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Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 6
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k this is going to be blunt and to the point if he isnt into her as she is and only her he doesnt believe she is worth being with.....MEN ARE LIKE BUSES THERE WILL BE ANOTHER ON THE CORNER IN TWENTY MIN IF YOU WANNA CATCH IT....TAKE ONE THAT HAS YOU GOING WHERE YOU WANNA GO
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 9
I need advice, please.
Posted: 1/14/2006 4:46:54 AM
^^^^^^"Men ARE LIKE BUSES" ^^^^^^^

Question: What If I Don't Know How 2 Take The Bus?

C'mon.. he sounds like a lying pig... oh wait! No.... she HASNT asked him anything yet... so instead of jumping to conclusions.. she needs to FIND out.. not FIGURE out. :P Besides.. what if he's wondering why SHE hasn't done anything yet, either?? You never know...
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 19
I need advice, please.
Posted: 1/14/2006 3:39:14 PM
the right time to have the talk is the time she decides she wants to move into something exclusive. Which seems like now.

But no , after only a month, I dont think hes a player . If there is no discussion on commitment before she sleeps with him she shouldnt expect one after the act of sex. Not saying she does, but I just want to point that out if she is starting to think of him being a player just because he is emailing other women when neither of them have made or even spoke about whats happening with the two of them. In my books that makes both of them 'free agents' until they do

If they talk about it, and he agrees to some kind of commitment, and then continues to chat and contact other women, he might be a player then. But I would hold off on the throwing names like 'player' around just yet. I mean how does she know these email contacts arent just friends either?

Also you never know he might think she isnt interested in anything serious so he is keeping his options open.

She needs to talk to him , now.
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