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Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 3
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Well I would relate it to the following story. Hey, as they say, if you dangle the carrot......

Emotional Needs

A man and woman are getting all snugly in bed. The passion is heating up.
But then the lady stops and says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to
hold me." The guy says "WHAT??" The lady explains that he must be in tune with
her emotional needs as a woman. Then he realises that nothing is going to
happen tonight and he might as well deal with it.

So the next day the man takes her shopping at a big department store. He
walks around and has her try on three very expensive outfits. She can't
decide. He tells his woman to take all three of them. Then they go over
and get matching shoes worth $200 each, then they go to the Jewellery Department
where she gets a set of diamond earrings. The lady is so excited. She thinks
her guy has flipped out, but she does not care. She goes for the tennis
bracelet. He says "you don't even play tennis, but OK if you like it then
let's get it." The woman is jumping up and down so excited she cannot even
believe what is going on. She says "I am ready to go, lets go to the cash

The man stops and says, "No, I don't feel like buying all this stuff now."
The woman's face goes blank. He Continues-"I just wanted you to HOLD this
stuff for a while." The look on her face is indescribable and she is about
to explode. The guy says, "You need to be in tune with my financial needs
as a Man".

Now you know what a man may feel like in that situation.
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 8
When did NO translate to Try Again
Posted: 5/8/2006 12:30:08 PM
That may well be to tell him, but a person really has no control over passion. It's like putting a fox in the chicken coop and saying "Don't touch". If you do not want to be pushed don't put him in a situation where his thinking is done with other parts of his body. He will think it's what you really want. Sorry, but that's the way it goes. Of course, he should maybe have declined the offer to lay with you in the first place, but then if a woman invites you to her bed, what would you expect?
 knight rider
Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 10
When did NO translate to Try Again
Posted: 5/8/2006 12:44:03 PM
as long as I knew that we were only seing each other and not dating anyone else,
then cuddling and caressing a little would be fine with me.

I don't want to rush a woman into anything, cuddling is very nice, just feeling someone
close to you is so heart warming.
when the time is right, it will happen,Untill then, I am content with just being around her
and sleeping in each others arms.

Knight Rider!
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