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 SouthernCherry
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 1
Men Are Jerks!Page 1 of 13    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)
MEN! Cant live with them and cant live without them! lol im serious people some guys are sweet,kind and nice.But the jerks,cheaters and the chickens need to go!Why will a guy talk to a chick and be all nice and shit and then when its time to meet her and then BAM! he chickens out,no phonecall,no nothing shes just got stood up and it makes her look bad to her parents!Why does guys do that sh*t? What is the girl doing wrong? Come on guys comment and answer that for all the girls who wants to that simple questions!Seriously if ur just going to stand a chick up why waste time talking to her and messing with her feelings thats just wrong and stupid and if u get off on that then ur just a flat out A**HOLE!

Im serious guys will drive you to drink,some guys will make you go lesbo cause you hate them so much by the way they treat you!Guys will make you want to ring them by the necks for treating woman like pigs and trash when they can take out whenever they please.....WRONG! Woman shouldnt be treated like that.Just like woman dont ask to be raped,if you want sex....bang a trash can there is no since of force a girl cause that is no way to go about it.Its not love its not nice and it sure the hell aint right so dont do it! So wake up guys and stop treating woman like dirt or u will be dirt the rest of your life.if you have something u want to add to this or u got something to say leave a comment dont be shy!

 SouthernCherry
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:34:41 AM
it wasnt a date or anything it was more like meet the parents and the get to know each other type of thing
 SouthernCherry
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:03:10 AM
well i live with my parents still untill i start college in the summer and i had to ask them if it was okay for the guy to come over cause its there house i couldnt just bring him over without there say.thats disrespectful and no i wasnt rushing anything it was just a harmless get together and then we were going to hang out.the only deal with the parents was say hey name and boom we were going to be out the door and gone and hanging out but the guy was like yea ill meet ur parents and get on there good side and have there trust and that he like me and blah blah blah then when the day comes bam hes not answer his cell,not returning emails,not talking and i just wanted to simply know what change his mind? if it was something i did?
 SouthernCherry
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:16:17 AM

Posted By: GOLDA on 3/26/2006 225 PM
Subject: Men Are Jerks!
Message: Funny really, I find women are the back stabbing jerks, I still would trust a man over a women anyday!!


Why do you say that woman are the back stabbing jerks?You Dont think men does anything wrong ?
 mtnquail
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:11:34 PM
Very good point Al Bear!

As far as men go, maybe benefit of the doubt the first time, if there is a second time he is a liar, a player or both.

