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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Mmmmmm.... the ex. When we first started seeing one another.. OMG we were late everwhere we went 'cause we would be halfway dressed and then the clothes would be coming off and we'd have to start all over again. Oddly enough I don't see that now.
 lil.miss.vixen
Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 3
A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 6:56:22 AM
im going thru this right now....and i hate it...lol
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 7:02:39 AM
AAAHHH Yes! It can be very good or very negative depending on how it affects the choices you make in regards to the entire relationship, apart from the sex. How do you break that hold??? I find that the hardest thing of all - there is no real answer - it just has to wane away until you can find the full truth in your relationship.
 hazel,eyes
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 5/31/2006 7:05:36 AM
a sexuall hold yes i have had that ,,,,, its hard to break.. you say your not going to call but then you do anyways its like a drug and you need that fix
 Coastergal
Joined: 7/24/2005
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A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 7:11:26 AM
MMMHMMMM that's the bestist kind of shag partner!!!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 5/31/2006 9:01:18 AM
Yes a few times over the past couple decades....love that, it's what I miss about being young. At the time you hate it, but when you look back it's a great memory.
 lady_bugg65
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/31/2006 9:05:29 AM
yes, just being in his physical space....instant arousal....resistance is futile and not an option...
 Felanie
Joined: 1/23/2006
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A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 9:24:36 AM
I wouldn't call it a sexual hold, I would call it an extreme case of sexual chemistry....
NOONE will ever HAVE a HOLD over me.. of any kind..
 Scheherrazade
Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 5/31/2006 9:29:11 AM
I had one like that that lasted over two years. We could not be in the same room together that we were not all over each other. Yet had trouble carrying on a conversation. We could talk on line when we were both at work, but the moment we got together there was no talking just instant explosion. We'd try going out on dinner dates and had trouble talking about every day things, then rush thru eating and head back to his place or my place to jump right back into bed or wherever we happened to land. Unfortunately he finally encountered his soul mate and our encounteres ended. I was sad about that, but happy for him that he found his happily ever after and still hope to find mine one day.
 autumngent
Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 5/31/2006 9:48:18 AM
I have one now, but it not just a sexual hold. Just being with her is a turn on, even the thought of going to see her is a turn. It is almost scarry how much much of my attention is drawin by her. Yup I`m in love, had to share, sorry.lol Crazy Chick rocks.lol
 Stonewolf_II
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:24:37 AM

Oddly enough I don't see that now____im going thru this right now....and i hate it...lol____it just has to wane away until you can find the full truth in your relationship.____its like a drug and you need that fix____At the time you hate it, but when you look back it's a great memory.


Hmmm, a full fifty percent of the women here are indicating that they don't find it good to be in a relationship with a high sexual content.

It almost seems a waste then that a woman reaches her sexual peak in her mid 30's.
 EZP
Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:28:02 AM

NOONE will ever HAVE a HOLD over me.. of any kind..

never say never
 Felanie
Joined: 1/23/2006
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A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 11:29:34 AM
Where does it say that they aren't interested in a highly sexual relationship..???

I would love to have sex 5 times a day.. but I will never let anyone use it as some kind of power hold... you don't fuk me when I am horny.. you're gonna be kicked to the curb.... plain and simple.. there should be no games about it... there has to be a sexual chemistry though..
 i_are_nad
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:31:26 AM
was it the sex or the connection between you and the so called other that has a hold.....
 Stonewolf_II
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:36:28 AM
I didn't say they are not interested, I said they don't find it good to be in one. Subtle difference, but a difference all the same.


you don't fuk me when I am horny.. you're gonna be kicked to the curb.... plain and simple..


Imagine the outcry if I had said that....
 Scheherrazade
Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:50:40 AM
Actually my ideal relationship would be on that had the same high sexual attraction but also had the other elements of communication and caring outside of the bedroom. In my case the sex was great but we could not relate on a personal level. I'd be in heaven if I could find a man who could make me feel just as good outside the bedroom as inside.
 7times
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/31/2006 11:52:07 AM
sure have been with only a couple of women who were freaking amazing in bed but I need to combination of other things for me to stay
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 5/31/2006 3:36:25 PM
I do that to myself all the time. If I could only just go to sleep.
 shellyt63
Joined: 5/18/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 5/31/2006 3:45:31 PM
I had that once.... omg... we couldnt go out in public together because we fought allllll the time but man was lovin good..miss the good old days
 tenbears17292
Joined: 6/25/2005
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Posted: 5/31/2006 4:00:49 PM
and here I was thinking this was all about some kind of pinning move in the bed
 andimwritingstuff
Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 5/31/2006 4:11:09 PM
Oh, Yes!
I couldn't wait to get him naked,
had wicked good sex,
then I couldn't wait to get him out the door!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 5/31/2006 4:52:46 PM

Hmmm, a full fifty percent of the women here are indicating that they don't find it good to be in a relationship with a high sexual content.

It almost seems a waste then that a woman reaches her sexual peak in her mid 30's.

Dude, let me clarify that. I was talking about hating the hold part, not the sex. Never the sex....I just don't like anything having control over me in any way.
 haylspa27
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 24
A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 5:01:22 PM
oops I thought you where asking if any here has been Asexual hahaha sorry
 Goatboy37
Joined: 3/31/2006
Msg: 25
A sexual hold ???
Posted: 5/31/2006 7:37:18 PM
I don't know how to quite answear this one, but yeah it's true. It's like Hi, how you been, lets f@ck, then 30 minutes later, I'm thinking lets go again! When two people have a natural bond and connection, it only seems natural to want to take it to the next level.
 set the hook
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/31/2006 9:39:15 PM
yeah, i have that affect on women
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