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 dcx10
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 1
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How many men here are turned on by a woman's intelligence and/or education? I am one. I find smart girls so hot.
 gemnest
Joined: 5/16/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/22/2006 8:06:39 AM
Me also I want my wife to be a genius never has worked out
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:17:17 AM
ohhhhhh...how very depressing that there are so few replies to this thread... telling, isn't it?

 Catwm
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:24:50 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 charlie_girl
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:32:24 AM
Yeah, me too! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 redhotmama1973
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:35:45 AM
scaredy cats

most men find smart women intimidating...don't worry, we don't bite..unless you want us to!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:36:52 AM
Bite, no, but nibble....that can be fun!!
 tunesman
Joined: 7/18/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2006 9:56:50 AM
This guy is not in the least intimidated by smart women. Quite the opposite. That is simply a part of who you are. If I am "into" you, that is because of the whole package that makes you uniquely "you". To me, mind and soul are even more important than what the eyes pick up.

I am not intimidated by a woman's success, either. I would actually be honoured to be a part of that and throw all my support behind you.

Someone who has it going on cerebrally is much easier to talk to. If you can't talk to one another, what can you say that you have in common?
 Catwm
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/22/2006 10:01:18 AM
Where have you been all my life?.................................
 coloradogal1963
Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/22/2006 10:34:50 AM
Ummm... out of 9 replies, two are from men. Are they really that turned off by us????

Edit: oops, just saw one more man sneak in. Thanks!
 dcx10
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/22/2006 10:40:10 AM
It is actually a lot easier for me to pick up smart women. According to Cosmos, the women who are most likely to have one night stands are ... women who are PhDs and MDs. haha I kid you not.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2006 10:46:07 AM
I like smart women. I'm not intimidated at all.
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 4/22/2006 10:54:26 AM
that's good, ruckus. do you think most men are like you?
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:01:21 AM
dcx "According to Cosmos, the women who are most likely to have one night stands are ... women who are PhDs and MDs. haha I kid you not" Sorry just found it funny that a guy's quoting cosmos. Intelligence, integrity and sex drive are three completely different things, there's no way to link or relate them.
 Loveswood
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:17:11 AM
I'm not intimidated by smart women. I find them very attractive as long as they are honest.
 mike2040
Joined: 5/15/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:21:50 AM
dating a smart woman is a definite plus. Even if she knows tons of more information that you do, itd be a challenge to impress one another with what you do. The most important part of it all, is that you dont have to worry about troubling relating with each other, beccause if shes smarter, she will know where you are coming from, and will be able to understand completly.
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:22:28 AM
that's lovely, loveswood. ditto my own feelings about men.
 DacaInaru
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:22:36 AM
sorry I'd make a comment but I didn't understand the question
 Haleth
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:39:31 AM
Geesh...so few guys posting, and of those that do, none of them near me. But I knew that already, being such a smartie. ; )
 TrackMan391
Joined: 9/22/2004
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Posted: 4/22/2006 11:43:19 AM
Oh, definitely! While it can be fun to talk about the weather and current events, I also like a woman who can talk about something intellectual. It wins major brownie points with me.
 tunesman
Joined: 7/18/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2006 12:40:23 PM
@Haleth:

Might I please ever so kindly trouble you to apply just a smidge more grey matter and endeavour as much as humanly possible to ascertain just why all the great people you'd really like to ask out are always many hundreds of miles away? And I'm afraid "Murphy's Law" is not a satisfactory answer (we have a lawyer in town here named Murphy - talk about built-in marketability).

I have actually encountered several great women from around my area. Most of them don't seem to want to take the time to see what I am really about. I do not think you form the proper impression of someone in a mere ten seconds (or less) like some people on here seem to do. Very much like the labour market.
 Catwm
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/22/2006 12:57:03 PM
I am with Maddie, Florida girls rock........
 Haleth
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/22/2006 1:18:26 PM
tunesman:

My post was meant to be flippant. There ARE men in my area who are interested in intelligent women, obviously. My intent was to see if more men would post, because yes, I have trouble finding locals that -I- would be interested in. Perhaps YOU should strive to see why so many of these intelligent women don't bother trying "to see what you're all about". How odd that—in less than ten seconds (or however long it took you to read my post)—you and I were able to form a slightly antagonistic opinion of each other.

You might also want to think on Drummer Girl's post:

I like someone who can intellectually turn me on without trying to be a pompus a**.

This is one of the major reasons why some of us have trouble finding someone we can click with. Some are far too big for their britches. So to speak. ; )
 Wondermutt
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 4/22/2006 1:25:40 PM
While I don't feel that a woman's intelligence or education are the first attributes which grab my attention, smart is still very sexy. One of the most physically attractive girls I have ever met, shouldn't be allowed to cross the street by herself, sexiness revoked. Can someone be intelligent without a formal education, and how many truly stupid college graduates have you met?

Topiary Cow Can't Afford College
 CaringClownfish
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 4/22/2006 1:27:50 PM
We've all heard the saying "It takes one to know one,"..............and that is why probably why men don't appreciate/identify with smart women.

LOL

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