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Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 7
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but... you came into my life at the wrong time. i am just not ready for you right now... of course they wait to tell you this till after you've moved in together or even have gotten married! when is it ever the right time? shakes head, does it ever work out?
Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 9
they love you yet hate you
Posted: 12/30/2005 6:55:34 AM
Why does he say its so hard to love you, if its so hard then why is he even bothering with you, love is not a contradiction. Its eaither you do truly love or you dont, theres no in betweens. There are different levels and types of love but when it comes to this type of love, love between 2 people who share a relationship thats more then friend well theres no question either he does or doesnt. Dont accept "partial love" you are more deserving then that.
Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 19
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they love you yet hate you
Posted: 12/31/2005 9:36:24 PM
Unfortunately, it seems to me your ex is quite immature.

The fact of the matter is that love is always hard, for the immature and the selfish, because it demands sacrifice and reciprocity.

For the rest of us, it is merely takes work, but the rewards can be phenomenal.
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