:36:31 PM
ninki, don't worry about what other people think. you are who you are and you surely don't need to apologize for it. besides, i am sure there are many guys who don't like doing it, so lots of perfect matches for ya. :-)

one thing: if your x "insisted", do you think that may have been a problem? for ex., i like giving oral sex (and receiving it) but if my guy doesn't want it? well, heavens, i'd never insist on doing something to his body that he has expressly said he does not like. that's a real problem. huge problem.

to everyone: do you think some people have a problem with oral sex because of religious stuff? i wonder if like they associate it with the word "sodomy" and, regardless of whether they like it or not, feel that it is somehow morally wrong? i certainly don't feel that way -- far from it -- but i can see how some serious christians might.

just a thought.
 Casey76
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 73
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Posted: 2/7/2007 6:29:34 PM
Ok, not that I understand it, but Ive had some friends that were in all other ways VERY sexual and receiving did not a thing for them.

But also, from personal experience, some men just dont have a clue!!! Guys, here is a hint. If her eyes are glazing over from boredom...you probably are not doing something right. ASK HER!!!! For the longest time I didnt realise how good it could be. Now, OMG......sometimes that is better than anything else...

So its a 2 ways street. But if you're close enough to be that intimate, you should be close enough to discuss your likes and dislikes.
 ~~~HK~~~
Joined: 10/17/2006
Msg: 78
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Posted: 2/8/2007 3:06:04 PM
Nope this isn't moi.......cuz I'm an all day all night buffet

I just don't get chics that say they hate it......wtf damn your missing out but it's okay I'll give your share being the sharing kinda girl I am LMFAO
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 2/9/2007 9:32:46 AM
maturegentleman, i love the way you put this: "Making love is about finding the right connections." EXACTLY.

that is precisely what it is about and SO many just don't get that, they have an agenda, or a program that has always worked for them in the past or that works for them as an individual and they just pursue that agenda. which means the love making is about them, not their partner. in which case it isn't love making at all.
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 2/9/2007 10:09:28 AM
on wax, i actually started getting brazilians in the not too distant past and i actually really like being fully waxed in that area -- don't like getting them (eek!) but i do like the aftermath.

but, yea, it aint cheap. oi.
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 2/9/2007 7:01:44 PM
i love that word "cunnilingus"

think of the poetic possibilities of such a word...



and yea, i think that if you are female and you think you don't like cunnilingus, perhaps give it another try? not as a replacement for intercourse, of course. just as an addition to the sexual part of your relationship.

(it's really so unbelievably brilliant... i cannot imagine it not being pleasurable, unless the dude does something he should NOT do, like biting in an unpleasant way or being too rough. some guys don't know how to touch a woman. ...then again, some do. )
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 2/10/2007 7:10:37 AM
hey lipsy72, you know, i also don't like to climax that way because, for me, intercourse is usually the desired end of any sexual moment. and the same applies to him, i don't always want him to climax thru oral sex if i'm waiting for the grand finale and don't wanna ruin it! i think it's better to approach oral sex as foreplay. unless, during that session, you're not planning to have intercourse. if that's the case, he can come all he wants.
 lalby
Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 2/10/2007 12:54:16 PM
Well i just cant understand it myself,and i think maybe the women that dont like it have never tried it,or had a mega bad experience otherwise they would love it.
 want2smile
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 113
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Posted: 2/16/2007 12:00:28 PM
Hey harv...i will tell you that it is something you want to trust a man to do right. A lot of men make very rude jokes about what women smell/taste like so many women are very nervous about allowing oral sex to occur, for fear of being the butt of a joke. If you are truly sincere and begin with a lot of foreplay, she might loosen up enough to try...be patient and good luck
 BikerBiker53
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 2/16/2007 5:08:18 PM
There are many answers to a question such as this,....

Perhaps, a person may of had a bad experience,...it happens.
Being forced to do something, never helps people overcome their dislikes.

Maybe their nerve endings are damaged, and it doesnt have the deep feeling of intensity that most women have.

A lot of it has to directly deal with the fact that,.."Hey,...That is where I pee,....and have a man inside of me,....then you are gonna want to kiss me with thoses lips" ???

Believe me guys,...if a woman says "NO",...then dont go down there,......dont spoil the mood, dont try to talk her into changing her mind,...who knows,....maybe she just had unprotected sex at the office,..or with someone else, before she met up with you for your date ?

Do you really want to go there?",....If a woman says "No",....take her advice,.....

Or,.....maybe she has Herpes ????? But isnt going to tell you, but is wise enough to know better than to let you stick your face down there ? Huh ? It happens.

I know a couple of Ladies, that says it just doesnt do much for them, they like the feeling of a man inside, but not oral sex......I have gotten them to allow me to try,..and they say it was much more enjoyable, than with any other men that have tried. But still, they prefer to stick with what they like.

