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Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 1
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I do have a question that I need help with. I have been on this site awhile. I have had many , many responses and I have had no problem getting a date. I have been on many, but my problem is they all seem interested and then when you go out, they say they will call you the next day and you never hear a word back. They all say they like you and even try to pursue sex, and then sometimes things do happen. My question is , if you sleep with them , they want nothing to do with you, and if you dont , they want nothing to do with you. So what is the problem or what am I doing wrong.? Sometimes this is people that I have talked to on the phone and computer alot before we even meet. Then the first night, things go great and you never hear back.So whats the problem here.? I stay confused on what they want...I know what I want. I want a good decent man to share my life with. But I feel like I am playing games with them every time I go out . HELP!!
Joined: 10/18/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 1/31/2007 11:15:09 AM
I have noticed alot of women on here, are either:

1. Living in some make believe world that PoF is some sort of wish machine and they can simply wish for Brad Pitt and PoF will make him appear.

2. Looking for d!ck

3. Looking for rich guys.

4. Looking for d!ck from guys with Harleys (I see this way too much from women in NC)

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