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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 10
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I would think that if she doesn't take any interest in learning about her partner, that would make her a bad lover.

I like to know what gets my partner going, and I make sure that I take my time doing it... research is a wonderful thing!!
 innocentantic
Joined: 7/22/2006
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 12/24/2006 12:09:34 AM
Having no ideas/inspiration.... only trying anything (positions, places, toys, whatever) at my suggestion... performing pensively... or otherwise just lying there. Sex is movement. It baffles me that some women haven't received or considered the communication that just lying there makes you a terrible lover.
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 12/24/2006 12:12:47 AM
A woman who just lies there and doesn't say anything. A woman who is not willing to take her own sexual pleasure into her own hands (metaphorically speaking) and let me know what she wants, how she wants it, and is willing to jump me when she wants. Also a woman who has no variety. Most men want a woman on his arms and a pornstar in bed and I am sure that is not too much to ask.
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 29
What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 12/24/2006 3:18:12 AM
The one thing that makes a female a good lover is horniness.

After that everything else falls into place.

It can be desperate horniness with the woman who is the desperate dram queen but still enjoys it. As opposed to the one who is desperate to get laid because he gf's are laughing about her miserable failure wiht men.

It can be casual horniness as in the women who answers the phone during sex and neither the phone call, or the sex, ceases becasue she's enjoying both. And when the person on the other end realises they were interupting sex and apologises they are assured that they havent interupted anything thank you.

BO is not a major issue. Major BO is an excellent reason for a little mixed bathing before the sex.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 1/10/2007 12:10:38 PM
Two words...... Dead Fish.
Lay back close your eyes and think of something else.
What's going on in there ?
Should I call 911 ?

Oh, don't touch my erection, it's poisonous and might bite you.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 1/10/2007 1:23:08 PM
Don't know how to really do it until after 40 ?
Maby ?
But it doesn't take a great lover to recognize an awful one.
 lalby
Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 44
What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 1/10/2007 2:32:03 PM
At a guess i would say the old bag of spuds routine,fanny farting,and a waft of kipper could put you off.
 UnsocialChica
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 47
What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 1/10/2007 3:26:38 PM
somebody who unwilling and lazy to please your partner because they don't want too.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 1/12/2007 2:06:16 PM
Lets say - an awful lover in general - would be appropriate here to discuss.
IMO, someone who doesn't enjoy ~ doesn't reciprocate ~ doesn't entice another ... someone who doesn't put body and mind into ... least to say.
 Deeptrolling
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 1/13/2007 10:26:27 AM
Lovers are like Pizza....when they're good they're very good. And when they're bad......they're still ok!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 12/11/2007 1:26:05 PM
I think a non-responsive woman who doesn't care about satisfying her man's sexual needs would be considered an awful lover
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 12/12/2007 10:36:20 AM
When the air deflates...
 Spanish Lover XCLNTE
Joined: 5/9/2008
Msg: 101
What makes a woman awful lover?
Posted: 5/19/2008 10:09:41 AM
Lack of experience and lack of sensuality
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