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 escaping
Joined: 2/14/2006
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A couple can experience fantastic results when viewing porn together. It all depends on the trust and openness in any given relationship.
 Funny_Girl
Joined: 10/27/2005
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Should Porn be shared or viewed alone?
Posted: 5/29/2006 2:58:49 PM
"Should" has no place in sexuality.

It works for me solo or with someone, and yep, it's for women, too.
 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 5/29/2006 3:02:09 PM
I guess it totally depends on the parties involved. But I do think its important for couples to be sexually compatible and if one likes porn and the other doesn't then that could create some tension.
 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/29/2006 3:14:32 PM
One would hope so, but I think far to many people go into relationships assuming that the sex will just work itself out and thats not always the case. I think people need to be a bit more open to communicating with their partners their sexual desires, turn ons/offs etc, in the early stages of the relationship. We are all adults no need to be shy about these things, be honest.
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 5/29/2006 3:32:33 PM
I will only watch the really freaky porn by myself.

That way they aren't as afraid when I ask to tie them up.
 c note
Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 5/29/2006 3:33:32 PM
Porn is useful in all situations! But I only watch it for the music.
 Gordon Gal
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 11
Should Porn be shared or viewed alone?
Posted: 5/29/2006 3:36:16 PM
We have to choose? Porn is great both ways!
 VioletSkye
Joined: 1/3/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2006 4:41:18 PM

What do people think about video pornography?

Should films be watched together when in a relationship; or should these be viewed secretly and the other person in the relationship not know about it? If viewed together, does it turn people on as much as when viewed alone (or more)?

Is video pornography just for men or for women too?

Interested to hear what you all have to say about this one.



There are many directors that try to gear porn videos toward women with better plot lines and stories. I happen to like watching porn, and different kinds.
I think if you feel you have to watch in secret and not tell or share with your partner/SO/spouse, then something is wrong. A lack of communication, perhaps, insecurity? Who knows?


I think it's great when shared with someone. It, to me, only helps to heighten things sexually if you can share that with the person you're with.

Gotta love someone who explores and is open minded.
 Harry Peter
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 5/29/2006 4:44:36 PM
It's sinful and you will all burn in hell. You have to be a priest for it to be ok to watch it. Send them to me, preacher Wedgie Head. Thank you. Oh, vhs sucks, dvd please.
 vinskiii
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 5/29/2006 5:01:41 PM
yeah c note,and the artistic camera work is of interest as well.......
 crabstuffing
Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2006 5:02:35 PM
I don't have a problem with it at all, but it's more fun to make your own.
 americangentleman
Joined: 5/11/2005
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Posted: 5/29/2006 5:12:46 PM
I don't see a problem with pornography being viewed with boyfriend/girlfriend. As long as they're open to it, all power to them.

What bother's me are the girls that say, "oh that's so disgusting. . .!!!" When if you leave them alone with their boyfriends they're like animals! They're worse than the pornography!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 5/29/2006 5:22:29 PM
Porno is a good stimulant and great for ideas - Tee Hee -
Why not share the viewing? It could prove to be a lot of fun.
 wordcode
Joined: 1/3/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2006 6:08:35 PM
If we're both in need of a good laugh, sure! Of the few pornographic videos I've seen, they've all been either a little gross or so badly done that they're funny!
 fivecats8
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 5/29/2006 6:40:55 PM
It should be viewed together, could make it alot more fun. It can also be viewed alone why not, and yes women like it as much as men hehehheehe
 winnipegguy2004
Joined: 4/20/2004
Msg: 21
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Posted: 5/29/2006 6:53:34 PM
I always say if you watch porn your a lonely person.Having a real live person to share feelings and emotions is the way to go.I have never wanted to watch porn after i saw what it really was.if just watching some guy get oral then penetrate a woman for time gets you off so be it.Some guys are then allowed to cum on the girls faces, now thats pleasing to society isnt it.That is disgusting and also degrading to women. I say any replacement of real lovemaking is just an excuse to satisy yourself instead of doing it with your partner.That does deny them some sort of satisfaction doesnt it.
 fivecats8
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 22
Should Porn be shared or viewed alone?
Posted: 5/29/2006 7:12:39 PM
No watching porn does not make you a lonely person at all... Oh having said that i think yes it should be viewed together, i guess that would depend on the couple. And it would be with someone i am in a relationship with, that means not on the first date hahahahhaha (you know who you are)
 casino5222
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 5/29/2006 8:20:57 PM
I agree with funny girl "should" is out.
 casino5222
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 5/29/2006 8:22:56 PM
I think pornos adds spice to a relationship gives ideas and gets the imagination going not to mention what it does to our equipment down below. Its better than normal tv.
 Harry Peter
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 5/29/2006 8:59:03 PM
Guys don't like watchin straight porn with ladies..... they can't size up with the guys on screen, many of them. I'm not one of them of course. I bought a really small tv and make my ladies wear bifocals while we have sex. I tell them the librarian look turns me on. I mean I would/wood if I got laid.

PS. Don't watch any with horses in them. They really make you feel small.
 brivan
Joined: 2/12/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2006 10:48:55 PM
i think watching porn could be fun...just make sure it is good porn with lots of foreplay and fun.....none of this ram bam crap.......nice long make out session porn so that you can play along!! :)
 ONTARIO GURL
Joined: 2/18/2006
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Posted: 5/29/2006 10:56:51 PM
Damn ... porn is great alone, but ****ing amazing with someone else ... I wish more girls would stop thinking it's so disgusting and give in!! I'm not a perv but its just another thing to enjoy in life so enjoy it :)
 Harry Peter
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/30/2006 1:22:57 AM
U want to watch porn with other women? Coo.


I hate the porn where the cam guy just focuses on the guy's hairy ass. Never could understand that. I could if it was male gay porn. The female pornstar needs to be the star of the show, not co-star.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Posted: 5/30/2006 3:23:05 AM
i'm open minded so i have watched porn with some of the men that i've dated..it's not such a bad idea
 NoClooney
Joined: 3/22/2006
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Posted: 5/30/2006 4:22:26 AM
I just watch it to keep up with the latest in fashion.
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