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 kwh56
Joined: 8/7/2007
Msg: 7
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Run Forest RUN! Sorry to be blunt ....But your a fool Run the other way and dont look back!
 gonzofanmel
Joined: 10/3/2006
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in love with a newly married woman
Posted: 1/9/2008 7:36:20 AM
OP,

Time for a reality check:

STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP making excuses for this woman. Every time someone points out what she is doing wrong, you always have some defense or excuse for her. Get your head out of the clouds and your feet on the ground. Regardless of her reasons or her relationship with her husband, this woman is M-A-R-R-I-E-D. Which means she is OFF LIMITS. Which means you need to LET HER GO. It is NOT your job to rescue her from her marriage and tell her what to do with her life. It is NOT your job to "fix" things. And it is NOT your place to tell her what she should be doing with her life. Once the vows are taken, regardless of the circumstances, it means you STEP BACK AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. You have no right to interefere with

Stop painting her out to be some poor victim of bad circumstances. Stop making this out to be some kind of true-love fairy tale. Get the stars out of your eyes and get as far away from this woman and this situation as possible. Move away, change your phone number. This woman sounds like seven kinds of f***ed up. You don't need this.


Last but not least...I would suggest some counseling for you. It works wonders.

EDIT: Just realized this original post was made over a year ago. Hopefully the OP wised up and moved on.
 naeco
Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/9/2008 7:59:11 AM

My vote is to leave her and forget her. Way too much Drama. She doesn't truly love you, if she did she would be with you.



If she married him she married him........ She chose for some reason NOT to be with you.
That sux.... I know.. but come on..... ur torturing urself...


I think these two statements sum it up very well.

There's a reason in her heart and in her head, that she is with him and not you. There's nothing you can do to change it.
 Javan2
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/9/2008 8:21:04 AM
I don't understand the fighting so hard for a woman who cheats? If you win, you win a woman who cheats. Why would any intelligent man want to gain a woman who cheats ? I wouldn't take her seriously at all. She'd be my ,get it, when I could ,get it, girl; nothing more.
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