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It seems to me that women frequently wonder if it is okay to ask this question or that question, etc.
My answer is this: if you can't even ask a man a simple direct question, then THAT is a problem. Men (at least we honest ones) are pretty straightforward creatures, with a minimum of nuance and shading, not much beating around the bush. In fact, a lot of us stink at subtlety, so you are better off spelling things out for us very clearly. It's okay, really.
We understand directness just fine, as long as it is not delivered in a whiny or acccusatory tone. The old saying "not just what you say, but how you say it"...
You want to know whether he is ready to date you exclusively? Just ask.
THEN, after that, you may discuss the issue of whether you both should take down your profiles, etc.