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Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 15
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I hate the throws me off too much.

My ex-wife went that route once...just once. I tols her if she didn't get into it then I would stick it in her pooper. She got wild as hell at that point!!

That episode may have contributed to the divorce, of course, but there's no excuse for being silent.
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/7/2007 7:11:01 AM
Making sounds yourself does make others come out of their shelves. Asking if it's possible goe sa long way, too. Maybe they are just ashamed and you simply need a good talk about it. But I guess most people can't really see that.
Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/7/2007 7:18:40 AM
No way, I love a few good grunts
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/7/2007 8:02:56 AM
What I am saying though, and what message 45 is definitely not getting, is that you can talk about these issues. I can't see any harm in that. Because I do understand it's nice to hear some sounds during the big S.

The only thing that happens is that you actually have to pull your mouth open. Better as arguments while the other doesn't really understand what happened.
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/7/2007 8:47:35 AM
I hate quiet sex - I want my partner to make some noise to let me know he's enjoying it! I have been with someone who needed to be 'trained' to make noise!
 Itsa Jelly
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/12/2008 6:39:50 PM
Yes, that's happened before. It was just the way he was and I hated it - not only was he silent, but after an amazing first time it was always this deep concentration missionary rutting, for lack of a better word. I could have been counting ceiling tiles for all he knew.... I was shocked how devasted he was when I ended the relationship.

You should have a pretty good reason for denying one of your senses during sex - being somewhere where you'll be overheard by unappreciative or young ears are the only two that comes to mind.
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/12/2008 6:40:10 PM
Yes I don't like it. I feel like they are just holding it in. I like to hear sounds so I know what feels better to them. Plus it is a turn on to me. Yes if they can't let their emotions out and be passionate during the moment then it is time to move on.
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/12/2008 6:57:14 PM
I'd be compelled to shake him, smack him and/or make sure he was alive. I'm bound to- at least- get a grunt outta that one, lol.
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:40:04 AM
Aw heck.....I thought you meant, did I get worried if they quit snoring.

You mean during sex don't ya? I kind of like the silence........especailly if I don't wake 'em up?
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/2/2008 6:35:28 AM
The only 'silent' sex I want is when you are stuffing her mouth with a pillow or something because you're doing the naughty where other people are close by!
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 10/2/2008 1:40:28 PM
I have a theory that people who are quiet trained themselves to be so when they were masturbating at home so no one would hear them.

Personally, I think that when you get quiet you stop breathing and that seriously ruins what would otherwise be a perfectly good orgasm. Groan, talk, moan, scream its all good to keep the breathing going and to fully appreciate life's great gift.
Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/4/2008 12:16:22 PM
you can make as much noise as you want but if you set my car alarm off while were in it bring it down a notch and to the silent guys tell us you like or love it so we know what the hell to do. Plus get dirty dammit if sex wasnt meant to be dirty then we never would have done it
 pretty inn ink
Joined: 9/25/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/4/2008 12:25:11 PM
i TOTALLY know what you mean i dotn think its awkward but i want something.... its so EASY to make a guy cum it would be nice other than the baby batter spatter to know how much they enjoy it. geezzzz........ make me want nothing to do with it
Joined: 2/17/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 10/4/2008 2:38:36 PM
i'm one of those silent types. i do talk during sex but not much, and in a very low voice when i do. and i do whisper in a woman's ear during during forplay, when i'm behind her and kissing on her neck. but when it gets to the orgasm, i'm very quiet. but i have been tole that noise is not nessasary. because body language tells her when it happens.

and for the woman? i've only been with one woman who made a lot of noise as soon as i was inside her. and i hated it. i only had sex with her once.

Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 10/4/2008 4:29:17 PM
Hearing some feedback is good, I like to hear a lil sumpin sumpin.... Its the quiet ones you have to watch.... LOL
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/4/2008 5:35:35 PM
I used to be silent but my second wife got me to open up so to speak(pardon the pun0 and my current lady loves my moans and groans. I am not a screamer, but i am vocal.
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 10/4/2008 11:49:11 PM
When she's quiet, she's not nagging at you....enjoy the break!

really though, I don't enjoy screamers........nor am I one........

low, quiet moans are a turn on to me anyways

BTW........any woman that screams for any reason scares the crap out of ....... (I always think they found my stash of cash and are running off to the mall )

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/3/2009 10:54:08 AM
I believe the word your searching for is "necrophilia" Ha, ha!
Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/3/2009 11:14:44 AM
I don't mind silence or anything quiet as long he isn't dead/post-cardiac arrest or something. But...then in an apartment with thin walls, quiet is good so Melrose Place doesn't start the gossip!
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/3/2009 1:44:49 PM
No, I can honestly say I never had that experience. Thank goodness too!
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 2/3/2009 1:55:21 PM
The quiet ones are the most dangerous. Best be careful.
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