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Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 4
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I can't stand fake tits. Better they sag.

(BTW are we talking elbow level or belt level? Elbow level does not look that bad at all)
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:12:16 AM
It doesn't really matter. I don't think I've ever chosen wether or not to date a woman because of her breasts. :p
I guess, technically, most guys would prefer perky to saggy, but that's the same as anyone would prefer something they find attractive compared to something they don't.

But really, it doesn't matter.
Though, my sweet Mai... well, definitely no complaints there.
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:21:50 AM

A real boob man loves breasts no matter the size or lack of perkiness.

Very true. If it's breasts you love, you'll love them in all shapes and sizes and colors. ;)

Oh and by the way a man loves his woman for who she is, if he's worth the time and energy!

Even more true. :)
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:26:35 PM
Just once, I'd like to have a good practical reason to consider this question seriously.
Which way do I go, which way do I go ?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:04:08 PM
can't stand fake tits. Better they sag.

(BTW are we talking elbow level or belt level? Elbow level does not look that bad at all)


I'm sorry ladies, but you should love honest men. Thanks Smith!
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:48:25 PM
I would date a mastectomy patient, if I liked her.
Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:55:53 PM
why the talk of plastic surgery? a woman can make her sagging breasts perk up by spending a few weeks in the gym doing chest exercises....and its waaaay cheaper too. You would be amazed at the results!
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 9/29/2006 2:04:35 PM
The breasts are supported by ligaments, and they can get stretched out. This is the cause of droopy boob syndrome, if you'll allow me to coin a phrase. Exercises aren't gonna help.
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/29/2006 2:48:35 PM
No, I've dated several women who have passed the pencil test, and they were quite... er... gifted.
Joined: 8/11/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/30/2006 1:39:35 AM
Personal preference only, larger nipples can be very enticing, as for sag .... well that;s gravity for ya I may have a prefernce for the non-bologna slab type of nips but if those were part of the woman I loved well I bet I would develop an appreciation for them.
Joined: 8/11/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/30/2006 1:43:58 AM
pmsl just finished reading th epost and "you don't go around asking how big someones boobs are"? that would explain the number of time I've been asked how big my c0ck is. If they have to ask and aren't buying you sexy bras etc they are only giving away their total lack of experience in such matters.
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/30/2006 8:20:36 AM
you can mix sarsaparilla and saw palmetto 50/50, drink 3-4 cups daily plus grind it down to a powder, mix with your favorite lotion and apply daily. this has helped many women i know with this issue.

myself, i have small, perky boobs that make me pretty happy and no one else has complained either (except my mother, who feels i need implants ~ plus a nose job and liposuction).

in any case, it's the one area of the body where we have little control. sure, if you lose or gian weight, they may expand or get smaller, but it's not like a muscle you can tone.

hope this helps.
Joined: 7/20/2004
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:24:37 AM
If you're always going to feel self concious about them, get them done. I grew up with a birthmark on my face; and no matter how many people tell you that 'it's what's inside that counts', what's on the outside matters too. I always had this sinking feeling that I was defective somehow, and in reality, it's a shallow world out there. My own confidence grew when I had it removed. By your post, it seems that you feel that your boobs are ugly. And yours is the only opinion that matters. Like all of us, you want to feel attractive. And you deserve to. So just do your research carefully to get the best surgeon. Check out their past work carefully. Don't scrimp! You'll have these breasts the rest of your life, and you'll love them if they're done right. If they're done wrong, you'll be kicking yourself the rest of your life. That's how important it is to get a good surgeon. If you know anyone who's had the procedure done, talk to them. There are quite a few different types of operations done, so second or even third opinions may be worth the time. Find out what your 'new' boobs will prospectively look like when they're finished; the surgeon should be able to tell you. A good surgeon can make them look like they are naturally shaped, with only a tiny faint white line as a scar where the incisions are made. Get the boobs you want. You only have one life. You shouldn't have to spend it being uncomfortable taking off your bra. Best of luck. Oh, and even though I'm a 'male' nurse, I've seen the results of quite a few breast 'jobs'. The bad ones are terrible, the good ones look and feel as natural as the real thing. All depends on the doctor doing the surgery.
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:43:51 AM
Whats the point? Your breasts not please you? Don't do anything to change you for a guy. When you are both 60 there will be a lot of things that don't look great.

If you don't like them then you have the option to change them, I would though ask your guy friend if you have one. If you are wondering if guys won't like you because of what your breasts look like, then maybe you are looking at the wrong guys.

I have been married twice, both had had children and both were the firmness of youth. I did not care what was under the clothes, I cared what they thought and their actions and words. Everything changes, face it everyone is growing older every day.

If you want to change for your own sake, do it. But don't base your future health on what a guy will think about your looks. My photo has me with long hair, none of my family liked me with long hair, I cut it back because I had issues with brushing my overly curly hair everyday and twice on sundays, but I did not cut it or grow it for anyone but me.
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/2/2006 8:00:46 AM
wear a bra all the time and do some simple chest exercises matter what your boobs look like thy will get your money for a vacation!! You earned those saggy tits!!

Ok the pencil test sucks...I have virtually no sag but 36FF boobs...the pencil fell but it took a while.
Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/4/2006 3:52:17 PM
Dolce i am starting to understand your mental delema it is hard going through life and to be with someone going through time not being happy with the person your with or you know they are not the one life is cruel so are people. it is understandable what you are thinking thank god for opportinity dont mess this one up. Tall dark and handsome.
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/4/2006 5:05:39 PM
sweet teeth,

I am wondering how men feel about women with not to attractive breasts. Sagging after child birth, or larger nipples.

