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 bladerunner14
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 14
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Your full of shit, not everyone is like that. Sure men enjoy sex, but truth is women do not enjoy that pleasure as much. Much sexual drive is much higher than most women I have gone out with. I was married for eight years, and women play games, and do not give a shit about the real values of a marriage. I had women who was too ambitious, cared very little for her kids, and never wanted to be part of the family. Many women will say that they want a real relationship, but really they are playing games, just like men..
If communications two way street, and you happen to get bored with him, probably because you really do not care and that is common sign of lack of intelligence. I have met a lot of women whose idea of good time is shoping and playing games. Do not beat on men until your willing to look in the mirror and fix your own backyard. If you want to rebutal me in person just email me at cyranobrigham@hotmail.com
If your like most women, you will just blow it off as men talk, but truth is women do not like to look interprespective.
 G.G.
Joined: 10/25/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 12/3/2006 11:39:14 AM
Hey I think that sometimes people want something like a long term relationship but they are terrified of it when they come face to face with a possibility. That doesnt mean they're not worth it, it just means that you have to be patient. Everyone is a little broken in the love department or they wouldnt be here. Some people rush into it before they have a chance to know the person and some people rush away from it because they are afraid of doing something wrong or being hurt. Either way I try to give everybody the chance they deserve. People are only people.
-Gina
 denababy
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 12/4/2006 12:08:29 PM
Sorry you got burnt.

I think the person knew exactly what she wanted and it wasnt you. Simple as that. I have been called mean before because I've just blown guys off until they stopped calling. After 1 or 2 conversations or only meeting up a couple of times and not even really having a real 'date' they somehow feel you are obligated to them. I don't feel I owe them anything. If you meet somebody on a dating site what makes you think you're the only one they may be interested in at the time you meet them? I say move on and get over it. I bet she has.

P.S. You seem kinda cute wanna go out?
 JohnathanKaine
Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/4/2006 1:14:07 PM
TRY THIS ONE!

Everyone logged on to POF is here to meet someone, so we are all doing the same thing here, have the same goal, Right? Unless your one of those few looking for a quickie or booty call. So if someone takes the time to wirte you the first message and make first concact and you check them out and think "HELL NO"! Take the time to atlest wirte back and tell them "HELL NO"
 MsNai
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 12/9/2006 5:36:39 AM
2hrs a week? damn..that's kindda asking for alot. I do not even spend more then 2hrs a week online..and you're asking me to devote all my online time to you? how selfish! ha..
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 12/25/2006 8:38:47 PM
So...you say GUYS also flake out, and stand you girls up. Hmm and to think...they reject better men, for these guys. Where is this womens intiuition I keep hearing about?
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/25/2006 8:41:14 PM
momanatrix has a point. Personality, being raised to respect women, and open doors, being a gentlemean is all fine and dandy. But the amount of smileys is the number one thing, in determining a relationship. OK are these he ACTUAL deciding factors, that women are using?
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/25/2006 8:42:24 PM
Kee2, I've kind of had an eye on gina also, but she doesnt respond to me either LOL
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 12/25/2006 10:09:06 PM
2hrs a week? thats NOTHING!!! thats almost NO time at all. Someone like this, doesnt have time for anyone, and you shouldnt even waste your valuable time on her.
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/26/2006 12:29:40 PM
"There is nothing wrong with seeking one's intellectual level, it's psychologically healthy."

Spoken like a true person who has themself on a hig horse. I'm sure the amount of smileys he uses does NOT make him lesser of an intelectual.
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 12/26/2006 1:24:01 PM
"Sheesh a little long winded are you not. It is simple is is mostly about SEX.
Get over yourself. Men needed it women give it. "

No man NEEDS sex. Im sorry but women arent the sought after sexual gold mines they think they are.
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:05:46 PM
If you do not have anything in common with someone the relationship is not going to work period. What exactly would a professor have to talk about with a dishwasher? What would the plumber have to speak about with a book editor?
1 horeseback riding
2 cooking
3 movies
4 beaches
5 trips
6 computes
7 long talks about nothing
8 billiards
9 classic automobiles
10 dancing

the possibilities are unlimited. But unless you give someone a chance, and get to know them. you know absolutely nothing about them. and to assume you are someones intellectual superior just makes you seem full of yourself, and a very unlikeable, nasty, miserable, negative person.
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 12/26/2006 8:12:07 PM
momanatrix, you contradticted yourself between this thread and another thread where you said the following:

It will continue to be had to find honest people, for as long as people continue dwelling in theirselves, and their own interests before the interests of all others.

I keep hearing people say they will not settle for something less than precisely what they want and in my opinion it is a recipe for disaster. No one is perfect, nor will ever be. If they are worship them.

