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 MeowDude
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 4
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yes try working with swingers but you have to have a gal to trade so get an escort or use your hands.....sex should be included on the third date after the man pays on the first date and after the woman pays on the second date...same place of entertainment, that way no one feels like they are being used...see why making your gf a friend first is very important
 PrincessSandra
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 6
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/14/2006 3:21:02 PM
I don't see anything wrong with sex on the first date
 MeowDude
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 7
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/14/2006 4:40:58 PM
most swingers are swappers meaning that they trade a wife for another wife or they negotiate a sex scene with a bi-female for some kind of threesome....that's swinging for you...lol


i am saying that gal friends turn out to be lovers

you can do what you want to do but the logical result of most dates that become relationships is sexual unless one or both parties are impotent....a guy would feel much better knowing that a woman will pay her share of the entertainment...it shows the guy that she is not using him for a free meal or to be spoiled....what is good for the goose is also good for the gander


so you are saying that you will never have sex with your dates who become boyfriends and that sex isn't part of the "romantic" relationship...i can see why you are on plentyoffish but i never thought baraccudas were invited to the party...lol
 MeowDude
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 12
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/14/2006 10:18:02 PM
have you seen thouse thousand dollar dolls? omg, they look better than the real thing
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 13
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/14/2006 11:45:03 PM
casual meaningless sex. what could be better? -hmmm, unfortunately there are consequences. whether you meet up with a psycho, accidental pregnancy or a serious uncurable disease like herpes or aids. i have ruined my share of first impressions by introducing sex too soon in a relationship. -and regret doing so. since it destroyed any chance of a second meeting. guess i'm selling out on my gender but, sorry, i think i will listen to the big head, when it comes to any "first date" activities...
 lovableladywanted
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 15
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/29/2006 1:31:35 PM
There is no right or wrong on this
 luvinlifelivinthedream
Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 18
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 6/13/2006 1:06:28 AM
What a retarded thread!

The juvenile delinquency and meaningless rants are however, good for a chuckle every now and then.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 23
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Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:50:22 AM
It apparently wasn't a terribly good decision by your mother or father. With all due respect If they'd waited they'd of found out you were going to be yuor own grandpa and could of reconsidered.

Sex is for when two adults to have it. Any man that faults a woman for giving herself to him on the first date is an a*s*s*. You have the power to say no, without that you have no credibility to pass judgement.
 catdo654
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 26
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 6/15/2007 11:45:24 AM
I understand what you mean, but I also think that some of the others are right too. There should be a lasting relationship between a man and a woman before s*x, but I dont think you are being bitter, they are just being mean.
 Algernon
Joined: 11/13/2010
Msg: 31
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:41:11 AM
We don't have sex on a first day, at least the smart ones, because you guys run. If we make you wait a bit your true intentions come out. Maybe if you start telling women what you expect you won't have so much trouble because God knows there are girls who would have problem with sex on a first date.
 GenChan
Joined: 3/28/2010
Msg: 32
Sex should NOT be on first date...
Posted: 5/23/2012 9:27:40 AM
It took my ex gf and I a couple of months before having sex since that was not on my mind in the first place. I guess is because I took the relationship slowly? But whatever I did, she was great in bed. Damn...
 Realism320
Joined: 4/12/2012
Msg: 33
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 6/16/2012 4:46:25 PM
This site is poorly Represented anyway
You have Categories to choose from it seems that the Intimate Encounter one is the most ill used of them all

He is looking for sex on a site that offers that but the people who post add's about it are full of it
I could honestly understand where he is coming from if he made a date with someone with Intimate Encounter for what they want you have to be pissed

More women on this site use that to hook men like no other so please before you get Angry with this man just think about what Category you put yourself under instead of Bashing him cause a lot of you here are FALSE advertising simply put
 Realism320
Joined: 4/12/2012
Msg: 34
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 6/16/2012 4:52:23 PM
One more note

Sex on the first date is Fine but most Women turn crazy after getting laid by a man

Then the stalking begins most men will stay and keep having sex if they don't feel pressured to be with you

But damn if you women aren't so Possessive with everything you make a man run the other way
something to think about

I'm only saying this cause some women try to be the girlfriend on the first date already with out giving it time and you wonder why they bail

If you just have more fun and sex and not be all uptight trying to find the one when it will happen in time people would be much better
 TAR123
Joined: 8/16/2010
Msg: 35
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 7/11/2012 2:30:32 AM
Wow these posts are brutal!
 MsHottieHottie
Joined: 8/14/2009
Msg: 36
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 8/8/2012 5:28:16 PM
LMAO I wish there were 'like' buttons hahaha
 rockhardwoody
Joined: 12/20/2012
Msg: 37
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 12/26/2012 4:43:03 PM
sure are/were a lot of prudes on this thread. this is an open site for meeting people, whether you want to date or wet your tool.
 ractop1
Joined: 12/11/2010
Msg: 38
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Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 1/4/2017 7:59:46 AM
If you read the reviews on adult dating sites you will find they are all phony.
 ractop1
Joined: 12/11/2010
Msg: 39
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Posted: 1/4/2017 8:09:41 AM
we grew up in a sexualy repressed society, so live with it. I you can't wait till the third date them you have a problem. all you are is selfish and don't care about the women. I don't see how you get any satisfaction out of sex with an attitude like that.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 40
Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 1/4/2017 8:10:58 AM
^^^^


Who are you talking to ?
 theMaestrohhh
Joined: 11/21/2018
Msg: 41
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Sex should be on first date...
Posted: 3/29/2019 8:00:26 AM
SO....PrincessSandra, what are you doing later tonight?
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