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 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
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So, we've been talking about things NOT to wear on a date--now let's talk about what NOT to bring on a first date!

1. Star Trek communicator pin that works (sorry, fellow Trekkies, even I would not bring one!)

2. A list of all your medications for mental illness, or premenstrual cramps

3. 100 pictures of your car

4. A credit card that is completely maxxed out

5. Last but not least, a vicious guard dog trained to bite someone's leg on command
 KikiLei
Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 2
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:12:18 PM
lmao..... their parents...yeah don't bring them

then ankle braclet the cops gave you cause to make sure you don't leave town.
Your lawyer.
and book for just in cause you get bored.

 legend82856
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 3
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 7:01:58 PM
nuclear weapons

bad breath

body odor

taxidermy mounts
 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:06:38 PM
Sidewinder missiles

Hand grenades

AK-47 and a bandolier full of bullets



Prepare for WAR!!
 Sanderick
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 5
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:25:29 PM
Well I don't mean to offend dog lovers. But if a woman has one of those tiny little yap yap dogs. Please don't bring it on the first meeting or date.
 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:27:36 PM
What, and not bring "FANG", my miniature poodle??? And Killer the Shi-Tzu (shmitt-zoo!)??
 frankz00
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 7
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:18:53 PM
Pets of any kind! Buzzkill and a half!!!
 carrie bradshaw
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 8
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:53:53 AM
I went on a date once and he brought the engagement ring he purchased for his future bride...The one he had not even met yet.
Safe to say, I was out of there...
 silverthorne
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 9
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:54:27 AM
The "real you". So many girls want a guy to love the real them that they show it too early. YOu need to play by the rules or good guys as well as bad will get freaked. They're called the rules b/c if you break them bad things happen.
 Mojo_LA
Joined: 12/15/2004
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:59:52 AM
... a cell phone switched "on"
 the.emotive.one
Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 11
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 4:51:21 AM
__divine

Yes, cell phones are rude - If it's an emergency, the person calling you should dial 911 instead.
 DacaInaru
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 12
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 5:00:00 AM
lets see..

uh

a loaded pistol

an over night bag

a priest

your 80 year old grandma/pa/parent

your 5 kids

your pet rat, snake, lizard or any other exotic animal

your father and his shotgun although this one would be way funny

and thats about all i can think of
 nasajack2003
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 13
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 5:37:41 AM
You folks knew I'd find this thread...and now, can't resist listing some...

1. Mobile home.

2. Hotel/motel room key.

3. Suitcase/change of cloths.

4. Laundry.

5. Household bills.

6. Another date.

7. Leftovers.

8. Registry list.

9. 'Honey do' list.

10. Hobbies.
 just_Kats
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 14
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 5:45:22 AM
Yeah, now it got to me..

Just because your date is an accountant don't ask them to look into your bills or taxes on a date!!!
One jerk once brought a translation for me to do...
 KikiLei
Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 15
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:29:51 AM
[/Yes, cell phones are rude - If it's an emergency, the person calling you should dial 911 instead. ]

I bring my cell, I am a single mom and need it because of my kids. However I put it on vibrate (he he) and only answer if it is them.

a cold or the flu - being sneezing, coughy, stuffing, and drippy nose isn't sexy

Your crew - coming to a date with all your friends to cheer you on, not cool (happened to me)

your Bible
 nasajack2003
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 16
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:01:11 AM
@Cherokeegirl

I agree...bringing me on a date would eviously end dating as we know it. Line 'em up!!!
 kevinh2006
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 17
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:17:32 AM
NEVER EVER BRING A CELL PHONE ON A DATE!!and if she/he does bring 1 and its "on" and she's texting or checking messages then they are talking to the person that they are going to "hook" up with after YOU feed him or her! NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ? you politley get up and go bathroom, when you come out QUIETLY!! pay your half of the bill and LEAVE!!! BY YOURSELF!!!That just shows you that that person has no real interest in YOU!!
 huhoney
Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 18
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:24:12 AM
http://www.plentyoffish.com/inbox.aspx ie a strap on dildo?
 kevinh2006
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 19
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:51:56 AM
[qoute] [/qoute] ouch!!! deff. NOT adildo lol
 nasajack2003
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 20
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:57:45 AM
@Hulahoney...

There is a possibility that BOB gets a pass...just not sure if it would offend anyone if I left it 'off' the list. Maybe to stir the drinks??
 operababeutah
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 21
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:37:23 PM
divorce papers

love letters from an old flame

document to have date sign agreeing to get an hiv test

book to read if bored

homework to do
 Mojo_LA
Joined: 12/15/2004
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 3:11:37 PM
No cell phones on a first date are not necessarily rude... if someone has kids, that is always an exception... or if someone is expecting a potential emergency, that's something else.... but otherwise, in my experience, pretty much anything can wait a few hours.

People somehow managed to live their lives free of sudden, life-altering emergencies before there were cell phones, I think they can still manage.

I'm sure anyone who's been on a date when their date has gotten a call can attest that 95% of the time it's something that could have waited.

It's simply a matter of respect. Turning off your phone says "I'm here to spend some time with you, everyone else can wait."

If you can't do that, you shouldn't be dating.
 molonel
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 23
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 3:52:07 PM
Your son or daughter, when you didn't warn the person you were bringing a child.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 24
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:36:58 PM
overnight kit - with toothbrush jamies and change of underwear, then put it on the table and say " See? I KNEW we would hit off, I came prepared "
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 25
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:37:55 PM
A framed photo of yourself, to give to them. Autographed and dated.
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