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 mbsunlimited
Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 1
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?Page 1 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
Women often complain that men don't last long enough to satisfy them sexually. I guess maybe i'm the exception,because most of the women i've been with say that i take too long too get off. I guess the question i want to ask is there such a thing as a man lasting too long? What is long enough for you ladies? 10 minutes? 30 minutes? Or more?
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 2
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 11:41:52 AM
please dont kill me but i just thought of this and had to say it:






Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?




if he's still there when she says "i do"


 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 3
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 11:49:18 AM
but there are still other ways to finish him off if you're gettin sore girls
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 2:41:46 PM
If the two of you are really into it......lasting longer can help your partner get off more and relax while enjoying each extra minute of pleasure.......that is called "love making".....

Pounding away for the act alone is just f***ing, and it accomplishes little unless there is some challenge or goal in mind because you did not please her before or she asked for you to do her hard and longer.

Where I get confused is when a woman wants to please me so much but forgets herself......nothing turns me on more than a woman having a huge orgasm and letting me feel it......know it......hear it......and then whisper for me to join her......

Just my opinion....
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 3:10:51 PM
lady......

Well thank you for the comment...but I am single out of choice.....still looking for that one that would make me consider otherwise......

OT......"I LAST.....so therefore I AM".....

Just my opinion....
 MrBlak
Joined: 12/27/2003
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:12:31 PM
There is a such thing, and I do it repeatedly and I don't know what's the issue. I've only been with one female who can last as long as I can and I came twice with her. I thought it was something emotional or psychological, and it may very well be. I've only been with two women where I came during sex. Every woman I've been with has had an orgasm and a couple of them have felt bad about me not climaxing. One of the females that I actually came with didn't really care if I did or not. After 3 hours and multiple orgasms She said, "I can't believe you've gone that long and you have come yet," as she was putting her clothes back on. I looked at her and said,"I can't believe you gonna leave me like this." She relunctantly pulled her pants and panyts back down leaving the shirt on and laid down. I don't think I was that far from climaxing, but she kind of put pressure on me so it took me another thirty minutes and I finally had my nut. The other female that I would climax more than once with loved sex and could last a while and what I liked about her was that even if it had been over an hour when I came she didn't mind if I kept going, which I would and the second time was easier than the first. I always say if I find another who can hang with me I'm keeping her.
 chauntra
Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 4/9/2006 5:33:20 PM
Personally, I can go all night, so I have no issues with a man going too long. Think of all the interesting positions and such and the amount of intimate contact there is. I would LOVE to have a man that I would have to say stop to.....havent met one yet!! Besides, for a woman like me who has yet to achieve an orgasm during intercourse, Id like to meet someone who can hold out for a while so I get at least the pleasure of the process.
 BrownEyedLeo
Joined: 1/5/2006
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Posted: 4/10/2006 9:06:59 AM
The only time I had a man last too long was when I was with a good friend and he had been doing crank. No way he was going to get off. We had planned a threesome with another female friend of ours and she chickened out at the last minute and decided she just wanted to watch. It was just recreational sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
I can not say I have had the pleaure of a man lasting too long that I was emotionally involved with. Somehow I just can't see me complaining. There is more than one way to enjoy a man that lasts all night long.
 super_rodent
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 11
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 1:05:11 AM
isnt there a medical condition of constant erection....
 super_rodent
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 12
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 1:05:23 AM
ahh what a disease wait how do I pee???
 galnextdoor2004
Joined: 5/23/2005
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/25/2006 2:27:40 PM
Lasting too long? If the guy is porn star huge, and you're not used to it . . .longer than 30 mins is not fun .. . but with muscle relaxation techniques and a little sensitive attention and caring given to the gal . . .all should be cool . . .. in my own humble experience . . ;-)
 MeowDude
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/11/2006 12:33:46 PM
yes I last a very long time and many complain that their box is being worn down
 sweetwildchild
Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 18
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 5/22/2006 9:54:16 PM
There is no such thing as TOO LONG for me at least. I've never been able to find one to last long enough. When you start to get raw after 30 minutes of solid vaginal penetration just open the KY. The last guy I had sex with said MOST women wanted to do it no longer than 20-30 minutes. I said, THAT'S JUST AN APPETIZER.
 Staryorku
Joined: 5/22/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 5/23/2006 6:41:25 AM
that sounds horrid selfish women annoy me my last relationship my gf cumed ration was 2-1 and i was always lagging cause after a few months n sex every other day it gets loosy and well shit girls need 2 stop acting so stuck up n get down 2 the oral switch it off u know cause they sure as hell exspect it from us ... when they cum they pull u closer... when u cum i get a foot in my face n told 2 get that shit the hell away from her... WTF
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 22
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/8/2006 8:45:28 PM
Absofrackinglutely.
Men who spend twenty minutes or more just pounding away like they have some kind of vendetta to settle are LAME. That is TOO long for such vanilla affairs.

