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 triker1
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 1
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hello I will be turning 45 tomarrow is there a chance for love after who dose'nt drink or use drugs or shoud i just hang it up and just become a monk they say life begain at 40 well Im waiting so when it going to begain maybe they ment 45 will see
 bobbelieu
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 2
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:28:00 AM
I turn 50 this year, and I don't drink or do drugs...and I can't say that my social life is barren.

They're out there, dude. I've been in the dating scene for close to three years now and as frustrating as it has been and miserable as I've felt at times...I'm sure I wouldn't have traded a single moment for anything.

It's called 'having a life.' Don't worry.
 tinkerbellcgy
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 5/11/2006 10:33:50 AM
Life is the same as it was yesterday. Just because you have a birthday doesn't mean that the core of a person changes. Life is what you make it so be happy.

Tink, Calgary
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 5/11/2006 10:42:04 AM
The only thing I can say is that statistically, after age 45, the man to women ratio starts favoring the men.
 Bull Rhino
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 5
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 11:29:18 AM
I'm 46. I forget what life was like at 45. That tells you how life is at 46. All I seem to recall from last year is loud noises, bright lights and walking around with my fly open more than I care to admit. Aging is fun. Just go with it and enjoy the ride. I'll be 47 soon. I epxect to start losing body parts soon.
 maccraig
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 6
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 11:32:35 AM
I turn 49 on Saturday. I think I had more money when I was 45. But definitely better health now. That has taken a lot of work, though.
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 7
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:08:00 PM
Hmmm.... 45 was so long ago...

Since 45 I have been to Italy, France, Florida and back (in 4 days), been engaged, married, divorced....

Your birthday, and birthday, doesn't change a thing except it hopefully makes you one year wiser.
 triker1
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/11/2006 12:41:10 PM
Speaking of the monks, i heard that when they re-wrote the old scripts, someone forgot the R in the word celibate!!! Oh thats bad !!!! but cute I'll give you that
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 9
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:42:24 PM
johngemmer - nice trike

YOU are at a perfect age - take advantage of that perfect age - RIGHT NOW - trust me it don’t stay around all that long.

When I was a teen - my dad told me “a guy at about 40 has it made - when it comes to females” - he went on to say things like - they have a very wide age group to “work” within. I had no idea what he was talking about - but OH BABY did I learn later.

I got married at 23 and 16 years later got divorced - wham I was single at 39 (right on time and right when my dad said was perfect)

My dad was right - girlz were coming out of the woodwork and they were all ages. That was before all these singles sites - everything was done face to face. I got married again about 18 months later to a much younger gal but that 18 months was totally a fantastic time. One of my nephews (actually his brother also) still think I am some kind of stud muffin because a gal they went to high school that they had both tried to get to first base with - did everything a female could do to a guy to me (short of killing him) she was 21 and I was 39 - damn she was good looking.

Much to my shock I hit this singles stuff 3 years ago to see a totally different female pool - now the 45-55 gals have 28 - 99 as the age group they are after - what they really mean is a new 25 year old guy every month. So I have no interest in 80% of the 45-55 gals - knowing they really want hook ups with guys 20-25 years younger than they are.

john - NOW is your time - make the most of it.
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 10
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:49:08 PM
Only if you left without paying the ticket, babe!!!
 daisie
Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 11
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:52:01 PM
Hey...I had breakfast in Germany, lunch in Switzerland and dinner in France all on ONE day a few years ago.


Maybe I'll recreate some similar travelling feast after I turn 45. I guess I'll have to watch the calories more after age 45. Dang-it.
 triker1
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 5/11/2006 12:53:02 PM
Im not saying my life ended at 40 I was just wondering what it was like half way to 50 life has had it ups and downs normal i guess as long as I can still ride life is great .shoot I have'nt found any young ones yet that can ride over a 100 miles with out crying they need to rest . what ever happen to the true grit riders any who thanks for all your imput
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 13
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 4:43:57 PM
First, Happy Birthday!


hello I will be turning 45 tomarrow is there a chance for love after who dose'nt drink or use drugs or shoud i just hang it up and just become a monk they say life begain at 40 well Im waiting so when it going to begain maybe they ment 45 will see


You will soon discover that Life as you know it will change. Great secrets are held until one turns 45 (pssst - there are women who actually admit to enjoying sex ).