SouthernCherry:
In all honesty how many times have you done it to a man and not given it a second thought? I would guess the feelings of a man are far more likely to be discounted in the same situation.
 mr.classicchevy
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:26:41 PM
I like the part THEY DRIVE ME TO DRINKING OR TURN LESBO.........That is so funny!!!!Sorry to tell you life is choices...You choose that life.......And it is not a age thing...I here majority of women in their 30s and 40s that say men have driven me to have mental problems...That is soooooooooooooo funny to hear....Sorry to tell you you choose to be with MR.ROUGH and TOUGH!!!!!!!You sleep with dogs and you get up with flees......Personaly after i here or see a woman that sleeps with trash,Then they scare me.I could careless about a basket case!!!!!!!!!!
 Billbug
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:27:15 PM
WOMEN !!! Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em !! (just practicing to be a jerk...lol)
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/26/2006 2:43:56 PM
Please whoever said title should be people can be jerks, right on. Whoever said lose the few pounds, that's the second stupidest post here.
The OP is 18, how much relationship experience does she have, living at home with parents hanging around and all. Geez, probably drew this conclusion about men based on a few. OP, if you want a sweet guy, like your headline and profile says trust me you're using the wrong bait. And don't think the guys won't read your forum posts, even jerks aren't necessarily stupid. You aren't doing yourself any favors, if that's how you've formed your opinion about all men, what are you doing here? Looking for one more jerk, I suppose. It's really bizzare to read of an 18 y/o talking about being driven to drink. Geez, I feel sorry for your liver when you hit 50 y/o! You are in dire need of attitude adjustment. How would you feel if these guys you labeled jerks posted what they thought about you? Would you be comfy with that? I think not.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/26/2006 3:00:20 PM
Alright if I may, can I apologize on behalf of the women, like myself who actually LIKE men? Yeah, honestly some of us think that guys are just great, even with those who aren't, overall most men are fine just like they are. They just want to be appreciated, just like women do. I don't think it's too much to ask, really. Neither men or women are born hating the opposite sex, all guys aren't jerks and all women aren't bothces. And saying they have become that based on a few bad experiences with the opposite sex is just well...ignorant. Go ahead and be like that and miss the great ones. More men for those of us who like them, I already have my own darling man. You're only cheating and fooling yourselves. Too bad for you.
Oh and please don't think that all southern women or women who live in Florida (EEK!) act like this!!!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/26/2006 3:52:41 PM
Well I've dated a few jerks myself. But I also have had some wonderful men in my life, have the best ever right now!! Anyone who lets their attitude be tainted by a few bad experiences well just isn't being realisitic. And riff, don't believe what you read here, consider the source. Some get mad, some turn bitter and some just realize that's one experience with one person.
 sistersunshine
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/26/2006 4:03:53 PM
i know more woman that are jerks than man........... let me tell you
 SouthernCherry
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/26/2006 4:33:09 PM
for the record i dont hate men i was just be sarcastic about the saying that some of the men whos "woman will drive you to drink" as far as me turning lesbian im not going too i was just being sarcastic again.but thanks for everyone that did reply and put ur two cents in.also i dont hate all men and not all men is bad.Yes there are some good or some bad.i posted to see other woman has ever felt that way b4 or has even been in that scene b4.Yea some woman can be jerks to guys so its not all a men thing its normal and everyone can be jerks at time so i didnt mean to pent it all on the men.if it did im sorry to all the guys.
 Billbug
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/26/2006 4:51:41 PM
Ok. I feel better now and promise I won't be a jerk.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/26/2006 4:51:41 PM
I don't think that's what she meant, horny. People with low self esteem because of their appearance get ever more hurt by rude remarks like that.
 Reptilicus
Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 16
Women Are Jerks! I Agree Southern fried Cherry...you Women are the Worst.
Posted: 3/26/2006 4:53:10 PM
MOST OF THE WOMEN FROM MY LOUSY CITY ARE 2 FACED PLAYAS WHO ALWAYS GOT TO HAVE AN EXTRA D_CK ON THE SIDE...I HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR THE WOMEN FROM MY CITY, WE WILL CHAT ON PLENTY OF FISH IM AND MAKE PLANES TO MEET AN THEN BAM THEY SAY WHEN THE TIME COMES TO MEET THAT SOMETHING CAME UP OR WHY DONT WE GO ON GROUP DATE W/ THERE SISTER OR EUNOCH FRIENDS....LOL, WOMEN FROM MY CITY HAVE DISGUSTED ME SO MUCH LATELY THAT I DONT GIVE A RATS _SS WHAT THOSE LYING SL_TS THINK OF ME ANYMORE CUZ THEY ARE JUST LOW DOWN DISHONEST TRASH THAT DONT DESERVE RESPECT OR KINDNESS FROM NICE GUYS LIKE ME !!! THEY NEED TO GO BACK TO PLAYING W/ THERE BATTERY OPERATED TOYS AND LEAVE US REAL MEN ALONE FOR THE LADIES WHO CAN APRRECIATE AND ALL AROUND GOOD FUNCTIOINING MAN THAT DONT NEED NO BATTERIES TO GET STARTED OR VIAGRA !!!! HA,HA,HA,HA...THANKS FOR THE LAUGHS SOUTHER FRIED CHERRY :) PEACE LADIES AND SCREW YOU LADIES FROM SA....HA!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/26/2006 5:10:53 PM
Of course I read it, geez. While you can't totally blame someone else for a low self esteem other people DO have an affect on how we think about ourselves not many people are totally immune to that. Riff is right that IS very basic psychology. We have to deal with other people's rude insults one way or the other. WIth someone who already has a low self esteem that's bound to be more damaging than to one who doesn't. DId you read what I wrote? If you have that thick of a skin then you don't give a hoot what people say about you, I doubt that's true. I'll bet I have a much thicker skin than you do!!
Still doesn't change the point, that post was rude and insulting and totally uncalled for. By someone who doesn't even have the whatever to even POST a picture!!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/26/2006 5:24:05 PM
There's only one person here that has an effect on my self esteem and that's my guy. I have a lot of friends here, and I certainly respect what they say. But he's the only one that matters what he says or what he thinks of me. As long as he's happy with me, I'm good. I wasn't talking about myself personally, and trust me, I've had my share of troll attacks and insults. Didn't drive me away from here, I laughed them all off. I was being defensive of someone else, I don't like seeing people's feelings hurt. Sorry, that's just how I am, like it or not. I don't see that as a weakness either, you are most welcome to form your own opinion, however.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/26/2006 5:43:47 PM
People can "air" their opinions without being rude.
 JFK-63
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/26/2006 8:24:21 PM

Men Are Jerks!


I find this thread to be very offensive!! I sure would like to know why the moderator hasn't done anything (i.e. delete the thread)!
 Billbug
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:23:36 PM
Well after reading all the messages here I am starting to wonder what a jerk really is ???
 johnnyboy:down not out!
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:46:11 PM
i'm a man, and i'm only a jerk to those who jerk me around!
 Billbug
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/27/2006 12:13:01 AM
Well I have my beliefs regarding jerks. May not be the same as anyone else's. But one thing I do agree with, is that there are jerks all over the world, male and female. And the funny part is, that everyone has a different definition. eg. I used to think some people I knew a long time ago were jerks. Now I reflect upon it and realise that it may have possibly even been ME that was the jerk. But we all learn (I think some of us do anyway) and time is a great teacher as well. Looking at forums such as this and the young people that respond to it only make me thankful that I am a bit wiser. Do not forget that we were all young once, and maybe as impulsive as the creator of this thread. But do we have the right to judge her for her error? Are we all so perfect? No. We are not. She is not perhaps as knowledgeable as some of us oldies and is prone to say things that she is now regretting. Impuilsiveness has it's price. Now, haven't we all done that at some stage? I have...and those of you who are honest will admit it too. Yes, some guys are jerks, some gals are jerks. Saying things in anger or impulse is not really counted, providing you have learnt a lesson. I think a lesson has been learnt here.
 ~softEDGE~
Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 24
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SOME people can be real Jerks!
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:55:03 AM

AKA ... mensa: mensa wants to be denser
sighs n rolls eyes, wtf was THAT personal hijacking attempt all about with personal info posted? rather desperate if ya ask me.

and OP, get real here~
being a jerk isn't just only a male trait; bash bash bash all day long and get what you deserve in return.

i suspect men and women since the beginning of time have had to deal with jerks of both sexes, so i wonder why you single the men out as being jerks?
 super_rodent
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 25
SOME people can be real Jerks!
Posted: 3/27/2006 2:28:20 AM
so its the y chromosome that makes a person a jerk???
thats nuts!!!!
 pokormon
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/27/2006 5:59:46 AM
Girls and guys are the same way.. What's the difference? Guys can admit it!
Symptahy whores who get off on being the victim tend to be girls.. This is the problem..
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