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Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 5
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I think it's trendy too. I am not into trendy stuff just because it's trendy. I missed out on the whole grateful dead thing just because I wasn’t into trendy stuff, which just shows you it's not always good to go against the grain just to go against the grain.

My ex is a perfect example of what you’re talking about. She claimed to be a lesbian most of her adult life but then was a stripper. She would often complain about the objectification of women which she claimed as a reason for not liking men and then stripped. I don't get it.

I just hope becoming a eunuch doesn't get to be trendy.
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/22/2006 6:32:43 PM
OP, I have to say i find it tasty to think about, but I don't want it in reality. I want me and the lady alone, period. if she is a lesbian and with me okay, but she is with me that makes her bi-sexual, or like my second wife.

My second wife is a Christian, she knows she likes women too and knows the bible talks about it as a sin, like the other 10 of the normal ones none of us can keep, so she tries hard to stay single and like only men.

The world is getting the chaos on it seems and the world is filing the order of things in the waste basket and telling everyone that it is charge. Ok if you want to think that, I don't think so, but this is not in the religous threads.

Society has allowed them to be out there so they are out there. 50 years ago you would not hear one hair worth of them, they were there, just not heard from.

You are hearing with the new ears. enjoy the sounds.

Of course you have your opinion and I have mine, and mine is not more right than yours, just mine is attached to my fingers and yours is a shadow on the forum walls to me.

 Paddy O Furniture
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/23/2006 12:05:36 AM
I don't know what the deal is with lesbians, but I wished they would stop buying all the Flannel Shirts & D*ckies apparel at the local stores.
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 11/23/2006 2:11:12 AM
First #31,
Who says I can't hit on the lesbians. Laughs, guess you don't know me. If it is female I am talking to it, if they smile back I talk more. I don't care what they like in their bed. I have been called "my best lesbian lover" by my second wife.

What is the human's best sexual organ and then the wettest one?

give up?

Brain, and tongue.

I have a brain and I have a tongue and I know how to use both of them and I have the male only body part that can part the sheets of female flesh and do the things I like to her. But I use the above two more often than not and don't need anything else to be ingaged in sex to be happy. so I can be a male lesbian.

I only like gals, if I was a gal, I'd be lesbian.

Now I do find some guys pleasing to look at. but I am an artist too, and human faces are my forte, I love eyes to look into, more the better if the eyes are attached to a lady though.

I still think the times are changing and things being what they have always been could swing back again and hurt a lot of folks in the process.

Musing the EDEN and the SEX thing in a christian context of per sin. LOL I'll blog about it I am sure very soon.
 Leigh AKA PL
Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 11/23/2006 2:21:58 AM
well lets just say I am proud not to be a trendy girl if that is what trendy means

Men only for this girl.....

just curious by the way,it has never come across my mind until now,,,, if a lesbian has never been with a man... is she technically still a virgin?,,,, not being rude by no means,it just popped into my head and didn't know how to answer myself... lol... ok I am getting to old,talking to myself and can't answer my own questions lol

EDIT... JWA where are you when I need you,you always have the answers for me?
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 11/23/2006 2:23:30 AM
#32, 34 and 35.

I have gone there in my brain, and though I got a rise out of the idea, I was the dom and not the slave. So no just not my bag of wax beads, I love ladies more and am totally wired to them and so much so I am after all part female The genetic lvl X and Y Gene thingys.

I love ladies, all ladies, and I like to engage in conversations with them. But I don't have sex out of marriage, so no kissing the lips and no kissing anything but hands and tops of heads. I will give you hands on treatment, but not the privates ( the ones below the waist). There are a dozen ladies I'd love to be able to add to a harem but I don't do that outside of books so just one lady for me....

My fantasy is rather simple. getting there is the complex part.

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 11/24/2006 4:02:49 AM
I think sex should be more about performing a pleasurable action on someone and less about who the person is. Sometimes I perfer to be with a woman for the tenderness of another woman. I also enjoy watching to women together as much as I enjoy wacthing two men together. It is however much less common to find men who are sexually confident enough to do this. I find both very arousing. I'm not hetro-sexual, bi-sexual or a lesbian...I a SEXUAL woman who will not limit her pleasures to what others say is "normal".
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/11/2006 6:41:33 AM

I don't care what the world thinks, or anybody else for that matter. I think women are hot

I couldn't agree more. Well said!!
Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 12/11/2006 6:17:24 PM
I love you lesbians.
I'm one myself.

but im wondering why its so much more accepted these days than say men on men...

Because all of us guys have large peni and a small mouth?
Yeah...that's it.

Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 3/4/2007 10:33:48 PM
...they like other women...
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 73
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Posted: 3/7/2007 1:49:57 PM
In regards to why men like lesbians?, I read a post somewhere that best describes why men like lesbians.

One good looking woman = hot
Two good looking women together = really hot.

