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 Isabella1900
Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 2
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Changing What You Are Looking For...Page 1 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
It is true, as we are getting old, we are getting wise and then we are looking for a best friend and lover. A person who acepted us, funny to be with. Self secure, because in this time in our lifes, Drama Queen/King is an unaceptable option.

1. Intelligent person, esay to smile
2. I still looking for passion and good sex.
3. Mature man who knows what he wants.
4. Who can control his moods

And the list still changing

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 Isabella1900
Joined: 4/17/2005
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Posted: 2/10/2007 6:28:57 PM
Sorry I am new and make a mistake, send it twice
 NapJoe
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/10/2007 6:56:38 PM
1. Good sex
2. Great sex
3. More sex
 40Chev
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/11/2007 1:03:28 PM
Thirty years ago it was all about the wrapper and the package.

Today it's more about what's inside.
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/12/2007 11:04:28 PM
I have not changed and never will. She will need to look nice to me (me not some magazine) and be a good person inside. I am looking for a 30 year older version of what I looked for 30 years ago (wait I was married 30 years ago - married most of my life).

I had a little test about 3 years ago. VERY pretty 44 yo old female but ........ we were at her place (in bed) and started talking about work. She started talking about some black gals she worked with (she was a nurse). What a turn off - I did not realize that people actually still had that kind of bigot in them. It actually made me sick to hear her talking about people like that.
 Isabella1900
Joined: 4/17/2005
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Posted: 2/18/2007 11:40:23 AM
The day have 24 hours, 8 for sleep, 8 to 15 for work 2 for eating 12 for the sports watching

How much time you will have for sex?
 bonniebrownap
Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2007 10:55:15 AM
Oh my goodness. I need to make some changes to my requirements of Tall, Dark, and Handsome. A cowboy hat can no longer be a requirement. I can put into words what I am looking for and wise enough to know not to deviate from my quest. I would rather be alone than to do it wrong again. I know, this is a trick thread. I am glad that I am ugly and only judged on my merits to sustain a relationship. Look at my heart and not my face.
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 2/20/2007 2:16:53 PM
30 yrs ago I didn't know what I was looking for but I knew it when I found it.
I still operate by the same guidelines( or lack of them LOL)
Cindy O
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 2/20/2007 2:19:26 PM

find the one that you want to annoy the rest of your life.

That'll work!
Cindy O
 Celticmist
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 2/20/2007 6:26:01 PM
same things I looked for in my youth - tender heart, intelligence, honesty and humour
 swtcarolinej
Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 2/23/2007 3:33:04 PM
WELL the biker image That I lusted after ALL my life was a myth He broke my heart twice!!(shame on me I know) soooo just that look dont get me weak in the knees anymore whew...but rugged,hardworking,LOYAL,great sense of humor,honest,doesnt need to impress anyone those type get me every time!!!A man who knows who he is can carry a conversation and KNOWS how to reat a lady!Thats what Im talkin' about I havent met a one that fits those simply traits!! They are asking too much are they???Hugs jewel
 softvoice
Joined: 2/17/2007
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Posted: 3/10/2007 8:23:41 PM
What a mature observation. Now just find a woman that secure! Seriously, once we reach a certain age, we should have learned to be our own best friend. A wonderful, fulfilling relationship--that's the Bernaise sauce on the filet of life!
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Posted: 3/11/2007 8:39:03 AM

Well sure. I used to look for an intelligent, chivalrous man who was emotionally available. A man who would respect me and treat me well.

...oh wait, I'm still looking for that.


When you find him, if he's got a twin, send him MY way...........I still look for the same basic qualities in a man. We are creatures of habit, for the most part
 djc02359
Joined: 7/20/2005
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Posted: 3/12/2007 4:05:53 PM
someone who can make me laugh until my face hurts. ( and having a good healthy libido wouldn't hurt.
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