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 sammysalt1
Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 2
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If she could teach then she knew better, end of story.
 wiserd
Joined: 5/11/2004
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/21/2006 10:41:34 PM
If I were bi-polar I would protest her statements. If you accept that being bi-polar is an excuse to break the law that means that people who are bi-polar are incompetant.

But then, most people just deny the accusations. But they had tapes on her. She had to give some kind of pushback if she wanted to get a plea bargain.

There was a male teacher at our old school who messed around with a female student. But supposedly there was "no penetration." Hell if I know what happened exactly, or whether that's true. I think she might have been 16 or 17. He was married. He lost his job of course, and maybe the ability to teach.

Plea agreements are common, though. Whether or not there would have been a lynching has nothing to do with what the courts would rule.

http://gcruse.typepad.com/the_owners_manual/2004/11/debra_lafave_su.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Debra_Lafave


A sensational highlight to this case came to light in September 2005 when it was revealed that the Temple Terrace, FL, police ordered explicit nude photos be taken of Lafave's genital area while her feet were bound up in stirrups. The officer who ordered the photos was later charged with soliciting a prostitute and downloading pornography at work. He resigned after also being caught trying to cover up his actions on police department computers.
 AnneC
Joined: 2/26/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:36:19 PM
I tried to post about this last night but for some reason it wouldn't work but ...

This is ridiculous she admitted guilt w/ the same boy for the same crime in Marion county so why is it neccesary for him to have to testify in Hilsborough county. I know all the technicality BS but any kid should not have to look at the person who potentially ruined their life or at least their childhood and be more embarrassed or ashamed then they already are.

Now she is engaged again, and to top it all off talking about having kids! What sane man would want to be with this woman much less the possibly of exposing your children to bipolar disease and a child molester for a mother. I have no pity for her whatso ever. She has no remorse. In her picture for the sex offender registry she has this beaming smile. Now if your picture was being taken for anything criminal much less molestation would you being smiling!?!?!

I saw something on TV with her 1st husband and phone conversations between her and the boy that were recorded. Listening to the tapes she knew damn well what she was doing. She kept talkin about getting caught so she knew she was wrong. Now you ready for this I saw that in the begining of all this an attorney said BUT she is to pretty to go to jail!! WTF I don't care if you are Miss. freaking Universe do the crime do the time simple as that. There is no, I am pretty so therefore I am the exception to the law! This really upset me yesterday
 Lynlin1957
Joined: 2/21/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/23/2006 4:29:48 AM

But we must also understand that the victim here wasn't forced, the kid did what he did willingly!


He's a 14 year old boy, of course he was willing. My problem is trying to understand why an adult woman (or any adult for that matter) would be attracted to a child. Nor do I believe that pedophilia is caused by bi-polar disorder. Pedophilia is an abberation unto itself.
 Tomfl51
Joined: 2/20/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/23/2006 8:20:53 AM
All I know is when I was his age all my teachers were OLD frustrated midget nuns with BIG yardsticks!
 Tomfl51
Joined: 2/20/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/23/2006 8:34:53 AM
^^^And another leather strap waiting for me when I got home
 AnneC
Joined: 2/26/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/23/2006 9:17:06 AM
In regards to Carmellas2

I heard all the tapes of her talking about how they had to be careful not to get caught or so and so was suspicious and did he promise not to tell! This wasn't just one time it was like a bf/gf type relationship.

Illness or no illness - Is that not knowing right from wrong? I don't think all people w/ mental illnesses are bad people but when you start hurting others it is different. Especially kids.
 AnneC
Joined: 2/26/2006
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 3/24/2006 8:12:01 AM
I think is was her husband or her family that told I am not positive but thought I heard that somewhere.
 BikerBiker53
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Debra LaFave, she did a 14 year old boy cause she's bi-polar!
Posted: 2/13/2008 4:04:16 PM

Andrea Yates gets off for killing five kids.....in comparison, what did Little Debbie do?


From what I've heard,....the kid isnt complaining !,...LOL

Seriously tho,....I cant say this is a big crime,....but yes,..if the shoe was on the other foot,....there would be talk of a lynching.

Here in Indianapolis,....as shown on TV by the local news,....
a member of the IPD,....was caught having sex, with a 14 year old female,....in the back of his squad car.

Then suddenly,......no more mention of it again,....ever.

You would think there would be a Lynch Mob,..headed by the ACLU,..and countless
other Org's,..Parents Groups, and so on,........Nope.

In all honesty,.....as an adult,....just the idea of this happening at school,....should of sent MAJOR RED ALERTS,..to this womans head,..reguardless of her past.

But,..if you will notice,...she is a blonde,...
and living up to the sterotipical status quo.

I know,...I know,...its people like HER,..that give "Blonde's" a bad name !


http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,213778,00.html

LAFAVE: Pretty much it was oral sex. Yes, he wanted it. And yes, I gave it to him.

MATT LAUER, NBC ANCHOR: You had intercourse with him at school?

LAFAVE: Yes.

LAUER: 14-year-old boy, very attractive 23-year-old teacher. He's had sex with you. Weren't you scared to death he would tell someone?

LAFAVE: Obviously not, because I did it again.


WELL,........DUH !
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