I've been told that it's best to wait at least several months to "gain personal insight" and "create secure closure" before dating and/or having sex again. Any thoughts?
What the advice (I believe) should be is: You should wait until you've put
that aspect of your life behind you by coming to grips with it. There really
isn't a time-frame persay. It could take you years in dealing with the issue
of moving on and accepting.. or you could be a cold and heartless person
and only take you hours.