Because I try to make my partner relax, and enjoy the whole avenue of foreplay,...not just the oral,...its the passion that builds up, from starting at their head, then working your way south,....

I love the art of kissing, starting slowly, with short kisses,...looking into the eyes of a woman, getting the smile of approval, then longer, slower kisses,...moving to the ears,...little kisses,...little nibbles,...

Nothing can ruin a persons progress as fast,...as a big wet sloppy kiss, and wet tounge trying to clean out a Ladies ear drum,...

Take your time,...build passion, start from the top and work your way down, pay attention to every area of the womans body,..and pay attention to what works !

Kiss, and caress every limb, and area of the body, find what pleases her by the sounds she makes and the body language,...kiss and caress her stomach area,....

I had one lady make more noise when I was kissing her stomach, than when we had auctual sex,...she shivered and moaned loudly when I kissed her stomach,..she said NOBODY, had ever done that before,...Why?

Because someone didnt take their time and "Explore" their partners, from head to toe.
Probably too interested in their own satisfaction, you know, a quickey. Wham Bamm Thank You Mame...

Now,...if you want to please your lover, take your time, go slow, work your way down their body without being in a rush,...be sure to kiss, caress their inner thighs, before you bury your head betwen their legs,....and remember, there is more down there than just a "Little Man In A Boat",...of course thats where you want to pay most of your attention,...but there are other things you can do, to help tease, and build to a sucsessful climax.

I made the mistake once of "Going for it !",..and as soon as I got my head between her legs, she sat straight up so fast, I thought I'd bit her....but no, she just wasnt expecting that,...it all worked out, but I had to start all over, and gain her trust.

Dont act like a young school boy that doesnt know what he's doing,

Be willing to take your time, and if the moment is right, you will both have an enjoyable moment tp remember.

But,..if a woman tells you it doesnt do anything for her,...let it be,...at least for the moment.

Later you can ask anything you want,..and bost/brag about how your the "Muff Diving Champion" of your high school class,..if you think thats gonna get you anywhere.

Instead of bragging about your skills,...just find their trust,..by being a kind, considerate and skillfull,..Lover, and suggest that maybe, youd like to see if you can please her in that way,..it doesnt hurt to admit, that you have a burning desire to go oral with her, but only if she'll let you.

Guys,..we dont need a road map,..cause most of our "work" is done in the dark, or if your like me, with my eyes closed, and moaning as loud as my partner.

But what we do need, is to pay attention,..we need to hear thoses "sigh's", thoses "gasp",.."heavy breathing", ..."low gutteral moans",...all the sign's of approval,..if she isnt moaning, and you look up from between thoses legs, and theres no "Smile of Approval" on her face,...find out why,...and yes,..if you have to "Ask". !

Dont take for granted your as good a lover, as you think you are,...

my middle name might be - "Oh Baby, Oh Baby",....but that doesnt mean I know squat,....I have to learn it all over again, with a new Lover,....after all, no two women are the same, why treat them like they are?
 BikerBiker53
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 2/18/2007 9:17:18 AM
Hello xodara,

I stated may reasons why a woman might not want (or like) a man to preform oral sex on her,..that was just one


WTF is that about? Is it ok to stick your penis down there then? I'm not sure I understand the scenerio that was going on in his mind, but this statement freaked me out


I didnt say it was ok to do one or the other,...I just stated a possable reason why a woman wouldnt want oral sex,...and there are a lot of people out there,..men,...and women,....that will not admit they have herpes, and do not use protection.

How do you think herpes is spread anyway ?

I know, from firsthand experience.

Just do a search on "Herpes" and the stats will scare the living crap out of ya,....its stated that possably 1 out of 4 people have herpes, and a lot of them dont even know it ?

It makes me think, a lot, about a person, and their health issiues, before I even consider having sex, let alone anything else.

Question,...do you think its ok for a woman to recieve oral sex, after she just had sex with another partner ?

You didnt address that comment I made in my post.

There are a lot of reasons,...and most of them are the womans preferences,..if they dont like it, then they dont like it !

But there are other reasons, as I mentioned,...sorry to of "freaked you out"
 BikerBiker53
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Posted: 2/18/2007 1:14:11 PM
Hello xodara,

I agree with you 100%,.....and sorry that my comment didn't sit well with you, or any of the others, ...but the thread is about,...."Ladies That hate recieving oral sex",...and that is just a possable reason for someone to turn it down. Just one, of the reasons that I posted.

Im my case,...it happenned exactly that way,....Thank Gawd, she didnt allow me to ,....
"Go Down There",....

but she should of said why,...before not after,...I found out the hard way !

I have found no excuse,..except that maybe the person is too ashamed to admit it,....and then theres others that want to spread it to unsuspecting people, because, thats what happenned to them,.... as a way of revenge,...

Either way,..that is so sad.

But that doesnt mean I cant please a woman Oraly
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