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 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 2
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the only thing I can say is that I don't say it unless I mean it...
if you have doubts then judge by her actions
 just_Kats
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 3
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:09:15 AM
Silly question, though I mean no disrespect ;-)
It's the same for both: men and women, some mean it, some don't... all you can do is trust the one you're falling for is the honest one and will not change her mind...
 ab_qt
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 6
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:15:43 AM
Actions speak louder then words so perhaps you need to ask yourself if she truely means it.
 goodguy4uladies
Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 7
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:20:24 AM
Some cheat, male or female. There are women that cheat just like men. There are women that lie about being in love just to get sex from a guy just like guys do to women. The truth is that only some of us are innocent.
 tlcguy48
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 8
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:26:06 AM
I do believe that Actions mean lots,but for me,when I have used word Love,as only way to fly.
 TMP
Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 12
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:48:18 AM
Well Id have to say maybe its the guilt you feel for your past that you feel as you do?
 generic555
Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 13
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 10:28:21 AM
I don't have the word in my vocabulary.

If I'm wondering about that in relation to a specific person, she's not the right one, and I move on.

If it's the right person, such a problematic question will not arise.
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Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 14
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When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 11:35:15 PM
I think mostly people are reluctant when they hear the L word if they have been abused by it in the past. I would treat every person differently though, not everyone is out to lie to you about love. Nothing ventured nothing gained right?

Love each time like it is the first, and like you have nothing to lose.
 huhoney
Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 15
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 1/31/2006 11:45:29 PM
valentine's, a time of love. oh how i wish i had more of it in my life! when i say i love, i really mean it. then, when the object of my affection abuses these feelings, and takes advantage of my heart, the love gradually dwindles, until like a flame it is doused. protect love carefully, and watch it grow...
 huhoney
Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 17
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/6/2006 4:58:22 PM
but i am an angel but my wings are ever so slightly tarnished.... ha ha
 ndt
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 21
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 6:57:59 AM
Sure if she says it meaning "LOVING" the Sexual experience you give to her and or the Money you have to spend on her.

Sad isn't it?
 Summer Teeth
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 22
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 7:14:12 AM
After a woman tells you that she loves you, check under the bed for an ice pick until after she's had her first period . . .
 lee36044
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 23
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 7:15:36 AM
I think most mean it when they say it. I've also come to know that a woman can say she loves you, mean it, and still be able to do hurtful things to you.

I guess it comes down to the question of is love a feeling or a commitment? If you see it as a commitment, you're gonna get hurt every time.
 uneekguy
Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 26
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 10:13:40 AM
Depends on how much you have to offer her.
 karkrazyc1r9
Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 28
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 12:13:08 PM
For me personally, when I tell the guy I'm with that I love him, I mean it with all my heart. I will never tell someone that I love them unless I feel it.
 MIKES3
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 32
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 1:52:40 PM
I think its more of a security question. If you truly love someone you can see it in one another. If you have to ask yourself once (Do I love her) you better check yourself twice.
 MIKES3
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 34
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 1:57:11 PM

Hmmm.... Never really thought of it that way. Got a point ... but even the most hopeful of us can look into her eyes. You hear the words. If she really means it ... you can see it in her eyes. They'll be locked right onto yours ... if only for that brief instant.



I agree 100% there chief
 bugsybears
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 35
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 2:25:47 PM
you can tell if a woman really loves you. when she tells you this, just look into her eyes and you can tell if it's sincere or not. actions do speak louder than words and so do facial expressions.
 aracellyO
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 36
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/7/2006 2:26:19 PM
I hope if anyone says I LOVE YOU they really mean it. I am not too much for the whole...action speak louder than words...i think there should be a balance. Most people need to hear terms of endearment now and again. Actions are cool, don't take me wrong but sometimes we are moved to do something not by our feelings but by other reasons...it can get complicated with the whole action/word thing so i say A HAPPY MEDIUM.

I did fall for the light use of the word I love you and used it more than once when i really shouldn't have, but i learned my lesson and i promise myself not to use it so lightly. I think it is beautiful to hear the words and see the feeling because when you really love someone and you say it WHOA what a trip.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 38
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/8/2006 6:09:45 PM
Its just another 4 letter word for me................

actions speak louder.........when actions dont match the words........tells you alot about a persons character.......

Words not backed by actions are worthless.
 Myisland
Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 39
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/8/2006 6:14:48 PM
Anyone can say the words, but the truth comes from within. How she makes you feel, is the measurable indication of the truth
 MarcWiseGentleman82
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 40
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/8/2006 6:20:09 PM
I totally agree with you. It's better 2 show love than saying it. Anybody can say that they love you but they really don't.
 ladypagey
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 41
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When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/9/2006 1:08:42 AM
If I ever say the words " I love you" to a man face to face he will know by my facial expression and everything else. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I would dearly love to find true love.....He would know by how I act toward him.....
 justmeinnc05
Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 42
When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/9/2006 5:15:54 AM
Before I came to this site, I would have said that sure some do, but after reading a lot of posts on here, I can't help but wonder if anyone truly loves anyone.
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Joined: 4/15/2005
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When a woman tells you she loves you does she mean it?
Posted: 2/10/2006 5:56:47 AM
I mean it when i say it I hardly ever do, however, I have had plenty say it and then act as though they had not meant it. Some do some don't i guess.
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