Secure in the knowledge that you hold the Great Secrets, your confidence level will rise. That will bring about a physiological change resulting in a surge of male pheromones. Women will flock to you and beg to have their wanton ways with you.

Do not bathe for a week after your birthday. Each day be sure to jog for an hour in a pig sty.

Yes, things will change.

Annudder
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 14
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 4:45:20 PM
Now, at 50 on the other hand.....
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/11/2006 5:11:53 PM
Shhh - that's annudder secret, Eddie!

Annudder
 magicfingers1
Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 16
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 6:51:33 PM
hat's off to bull rhino...you are one funny man!
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 17
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:18:29 PM
Oh my - what a pretty girl you are WhenIFallinLuv - not to mention my all time favorite height in a female ........ someone hold me back


(maybe just ........ shoot me would work better)
 shellsmack
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 18
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/12/2006 6:01:46 PM
Don't wait....MAKE it happen.
 tinkerbellcgy
Joined: 9/17/2005
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ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/12/2006 6:04:59 PM
And, do we have a match here? Yippee! Yahoo! Go for it.

Tink, Calgary
 sassy38915
Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 20
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/29/2006 2:22:40 PM
My 40's are the best! It's all in the attitude!
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 21
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/29/2006 3:25:46 PM

My 40's are the best!


They don't look any bigger than 38's......

 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 22
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/29/2006 4:33:10 PM

eastside, you look like someone famous


From the post office wall in what city?
 ksue44
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 23
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/29/2006 4:36:48 PM
Life truly gets better as we get older. I turned 50 this year, I look at my life as two books. I've already written the first book. The first book was filled with uncertainty, I felt like I had something to prove to the world, I worried about gaining acceptance. I put so much emphasis on "getting ahead" in the career world, I didn't have time to stop to smell the roses. I thought I could kick the ass of the world.

My second book is so much more exciting! This book will be filled with "Go For It"; "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn"; "WYSIWG"; "Inner Peace". It is because I know what I want in my life, I'm not afraid to ask, I don't take crap. I want to stop and smell the roses and put a few in my vase. I love freely, deeply. I want to have as many laugh lines as I can possibly get. Life isn't about how many candles are on my cake, but what can I share with others. My second book will reflect more of my passions for travel and learning about others and their cultures. This book will also show that I appreciate all of the experiences that I've gone through in my life. Last but not least, each and every one of us will have a story to share!
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 24
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 5/29/2006 8:44:25 PM
Hey, I'm well past 45 and believe me, it only gets better. I am happier at this point in my
life that I have ever been, I think I stated that in another thread, but its true. Its too damn bad that it took so long to realize I wasted a lot of precious time wishing for better times
instead of making them happen. Enjoy and live each day as though it were your last. I
heard that somewhere and loved it.
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 25
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:45:17 PM
I will be turning 45 tomarrow is there a chance for love after


I honestly can't believe I keep seeing threads with this type of topic.

Is there a chance for love after 45?

I there a chance for red hot romance after 5o.

What happens to women's libidos after 40?

blah, blah blah!

Wake up people! With the advances in modern medicine we are likely to live to be 90 or 100. I would sure hate to think that at the midpoint in my life my chances for love, romance, sex, relationship, happiness, whatever was gone because I reached midlife!

What a defeatist attitude we have. Your attitude determines what you get. What you want out of life and the goals you have for your future determine where you go.
I want it all love, romance, sex, relationship, happiness and I am NOT going to settle for anything less.

You will get what you think you deserve. If you want something, make it happen.
If someone chooses to be alone that is their choice. If someone wants love, and a significant other, then work at it. Be willing to walk over hot coals to get where you want to be. Get off your fanny and do something. All things are possible. Just steer clear of those with defeatist attitudes. Negative thinking will get in the way.

Every one of us controls our own destiny. As for me I choose love.
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