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 Hill_Valley_Hick
Joined: 8/31/2005
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I was wondering if women like being told that they are hot and sexy. I have heard that if you say that it makes you sound like a wimp, that you should never tell a woman she's hot because it makes it look like you are not a challenge. Some women say you it is bad because it is objectifying to women. I don't care about the second reason but if it makes me look like a wimp I won't do it in the future. So ladies do you like being told you are sexy (without being too vulgar of course), your opinions would be greatly appreciated.
 TheGoon
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 1/30/2006 4:29:56 PM
I'll help you out on this one...

If she is "cute"- call her HOTT

If she is "hott"- call her CUTE


Just try to be original. Everything can get old after awhile, even compliments.
 Shangrilah
Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 3
Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 4:36:57 PM
I like it - especially if it comes from a hot, sexy guy
 Lexy47
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 4
Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 4:43:15 PM
I don't have a problem with it............
 Sniggy
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 5
Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 4:43:58 PM
if it was the first time I met someone I would laugh so hard I would pee my pants, but after I have been in a relationship then I like hearing it from my man although I might still laugh.
 Destryridesagain
Joined: 1/8/2006
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Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 4:52:49 PM
I think women love complements..As long as you dont look like this
<<<<<<<<..............lol....
 Hill_Valley_Hick
Joined: 8/31/2005
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Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 4:55:22 PM
I only tell sexy women that they are hot. To tell a woman I don't find attractive that she is hot is manipulative. AnnaGEM you look pretty good for a 99 year old. Those pics must have been taken when you were in your 30s. I don't think colour pictures were around in the 1930s and 1940s though.
 saber7cav
Joined: 5/23/2005
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Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 5:02:23 PM
I guess I am old school, or whatever it is called now...............If a woman, a lady has that hot and sexy look...............then - just say she is beautiful.......she knows what that means.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:20:30 PM
It's subjective depends on who's saying it. Someone in a first email...BLAKK! Complete turn off. I get much more flattered by other compliments those aren't my own personal favorite.
 lexus430
Joined: 12/20/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:21:48 PM
just say "WOW" with your mouth drooped open haha
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:43:15 PM
I agree with intriguing. What does hot and sexy really mean anyway? I wanna get in your pants....bottom line. Unless it's someone you know and have a comfort level with it's usually crass and tacky. Just my opinion.
 Hill_Valley_Hick
Joined: 8/31/2005
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Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 5:45:51 PM
Isn't it better than pretending to be a girl's in friend in hope that she will let you have your way with her. At least by telling her she is hot and sexy it makes your intentions clear.
 look in
Joined: 6/24/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:51:30 PM
you just answered your own question.
If you say that the woman knows you just want in your pants, not kewl.
From a lover, it can be very sexy.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:56:46 PM
hill First off, pretending to be anything is totally wrong!! First mark of a player. Bad move, VERY bad, totally dishonest. Now you may honestly THINK she's hot and sexy but any woman with a brain cell knows that means I want to jump your bones. Not really needing to be translated. Being someone's friend and wanting to jump their bones are the two extremes. If those are your only two options, then good luck! It's like a choice of someone you'd never want to sleep with to someone you want to sleep with immediately. There's a lot of space in between the two extremes. You don't have to treat them like a friend, it's fine to have a romantic interest, but that doesn't translate to immediate sex. You need to find the middle ground.
 redmamma
Joined: 7/2/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:56:51 PM
My first reaction was to say "DUH".. but then I was reminded by bucs.. that it is NOT cool to get it in the first e-mail or conversation...(Thanks B) I love it when my man says it to me... but in general.. I would rather he show me.,., as long as the compliments are sincere, you can probably never go wrong...
 blondemoment
Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:59:05 PM
i love it. i get this line in most of my emails and at my age, yeah!!!~
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:59:39 PM
of course I like being called hot

I probably wouldnt appreciate being called s----------xy by a guy I didnt know. Makes him seem sleazy to me and would make me think he is only after 'one thing'

so one on their own is ok, two together is a turn off to me. I would only like it if it were coming from a going I was going out with. Then it would be great !!!
 lexus430
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:10:28 PM
okay what is the best first line you women want to hear??
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:14:12 PM
lexus That's just it, there IS no one line that every woman wants to hear. We're all different, otherwise we wouldn't have profiles, just pictures. We're not all the same, so you have to use some imagination and creativity and from reading the profile, come up with something you think that particular woman may like to hear.
 lexus430
Joined: 12/20/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:25:23 PM
of course i`m thinking classy things just come to mind at the time when they are supposed to but there`s got to be at least one you all love
 thegreatrockyhill
Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:57:32 PM
I usually just tell them that I like their pics.
 zgirlbeautiful
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 22
Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 6:59:31 PM
i love to be told i am hot and sexy
it makes me feel powerful...lol
 lexus430
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/30/2006 8:26:56 PM
how about being told you are simply breathtaking and it would be a pleasure to allow me to introduce myself, or wow you drive me up the friggin wall what would it take to get your attention baby??
 DesertSpin
Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 24
Do Women Like Being Told They are Hot and Sexy?
Posted: 1/30/2006 8:36:13 PM
How about "gorgeous"? Is that as classy as beautiful?
 lexus430
Joined: 12/20/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2006 9:46:51 PM
okay your not hot and sexy now how do you feel?
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