For most/vast majority of straight guys, we love looking at women. The whole porn industry, Playboy, Hustler etc are all geared toward men looking at beautiful women. Now why do ppl find it wierd that striaght guys don't like looking at 2men kissing? We are not mentally wired to finding that atractive. Maybe bi- guys like that and I'm betting gay men do. Straight men do not find looking at other guys in sexual situations (ie kissing) attractive.

I will agree that some women today use the girl on girl image in bars today to tease/stimulate men into getting attention/ drinks.

But from what I have heard/read, when it comes to lesbian relationships, because women are more atuned emotional/spiritually to each other, the break-ups emotionally are much more harder than in hetrosexual releationships.

my 2cents worth.
 Paddy O Furniture
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 79
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Posted: 3/27/2007 11:07:02 PM
I don't know what the deal is about lesbians, but gawd bless em, I say!

If it were'nt for Lesbians, Howard Stern would have disappeared years ago!
 Diamond Stunna
Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 4/16/2007 10:41:47 AM
nothing is alluring about two don't turn guys on...

Its the thought of being with the two women that turn guys on. I don't like Lesbo's either. I ridiculous in many ways.. for example

You don't like men but you find a girl that looks like one.


You find the fatest out shape woman to be with .


You by a Dildo....if that not the mark of a hypocrite i don't know what is.

only thing that is acceptable if you say your Lip stick lesbo's...two women that look like women...getting it on.
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 4/16/2007 12:49:30 PM
maybe its wird to only like the oppostite sex now a days?
Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 101
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Posted: 6/15/2007 9:12:08 AM
Lesbians is where a girl likes a girl.

LOL hope that helps.
Joined: 7/8/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 8/9/2007 10:57:53 PM
uh,so would a simple 'leave me alone'! if you had been out with a male friend,would you have kissed him too,as a way of getting rid of a pesky guy?? probably not. i'd say you used the excuse of getting rid of that guy,to kiss another girl. why can't females that are attracted to other females,just come right out and admit they like girls? why make all these excuses for touching/making out with the same sex? oh,i was drunk when i had sex with my best friend---i kissed a girl to get attention---i made out with a girl to get rid of a bothersome guy etc. If you wanna make out with someone of the same sex,do it and don't make any excuses!
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 104
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Posted: 8/10/2007 12:06:59 AM
For some reason some guys find it hot when two girls kiss so some girls have taken up kissing other girls to seem more attractive... yup. that pretty much explains it
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 111
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Posted: 9/20/2008 10:24:57 AM
I am speaking for myself that there is no deal with lesbians,Why? Is it not obvious that they lack that pleasurable jewel that a man have? If you 're wondering if you are strange man, I am wondering too if I am strange woman wasting my time watching 2 women doing sex, for nothing.I would rather enjoy them doing cat's fight over one lousey guy.
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 117
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Posted: 8/8/2011 11:50:56 PM
Msg.#1 :

It beats me on what's the deal with the lesbian, when they do sex with a woman they have to use a man made penis...

Soooooooooooooooo! the deal with them is, the they are not the real Mccoy but it's better than nothing,because there is scarcity of men,lots of men are in JAILs...
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 128
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Posted: 8/13/2011 8:45:46 AM

No suprise that they find it in each other...!!
If I were a woman....I'd be one, Too..!!

I have a confession to make

I *AM* a lesbian... trapped in a man's body!

I think I need counselling, or an intervention, or something..

the new "syndrome" : "LTIAMB" syndrome.. I love to eat pvssy, caress a woman's body & make love with her..ohh damn..
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 129
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Posted: 8/13/2011 6:46:41 PM

No. They don't. Trust me. Just saying.

Soooooooooooo, it looks like a Pork chop with apple sauce to a lesbian ? Okay ,then I would rather prefer a man because he thinks it is a LOVE TUNNEL,excuse me I am not shouting, I am just making my point about the word love tunnel, hehehehehe....
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 131
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Posted: 8/13/2011 8:24:48 PM
Lots of men are turning women into lesbians.....
Its sex without fear of pregnancy and also women usually can please women better than men can.

Also their toys can be whatever size the ladies choose!!
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 133
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Posted: 8/14/2011 7:19:15 AM

Idk....but when the boss at work told everyone that she was a lesbian....suddenly...every female employee that worked there were all the sudden getting divorced....breaking up with their boyfriends and yes....revealing that they too....were a lesbian. Which was fine with me....just left me with more males to pick from.

Whoooaaa..sounds like you've been missing out on some hella parties!
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 137
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Posted: 9/17/2011 10:21:49 PM
The thing that bugs me about lesbians, and some of them are the fact they call us men,"sexist pigs" and various other names. I've met some in real life who are cool, but by god are they worse online.

I'm not against girl on girl, either. I just hate the man hating lesbian types.
Joined: 5/10/2010
Msg: 140
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Posted: 9/18/2011 5:15:11 AM
So,,,, two women going at it dose'nt do it for you, you are not a lesbian.
So,,,, two women going at it dose'nt do it for you, you are not straight either.
So,,,, what's left?
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