A guy honestly answering this question puts him in position to sound like a pig. Hence, some guys giving you good advice, but not answering it directly.

With that said, do you think men find women more attractive when they have distinctly more attractive breasts? Yeah -- it varies from guy to guy. Additionally, "unattractive" -- too relative of a term. A woman with breasts that are unattractive by most standards (because breasts by themselves, big or small are attractive by default), is less attractive, yes.

Would you prefer a woman who went to plastic surgery to have this fixed giving her a more plastic look or would you prefer natural breast that weren't too attractive?

Well, women can have it "fixed" without having a plastic look, although that costs more money. Again, depends on how bad her breasts look. If her breasts looked like wet tube-socks dangling with 50 nickels at the bottom, then yes - doing SOMETHING to keep them from looking ugly would be a good thing, in terms of attractiveness. There are pills that can actually help out "too saggy" of breasts, so if yours are just subpar, I don't think you'd necessarily need any surgery.
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/8/2006 8:57:26 AM
Here's the deal,,, at some point age and gravity have an effect on all our parts,,, so sad,, but so true.
I'm 58 and wear a 46DDD bra,,, they sag some,,,, does it make them ugly? Well sugar, if you think so,,, put your clothes on and go home,,, don't let the door hit your azz on the way out.

Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/8/2006 4:19:46 PM
Oh my goodness! Be happy with what the good Lord blessed you with. Myself, a woman who is beautiful in heart and soul is 100% more attractive to me than a woman with sagging boobs. I just hope you're just as happy with my less than impressive penis. Do you see where I'm going here?

I'm more interested in if you're a good mommy, than I am about how your boobs look.

I love a woman for what's in her heart, and not for how her boobs sag. If you can still get aroused when a man is suckling on them, then why change them.

What is it with people wanting the perfect body? The perfect body is useless, if you don't have a perfect brain to go with it.

ugly boobs
Posted: 10/9/2006 5:09:02 PM
I find alot of these answer to boarder on the BS scale around a 9.5

yes, boobs sometimes can be hiddious...
dont believe me?
go look at national geographic... or your grandma naked.

some guys just dont care... cause they are just glad anyones naked with them.
other guys still have a standard, and if your not up to that... then it's really hard to look beyond some crazy boobs or something shallow like that.

I can remember a few years back, in florida I was dating a girl for a few weeks, and it finally came down to us having sex... she was getting naked, I got her shirt off... and I felt like a machine, that just had my plug pulled out of the wall.
after I saw her chest, it was a disaster... triangular boobs, that were flat, and pointing downward... normally one would use the words "bouncy, jiggly" and such to describe boobs... I'd use the word "floppy, and droopy" to describe hers.
they were like beagles ears... with tiny nipples on them.
it was disturbing, cause she was perfect with her clothes on, great figure, but alittle flat chested, but that doesn't normally bother me. I really dont care about the size of a girls boobs, as long as somethings there, I am happy.
but in this case, it was like she had been hanging cinder blocks from her boobs all her life to stretch them out or something... which is why she always looks flat chested...

uhhh god that night was a disaster.
I am sure I was the worst sex she ever had that night, cause I was not interested at all.
I just wanted to get up and go home after I saw her chest, it was horrible.
unfortunatly I was a dumbass at the time, and just plain old stopped calling her and she got sad about it, and I was too young to know what I was doing... sleeping with a girl, then never bother to call her again.
we hung out sometimes after, but things just never clicked again for us.
I just couldn't picture being with her.
when I see my girl naked, I wanna be turned on... not turned away.

there are bad boobs out there...
just like you might see a guy you thinks hot, then he pulls down his pants, and it looks like a mini hotdog, fell into some guys afro... and your struggling to see his balls, when you realize they are hanging down by his knees.
yeah, thats not hot right?
sure, alot here would give a BS answer, and say "well if I love him I wouldnt care".
but I have enough girls as friends, that tell me crazy stuff, that would suggest otherwise.

damn I wish I could erase some of this crap from my brain...
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:57:02 PM
Breasts(it) and women....yummy. suck it, tweak it, massage it, tease it, f$#% it, squeeze it, bite it, flick it, put ice on it, tickle it, tongue it, make her want more and do it all over again. But never criticize it. She has decided to be intimate with you....just enjoy the foreplay and sex and have fun. Quit analyzing it so much. When you start to analyze things, you totally change the outcome and future of that thing you are analyzing.
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/5/2006 12:18:16 PM
I'd love to get some octogenarians in here to talk about their boobs and balls, etc

kinda makes you realize how vain you are but as one poster tries to point out.. attraction is key so...

for every tit, I'm sure there's a man who wants/desires it
Joined: 8/4/2004
Msg: 73
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Posted: 11/5/2006 4:05:49 PM
ugly is only one issue and that is a personal prefrence if they are ugly or not. I have friends who only like very large boobs, I on the other hand prefer quality over quantity. They do not go together always. I have also seen great looking boobs which were made that way with implants and felt awful to play with. It all depends. I do have a thing for puffy nipples though and they are oh so rare.
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/5/2006 5:22:32 PM
OMG!!!!!!! Owwwwwww!!! I snagged my nipple piercing on my thumb ring while breaking in a pool game...that hurt...alot ....but yours makes my eyes water!!!!!
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/17/2006 6:08:08 PM
I have 36FF's and they arent bigger than my I cant imagine boobs that big....and incidentally i have nursed and they are real....
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