|One-night stands!!!Page 1 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)|
|NO, not enough time to get to know each other. I search for conversation, friendship, compatibilty, knowing what each other are seeking. For me a "one night stand," serves no purpose, as a male, it leaves nothing to reflect upon later, especially with maturity I have learnt that: I have never seduced a woman in my life (I have been seduced). In a sexual relationship there is that essential adjustment. AND no need to sexually bond if it is "love at first sight." That comes later and much more appreciated.|
Posted: 3/6/2006 4:04:02 PM
|hollo philip here i would like to have sex with you my fetish is nickers and stockings please call me on 0409830242 or 47314048 i live sydney merto area lets please hook up????????|
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:32:32 PM
|Did Jesus masturbate?, Read the sermon on the mount, it shows he was a "wishfull thinker. Ahhhhh, I guess he was human and dreamed about the best. Wellll, ain't that what mastubation all about. I have my "dream lover" there all the time, BUT she's gone when its' all over. AND I not keen on doing it "standing up?"|
Posted: 3/12/2006 1:28:01 AM
|it is an each to thier own sort of thing and dont think its makes or breaks a person, did my fair share in my younger yrs and found some peoples reaction quite narrow minded, i didnt class myself as a slut just didnt want a relationship but still had a healthy appetite, as long as ur carefull then have a ball, just dnt judge a person for their choices in life it is their life afterall|
Posted: 5/8/2006 6:34:39 PM
|Sanity - you are so correct in pointing out the SLUT/STUD hypocrisy - to each their own I say and the more variety between consenting adults the better. God gave us tickly sensitive bits and an imagination so we could use them. NO regrets ever, reflect upon a situation in order to learn YES.|
Posted: 5/8/2006 7:14:32 PM
|Every encounter I've ever had has been a one night stand|
Posted: 5/8/2006 10:54:00 PM
|well far be it for me to start controversy... lol|
OK this is an awesome topic for starters and has many angles of approach.
This is where I believe we live or parents lives over. Why? Church like fudd said. How so? The fear of god. In order to be "correct" we "must" get married in order to breed. How wonderful, if life was a fairytale. But it aint and we have all evolved our own opinions on religion, to the horror of the church. We all know there's no god up there or down there, unless we want there to be. We can all live happy fulfilling lives with or without religion, to the horror of the church lol.
So lets imagine a god free state. No fear of god at all on any level. From birth to death, god free. oh what a utopia lol.
So now I don't need to be "coupled" in order to breed. Sex is no longer a sin and masturbation is neither a dirty word nor shunned. AND a one night stand is fine and dandy. We live by a set of commonly agreed MORAL laws and/or rules.
OK now back to reality. Why is it that we ALL would love a good shag, right now? But wait a minute... first you have to, and, and, and, and... Imagine if.. You go out meet someone you get along with, enjoy their company, sleep with and move right along. Whats wrong with that? oh feelings, emotions, the fairytale "i love you, happily ever after"
I reckon we should embrace the "one night stand" more. Accept it, enjoy it and not fear any consequences. Not be judgemental, and not expect that person to be exclusively yours, Not want ownership of people to selfishly keep to ourselves. If two people of even more (lol) want to be exclusively someones then so be it, fantastic. Respect that because we are all human beings and must live together.
bah, who am I kidding, there's too many emotions and human relations issues to contend with. We as humans compete and strive to be the best because winning is breed into us young. There are race issues within these issues too.
So bugger it, we all have to put up with what we have right now lol. One night stands are good if you can get them, but most times people have tooooo many hang-ups to allow themselves the freedom to do so. If we do we are then judged by those whom don't as evil sinners.
So as long as no-one gets hurt its all good. Which comes down to honesty. If you have to lie or make yourself into someone your not in order to achieve a "one night stand" then you are morally wrong and... god is watching your every move :P bahahahahaha
Posted: 7/6/2006 12:39:11 AM
The last one nighter I had was, technically , a one nighter, but it wasn't a pick up.
It was a girl who I'd known for years. She cleared out on her bf and then took a quick interstate holiday to clear her head.
Lobbed in on me not sure what to do next but she appreciated bouncing ideas off me.
It wasn't hard to convince her that she was fine, she could take care of herself, with or without a bf and that life would go on.
We talked for a bit too long so I just invited her to sleep over. I Hadn't intended to pester her for sex after the break up but she said she wanted to see if she could still enjoy it after the break up.
She could, and she did.
Next day she continued her travels and, a month after she returned home she met her future husband.
Posted: 7/6/2006 12:44:05 AM
One thing has me puzzled.
This guy must have been pretty abusive if he was jailed for it. Its rare in wife bashings and almost unheard of in husband bashings.
Why did you go back to him even if it was just for sex?
When you already knew that you could pick up any number of regular, or casual partners, who would quite happily put you flat on your back and make you happy?
And not belt you one afterwards?????
Posted: 7/6/2006 1:41:22 AM
"All these people that dont do one nights stands! Does anyone have sex any more??? "
Yes but not for just 1 night!! And not on the first date!!! Or the 2nd.... or the ???? lol.
Posted: 7/6/2006 1:42:32 AM
|Can somebody please tell me how to enclose someone else's post in a box like a quote???|
I don't know how to do it.
Posted: 7/6/2006 2:02:35 AM
|double-click and copy the text from the previous post. click reply and paste into message box.. at the top right hand side you will see this |
This allows you to quote a previous post.
you can either copy and paste just the html (quote) (/quote) or cut the text and paste over the ...This allows you to quote a previous post. bit.
Does that make sense???
Posted: 7/6/2006 2:08:04 AM
|Mark - stop it right now...|
your post smacks of desperation and we both know that's not true....
Posted: 7/6/2006 2:14:42 AM
|Hang on I'll just get my thigh high black leather boots out Mark and dust them off... But you have to be very still while I tickle you first.|
Oh and it will not be a one night stand - ok for some but I prefer obedience which is learned over time..
Posted: 7/6/2006 2:43:27 AM
|Its refreshing to see the number of girls who are starting to be up front and honest about their one nighters.|
And I'm talking about the honesty too. Not the sex. It's really refreshing.
Posted: 7/6/2006 3:03:45 AM
|[double-click and copy the text from the previous post. click reply and paste into message box.. at the top right hand side you will see this |
This allows you to quote a previous post. ]
Posted: 7/6/2006 3:04:52 AM
[double-click and copy the text from the previous post. click reply and paste into message box.. at the top right hand side you will see this
This allows you to quote a previous post.
oooops, just let me try again.
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:15:14 AM
|ooohhh thanks for the hug - I like those. It is my pleasure I'm glad to help...|
Posted: 9/20/2006 7:56:34 PM
|come to my place any day i work until 4pm 7/75 ocean parade coffs i think we could have a good i have no photo but i am good looking hope to hear from u decanus|
Posted: 9/20/2006 10:06:28 PM
|^^^ No worries mate, hope you like pineapple |
No way in hell one night stands..my standard is maximum one hour standing. If they don't show up, I classify that as being stood up.
Posted: 9/20/2006 11:13:54 PM
|I've nothing against one night stands... (safe and concentual) Can be fun and pleasurable but I've never been able to completely reach the "peak" that way. I guess I need alittle something more from the other person for that. Or, I could keep trying|
Posted: 9/20/2006 11:32:05 PM
|Why, thank you Mr. fs. It's amazing how someone on the other side of the world can make your night... err... very early morning (2:40 AM).|