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Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 3
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I have to ask myself all the time what women really want. I've dated all kinds. Some want sex. Some just want to play games. And then like my ex, wanted a serious realationship. She moved far away. Thats why I'm here and I'm not one for long distance. Anyways, as far as I'm concerned, I'm one that wants something long term. I would think it all depends on the demeanor of the person. Sometimes you can tell what they want within a few hours of talking or being with them. You'll just have to learn to read their body language and see whats between the lines of what their saying. But becareful with reading between the lines. Like myself, what I say is almost always what I mean. I try not to have any underlaying meaning to the things I say. Just my opinion.
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 4
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what do guys really want???
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:11:15 AM
What do I want?
I want the perfect woman.
Someone intelligent, caring, beautiful, witty, creative, adventurous, shares my hobbies, is the right amount of crazy... the list goes on and on.

Oh, and hey... I found her. ;)
Elzeothis is everything I could ever hope to find and more.
Thank you PoF for letting us meet.
Joined: 8/25/2005
Msg: 5
what do guys really want???
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:37:27 AM
Why did you ask what it is that guys really want and then turn around and answer you own question by stating that some guys want sex, others want to be friends, and others want relationships? You answered your own question. No two men want exactly the same thing, but must of them fall pretty close to at least one of the three categories that you mentioned.

Now allow me to ask you a question. Why do women feel the urge to ask questions that have obvious answers? Is it to make the man feel smart or is it because women really are that stupid?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 9/5/2006 9:14:29 PM
To be revered as a God.

Or perhaps just accounability and reason to go with a hot bod and an engaging personality.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 9/5/2006 9:37:48 PM
^^^That is the post of the day man!
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 12
what do guys really want???
Posted: 9/6/2006 4:50:16 AM
It's different for every guy, just like it's different for every woman.
I want to meet friends right now and if something comes of it, then that's gravy.
Worst case scenario I have a new friend.
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/28/2007 8:44:53 PM
Depends on the guy.Me for sex life began at 15,I've had a lot of experience(luckily making it out disease free).I've been getting into 21 and over bars since 18,and it's all overrated to me now.I'm 33 yrs old now and I'm one of the ones looking for the solid relationship now.
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