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 Neonmitch
Joined: 5/9/2006
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If a gentleman performs oral on a lady, how long should one be expected to perform? I understand there's a natural end when the lady orgasms once or several times or reaches exhaustion, etc., but what if she doesn't climax but keeps telling you "it feels good don't stop". I find my cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins, and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min. Is there an appropriate time after which a gentleman can quit gracefully without losing face?
(sorry I had to get that one in)
 Neonmitch
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/22/2006 1:59:23 PM
Before you vote this as redundant do the thread search yourself: it's not an issue that has been previously addressed. And if you can find a previous post, re-post it here.
 colegurl
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/22/2006 2:14:27 PM
30 mins?!?!? you'd be prying me off the ceiling.

there is no time limit to be down there. the way i look at it, if she O's, then she O's. if not, well, after 30 mins, maybe you should just try something else. no one said you had to just do cunnilingus
 Jorge1120
Joined: 7/11/2003
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/22/2006 2:21:09 PM
Hell, I'd be most eager to please her down there.. no matter how long it took! What the hell's your problem, dude!! Lol!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 11/22/2006 3:04:15 PM
I once had a guy go at me for a couple of hours - he was making up for his 'short comings' so to speak!! It got boring actually - I left early!!!
 sweetcurves
Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/22/2006 5:26:32 PM
30 mins? I must orgasm very quickly...because 30 minutes sounds like a really long time!

I know for myself, I can't perform oral sex on a man for longer than 30 minutes without being in some pain, and I've never had a man complain about me stopping. If you're in pain, you're in pain...let her know that. Communication during sex is muy importante!!!
 brawnydog
Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/22/2006 8:50:34 PM
This is the stupidest sex question that I have heard on the net.
That really means that it's moronic.



How long for cunnilingus?

Until she's done getting her pus.sy eaten. wtf?

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 Lick it Up
Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/22/2006 11:27:38 PM
as long as you can...

My record with my current Girlfriend is almost an hour...but I think after about 35 minuets, she was just letting me do it because she knows I like it...

 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
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Posted: 11/23/2006 3:17:51 AM
How long for head?

Same type of question. It's foreplay, although you can get off on it it's primarily to titillate each other, ie. she gets wet and you get rock hard.

Usually, it's when she says "FUKC ME NOW!" that you know to stop.



Fr0
 ladysprite
Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/23/2006 6:32:43 AM
ok... if she's not reaching her peak after that long.. there's something missing..



Try a couple things.. are you using your fingers as well? (the g-spot is behind the pelvic bone)

also.. try some different things with your tongue.. I don't know quite how to describe it.. but there's this suction twirly thing some guys can do that drives me insane !

If all else fails dude.. then try a toy.. like a tongue vibe.. or ..The best toy ever.. the silver bullet.. it has at least 9 different uses.. one of which is to place under your chin while you go to town for a gentle stimulation..

(girls can do this to the guy too..it's fun to see a man's eyes cross when I do that. )
 littleluck99
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/23/2006 7:36:50 PM
Damn, I know ur cheeks may get a little sore, and ur jaw also , then sometimes yes ur neck may hurt, but man u gotto give it to her as long as she can take. If shes not responding, by that I mean moaning pushing back and or squirming, then quit cause she don't deserve it, but if shes as into it as you should b then time WILL fly by and u won't have a need to watch the clock....lol...sounds kinda boring actually.
I love to perform oral, and enjoy it almost as much as receiving it. I have no qualms over giving it my all for as long as she can stand, squirt away ladies, its all good. Oh yea, and I latch at least one hand over her tummy to hold her for the moments when she THINKS shes had enuff...lol...hang on ladies and enjoy. Lickety lick.....
 bostonjen
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/24/2006 3:49:54 AM
When I unclamp my legs from his head and let him come up for air.
 maplesyrupguy2
Joined: 10/15/2006
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Posted: 11/24/2006 6:12:57 AM
Im the same...

I am addicted to going down and I tend to get carried away when I am doing it.

 CloneAlone
Joined: 7/8/2006
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Posted: 11/24/2006 7:02:26 AM
Love it, just love it. No time limits please, thank you.
Can't say I've ever gone over an hour. With varying technique I'm usually able to find the way to get the female clone where she needs to be in more like 20 minutes. I can't remember the last time I stopped on my own, usually it is more like 'Oh God, okay, I can't take anymore, I just need a minute. Go have a cigarette or something. Holy chit!'

I may be out of practice at the moment though. I need to find a female clone for practice sessions . . . .

Clone
 vhdc
Joined: 7/18/2006
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Posted: 11/24/2006 7:12:17 AM
This begs to ask, what are you doing wrong?
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
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Posted: 11/24/2006 1:59:08 PM
30 mins?? 45 mins?!? sweetie, i wouldnt want you to get a sore cheek/neck muscle, or anything sore ...i need ALL of your body parts to be fully functional...(speaking for myself, 10-23 mins. is avg....)maybe SHE needs to relax and/or communicate somehow...then after, honey lets tear each other apart...YUM..
 Looking_in_Ottawa
Joined: 5/12/2005
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Posted: 11/24/2006 3:57:29 PM
Im with Swanner. If my partner is into it, I'll do it until she wants me to stop lol
 Neonmitch
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 11/25/2006 6:02:24 PM
Sorry it took me this long to get back to this thread.

Other ladies I have gone down on generally start to orgasm within about 5-10 mins, and they're usually spent by 15 mins. I've been complimented on my technique, and I do use fingers to get at the superficial and deepr internal spots.
 marshw
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/25/2006 10:32:43 PM
Till she cums! If you can't make that happen in less than ten minutes, either your technique needs some work or it's just not the right time for her.
 Golden_Triangle
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/27/2006 8:56:02 PM
" I find my cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins, and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min."

hehe, take a muscle relaxer.


" Is there an appropriate time after which a gentleman can quit gracefully without losing face? "

Yes, after the 30th O, go big or stay home, lol.
 Tu_ez
Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 11/27/2006 9:32:53 PM
New gal pal? If you're with the gal for the first time it'll be longer or possibly it may not even happen. Spend 20 min tops, even if she hasn't "gone" by then she needs a f*#king If she knows you well, she's happy and there has been some practice in the past you can knock one off in 5 minutes and a second within another 7 - 10 IF she lets you go that long (see 3rd sentence!)
 Tu_ez
Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 11/27/2006 9:39:22 PM
pries colegurl off the ceiling
 biglove33
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 12/29/2007 6:58:54 AM
i could stay down there forever one of my faorite things to do
 RR Man
Joined: 6/24/2006
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Posted: 12/29/2007 11:32:51 PM
"First of all, your using the wrong position obviously, your neck can be rectified by getting on your knees on the side of the bed, and pulling her butt to the edge, making her perpendicular to the long axis of the bed. Then throwing her legs over your sholders"
============================================================I can do one better than that. Get the girl to make herself comfortable in her favorite stuffed easy chair. Then kneel down in front of her and throw her legs over your shoulders, and just do it.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 12/30/2007 3:25:34 AM
30 minutes? Good lord. There's a problem on someones end.
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