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 cute-lil-momma
Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 1
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OK, so I have always been the girl with a boatload of guy friends that I was very close with and a few best female friends. I know if ive heard one thing around these guys, it was that their woman didnt put out enough. Then, I started noticing that in my own relationships, I ve always been the one going c'mon! I have been told Im a machine, but I love it and call me addicted, but if I am in a relationship... I want it on the norm. So, LADIES, do you sympathize? any one thinking maybe the guys are complaining about something they dont really want that much of anyway. Or, who knows (guys) maybe I am just attracted to guys that who are perfect on the relationship, but suck at having a healthy sex life? LET ME KNOW!
 patrickbeyond
Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 2
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:15:44 PM
Hmm guys could do it everyday for ever, women just don't need or want to.

But that's why we have our hands.
 Torkwretch
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 3
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:19:21 PM
I have no idea, never been in one. Neither has my husband.
 real12luv
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 4
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:20:11 PM
Am I reading this right? Your saying that guys dont actually want that much sex?

I will tell you this you may be right about the guys who are perfect in a relationship thing. I love sex & I have only been in one serious relationship in my life (3 yrs.) we did it 8 or 9times a day, sometimes in one evening/morning combo & of course I still had to screw all of her friends. Hence no more relationship. I have a very tough time with "relationships"
 PrincessNaughty
Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 5
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:25:35 PM
I go through phases. One week I want it all the time, and the next week I could go for just 3-4 times. From the men I have been with they seem to always want it. Anytime and anyplace.
 chevy529
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 6
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:38:46 PM
i also go thru phases but... for me it is almost uncontrollable for a couple days

then. Not much interest for awhile. But maybe being single plays a part in that.

if the OP's guy didn't want it as much it "may" be a control game. *shrug*
 cute-lil-momma
Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 7
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:16:10 PM
Thank you, control maybe an issue, it kinda fits. TY kel
 cute-lil-momma
Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 8
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:49:13 PM
Every Guy out there can sit here and tell me they never said no to their other half, cause they are tired or whatever... and like they would tell the truth, might ruin the image!
 zentral
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 9
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Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:53:09 PM
7 to 10 times a week is often enough for me (more is sometimes okay), but she usually wants more. Then it's all the blow jobs - a guy can only take so much! Yeah, I'm spoiled. And she really isn't deprived. Really.
 pdqsailor1
Joined: 6/7/2015
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Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 6/10/2015 5:48:47 PM
The simple facts are that the vast majority of men are not very good at sex. They think they know how to please a Woman when they know nothing except how to selfishly please themselves and usually as fast as they possibly can. How many men really care enough to learn what feels good to a Woman? I sure did and I do. I studied female anatomy, I listened and was taught by my Wife as to what felt good and what did not work for her. I learned how to give oral sex, I have no problem using a vibrator on her and I know how to use it, I purchased a Sybian if all else fails but I have a simple rule and that is that she cums first what ever it takes. She is modest - we use classic sleepwear and lingerie because she is modest and this makes her feel comfortable. I LISTEN and more importantly she wanted to take control over this aspect of our life and I agreed so she picks the position, the timing the frequency and she was enjoying herself enough that SHE decided that we would make love every day, we have for years and she is STILL in charge. Oh and I still make sure she cums first.
 Son_Of_Destiny
Joined: 6/4/2015
Msg: 11
Do the men deny frequent sexual activity in a monogomous relationship?
Posted: 6/11/2015 3:34:11 AM

Or, who knows (guys) maybe I am just attracted to guys that who are perfect on the relationship, but suck at having a healthy sex life?


One would assume you have just answered your own question.


The simple facts are that the vast majority of men are not very good at sex. They think they know how to please a Woman when they know nothing except how to selfishly please themselves and usually as fast as they possibly can.


Really!


Oh and I still make sure she cums first.


Only once? There is something definitely strange about your whole remit. The art of building an orgasm is the art of knowing how to please... you say she cums yet you have never mentioned her exploding and there lye’s the biggest difference. When you understand this then you can dictate your mastery.
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