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 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 7
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I would not sleep with a girl I hate.

I have too much respect for myself for that.

That would mean "trash" in my books.

P.S. When I grow up...I want a build like ^ that.
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
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Posted: 1/28/2006 3:35:51 PM

Are you guys seriously telling me you would not have sex with someone you dont like even if the other option was to abstain?


Yes; I am telling you that I am not a hard up dirty slut.



truth.
 KTrout
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/28/2006 4:04:24 PM
I can't be sure about me, but I know some guys who would f*ck a snake.
 Test_Pilot
Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 1/28/2006 4:27:20 PM
Me? I would rather go without. Without a doubt.

However, most of my male friends just don't seem to care. They would screw a snake if someone held it straight and the really bad ones would screw a rockpile if they thought the snake was hiding under it.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 1/28/2006 4:38:51 PM
Wait a minute Kissthegenious

There is a difference between an ugly girl, and one I don't like.
Personally, If I don't like a girl, for whatever reason, then there is no way I could ever be interrested in her sexually.
As far as ugly is concerned, I'll be the judge of that !
 acgoat
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/28/2006 4:49:41 PM
Cant say I wouldn't bed someone I hated.
Bedded A fair number that weren't loved.
Never had the emotion of hate concerning a woman,atleast not enough to keep me from going for a nut.


 Nghtshft
Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/28/2006 4:51:13 PM
Well for me I have to agree with the majority...I wouldn't either...been there, had numerous chances....NO THANKS

LOL....my bodies not a temple , it's more like a pew but I got respect for it....
 Proteus
Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 1/28/2006 5:19:11 PM

Are you guys seriously telling me you would not have sex with someone you dont like even if the other option was to abstain?


It really comes down to what "don't like" meens. If it is an emotional dislike, as in I regard her as my enemy. Then no, couldn't hit it, unless it somehow degraded her and could be benificial in some way as a revenge tactic.

Now if you meen "Don't like" as in I'm not attracted to her physically, well then, yeah, I could hit it if it was all I had.
 electronaut
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 1/29/2006 12:36:34 PM
hehhehehhehhehheheh..
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 11:34:22 AM
I don't care if a girl was Playboy Playmate of the Year. If she's a ****, she's a ****, and she'd never get anywhere close to me. I'd probably never get close to her either.
If I don't at least like you, I can't get hard for you.
If I like you, no matter what you look like, there are always possibilities.
 dustyangel52
Joined: 8/16/2007
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:41:17 PM
OMG!!!! YOU ARE TOO FUNNY. LOLOL. I'VE NEVER SEEN A FORUM LIKE THIS BEFORE. LOLOLOL.
 dustyangel52
Joined: 8/16/2007
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:43:01 PM
that last msg. was meant for ktrout.
 doink 1962
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:51:09 PM
Speaking only for myself, I have to be attracted first off and if a woman would have no personality or is a **** than yeah I could hold out. I mean men are not all that bad, or at least the ones I hang out with (hmm, maybe a few in there! Ha) I must connect with someone and not just with my penis.
 jmim
Joined: 3/19/2007
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Posted: 4/23/2009 8:42:26 PM
I think it depends on if the guy is a virgin or not.
For example... I lost my virginity when I was 21.
We had sex at least 3 times a day.
She was a bit bi-polar and overly possessive though.
And eventually I couldn't stand her.
But the sex was so good and there was so much of it that
I didn't get out of the relationship before I should have.

Now I am single, and haven't been laid in quite a while.
So such a situation will never happen to me again.

On another note, my grandfather and all his rich corporate buddys...
Every time I go to dinner with them they are always ****ing about their wives.
I never want to end up that way.
 buckrabbitt1
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 70
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Posted: 4/23/2009 8:51:47 PM
for the most part you are right. but there are a few of us that still have standards and cant just grin and bear it then chew our arms off in the middle of the night. there are women that are less appealing to us making it difficult to hit the sack with them. ok, so i cant speak for the others but as for myself...NO!
 cj20_08
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 76
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:30:39 AM
I can't say for all MEN/BOYS but it depends on the person.
As for my perspective, here is what has happened in my life...
I have received quiet a lot of offers for sex may it be a 1 night thing, **** buddy, etc; and some of those offers even came from hot, pretty women and not just ugly ones. But thru it all, I am still a proud member of the V-Card holding club. LOL

I don't know why I still have my card. Some can say it is because I haven't found anyone yet. Others have told me that maybe I am gay that is why I haven't slept with anyone (and believe me, I am not, because I also got offers from men. LOL)

As far as I know, being a virgin is not because of my religion. I am just satisfied at being abstinent (at the moment at least). And I will rather be abstinent for life than to screw someone over just to get laid.
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 4/28/2009 12:25:54 PM

..she tells me that MEN would rather sleep with a GIRL that they are totally not attracted to, Hate and cant stand.......rather then not having any sex at all?????


Your friend is right. Guys don't turn down sex, in general. If push comes to shove, a guy will sleep with any available girl. Fortunately, most of us don't have to settle for a girl we are "totally not attracted to". It's not hard to find an available woman one is attracted to.
 THE full monty
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 4/28/2009 1:14:47 PM
it all depends on the man .........some guys will sleep with anything that moves. but for me there has to be some attraction
 Honcho
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 4/28/2009 4:55:42 PM
GET THE SACK! GET THE SACK!
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