If this is the case, maybe you are rejecting guys for less than sensible reasons, I dont know. something to think about though.
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 57
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Posted: 12/27/2006 7:15:35 AM
grneyed, you are absolutely right. However, distance and " the right one" have nothing to do with each other. Alot are so concerned that they HAVE to be within a certain radius, that they condemn themselves to the " WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD GUYS" lie. Also, if a guy were to say the same thing you just said, hed be called all kinds of names, and totally bashed by these women in here.
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:33:18 AM
I agree i think meeting someone is cool but take it to the next level so you can talk like on the phone
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:34:40 AM
Dont let these people that aint gonna do nothin but talk bother you engine 51
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:37:00 AM
YOU SAY NOBODY IS INTERESTED IN YOU YOU IGNORE BLACK PEOPLE LOVE IS BLIND THAT AINT RIGHT
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 63
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:41:13 AM
YOU DONT ACCEPT MESSAGES FROM BLACK MEN. MY GENDER IS BLACK.. YOU SHOULD SEEK GOD CAYUSE YOUR HEART AINT RIGHT. HOW CAN YOU JUDGE SOEONE BY THE COLOR OF THEIR SKIN. THATS LIKE IF I SET UP MY MAIL SETTINGS TO NO ACCEPT MESSAGES FROM A CERTAIN GENDER? I THINK THAT YOU ISOLATE YOUR SELF FROM SOME GOOD PEOPLE. ESPECIALLY PEOPLE YOUI HAVE JUDGED BEFORE YOU MEET THEM. I DONT CARE WHAT NOBODY THINKS OF ME LIKE I SAID YOU CANT REALLY KNOW ANBODY ONLINE. IT IS A CHANCE YOU TAKE. IF YOU ARE THAT INSECURE MAYBE YOU SHOULD MOVE TO GERMANY..
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:43:48 AM
AND SOME PEOPLE BE TRYINGF TO GET SMART IT TAKES WORKJ JUST TO TYPE. SO DONT BE NICKEL AND DIMEIN ME ABOUT SPELLIN. YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I MEAN. THAT YOU WERE SO DEFENSIVE. IF YOIU CANT ADMIT YOU ARE NOT PERFECT AND IF YOU ARE GOING NICK PICK DONT EVEN SEND ME NO MESSAGES
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:47:21 AM
ALSO STOP TALKING NEGATIVE TRYING TO DISCOURAGE PEOPLE FROM MEETING, DATING.
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:54:43 AM
I WANNA SAY I REBUKE ALL WEAPONS THAT ARE FORMED AGAINST ME OR ANYBODY ON THIS ANYBODY WHO IS SINCERE WILL UNDERSTAND DONT CONTRIBUTE TO NEGATIVITY PEOPLE. THEY WANT YOU TO ARGUE. PEOPLE THAT ARE JUST HERE TO ACT A FOOL. PEOPLE DONT ARGUE. IF YOUR NOT INTERESTED IN SOMEONE YOU DONT HAVE TO RESPOND.
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 12/27/2006 9:57:53 AM
WELL YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL SO ANY MAN THAT IS SEEKING A RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO TRY TO TALK.. SOFTEN YOUR HEART YOU CANT JUDGE PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE. EVERYONE AINT AS SMART AS YOU ARE. STOP INSULTING PEOPLE. ACCEPT IT YOUR BEAUTIFUL. YOUR ATTRACTIVE. ITS ALL GOOD I AINT MAD AT YA
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 12/27/2006 10:00:03 AM
WELL HAVE YOU TRIED TALKING ON THE PHONE? IM SERIOUS? YOU WILL NEVER HEAR NOR GET TO KNOW ANYBODY ONLINE THEY DONT EVEN KNOW IF YOU ARE REAL OR NOT. DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE?
 engine51
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:32:48 PM
Yes I'm sure they are. I only refer to women, because thats who i am trying to meet, as I am straight. I in no way am insinuating that men arent doing this. GUYS...if your " STANDARDS" are anything like these wome,n, you may want to rethink them too. As far as anyone who calls you their "intellectual Inferior" that is just plain ignorant, and rude. Not to mention it makes the person doing this, look like such a moron that they have to put opthers down, to make themselves feel good. In fact, this is becoming more and more evident to people in the forums. No, greeneyed, i dont mean you hun. When iw as in the Infantry, i dated a woman who was a thoracic surgeon. We shouldn't have had anything in common, right? WRONG!! I really wish we could've continued to date, the match was unbelievably spectacular for both of us. However, work had seperated us, until she passed away. So, for anyone to say that another on here, is BELOW their standards, would only come from a person of very little common sense, and decency.
 fine haitian
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/27/2006 5:10:20 PM
Devoting would be nice but eventually you will get what you want. if its meant to be it will happen.
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