Now.... An hour with someone creative, attentive and playful.... oh my word.
 ManitobaGrrl
Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 25
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/16/2006 12:50:34 PM
Yes, if you are very very lucky
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/18/2006 3:14:07 AM
Hm... if tuning is done with TLC and to every single little detail ... how come that one party could be miles ahead of the other? In my books it could be either p l o d d i n g or lovely
t r o t t i n g. No one is left behind. Question is to get really really h o t to be able to
t r o t.
 element1
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 27
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/22/2006 4:54:08 PM
Women want good Quility Sex not the guts to be rammed out Be flexable
 randy54156
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 6/22/2006 7:51:23 PM
Personally; I like to take my time. Give her afew orgasms before I indulge myself.
I really don't know what she has to complain about in the first place?
All the woman has to do is lay there. The man is the one doing all the work.
 gorrillaz
Joined: 7/2/2007
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 7/28/2007 3:08:59 PM

Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?




if he's still there when she says "i do"


funny shit

lol depends on the chik i lasted longer thn this one chik and she jst jumped off whn she cummed and left me hanging
 doors1999
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 30
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:42:56 PM
I have found that woman have no idea what they want.If they have a lover that is quick they complain yet if they have a man that can hold as long as he wants they want the opposite
As for me I do not think a woman has ever complained I am too quick if anything they know that they have had a real man when I am done
 gigigrongbell
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 31
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 7/29/2007 11:27:29 PM
what a fascinating and misleading thread
yes a man can last too long:
.. if he doesnt know what he's doing.
.. if I have to be at work in 30 mins and he cant get off.
.. if he has been using the same position for 40 mins
.. if I have lost interest.
but all the reasons are psychological before they are physical.
If a guy knows how to effectively use his mind/ my mind. If he knows how to blow my circuits again and again then I dont care if he can last for 12 hours. 10 is my record. ... lol ...
If a man just silently thrusts away from almost any position with no preamble, no mental stimulation .. and no imagination .. then 30 mins can be way too long. If on the other hand he can f*** my brain .. he can have my body for a long long time .. If he can play my emotions like a violin .. and send my brain on trips of adventure at the same time. wow.

The other side of this conversation is "why" can't he come in a reasonable time? Does he have psychological issues? Has he masturbated himself heavily over the years and now at age 45 he cant get off on regular sex? Is he getting off on the power as opposed to the sex? Is he one of those talented few who can orgasm without ejaculation and does this so habitually that he cant let go when the time comes. If he knows enough to keep me coming and coming, these causes are less of an issue .. but if he is less talented in the technical and mental skills of good love making then you might want to teach him. He might be in possession of a very good talent .. that needs some sex ed. 460 homework. Maybe hes a closet sub or gay. Most likely he needs you to show him what you like. Work on his mind and show him how to work on yours.

Come on girls lets teach him sane sex!!
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:53:32 PM
Correction Whiskey****is when a guy is too drunk to get it up....So I hear.....nevermind....
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
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Posted: 8/2/2007 4:59:17 PM
I hate to toot my own horn but more often then not I've been the one left hanging.After a few hours either orifice gets pretty sore.(I've had a blowjob last 2 hrs!)I thank that due to me being a compulsive masturbator.My own personal sessions last a minimum of 30-40 minutes.Sometimes even my****gets raw or my arm gives out...
It's a pleasant curse.
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
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Posted: 8/4/2007 9:39:42 PM
Enjoyslife, It's my understanding that the "average"penis size is 6-7".
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