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 HAHANOW
Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 3
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I thought 19 was too young to drink.
I now I would not go out with a 19 year old. Not even when I was 19!
Oh yea I want to sit around playing x box & drinking beer!
NOT!
 Shugo
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 5
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 4:35:16 PM
I think its rather odd someone my age would want to date a much older woman.Kind of scary if you think about it...Im not one for fetishes of any kind...
 Missy
Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/13/2005 4:35:22 PM
my son is 17, there's no way in hell I'm dating a 19 year old boy. Do they even have hair on their chests at that age? I can't remember...
I want a manly man...sorry...don't wanna train one..I want a man to take that lead
Not meant as an insult hun, but like that last thread started today in this vein, try a cougar bar, the women there are looking for younger men.
~Missy~
 Shugo
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 7
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 4:37:00 PM
I have hair on my chest but more on my stomach
 HAHANOW
Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 8
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 4:46:37 PM
<~~~~rolls eyes..
 ontario_woman
Joined: 4/3/2005
Msg: 10
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 4:52:10 PM
I can't speak for all women, but personally, I find that although young men can be very good looking, they simply don't have to life experience yet to be a good mate. I have nothing in common with them. They want to go out and party and I want to tend to my responsibilities to my daughter. We're just at 2 different stages of life. My advice is to find a nice young women closer to your own age, then the 2 of you can mature together...
 DJiane84
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 11
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 4:54:42 PM
as for 19 being to young to drink, he's in england, younger age limit there.
 Vandelai
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 14
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 5:13:28 PM
Why not just date her boyfriend?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 4/13/2005 5:18:38 PM
I wish you'd tell that to all the ladies at the nursing home I volunteer at.

The ladies seem to love the banana too. When I was your age there were Mrs. Robinsons right and left. Change your bait friend.
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 25
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/13/2005 8:48:36 PM
I`m not interested in younger guys cuz I already have kids and my name is not Demi Moore...LOL...Sorry, my comfort zone is my own age or 5 years younger....I had a 27 year old e-mail me the other day wanting `to get together`....LOL...I have shoes older than him...But I was polite and answered back and said I was flatterd (and I was) but not comfortable...To each, his own...redneckgirl133
 Confusedintn
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/9/2005 4:35:39 AM
younger men tend to want to just please themselves,as for us older men we take the time to explore our partners and find parts of the body that turn them on EI: the elbows,hip bones and fingers to name a few, it's just not the main three and us older guys know that,young guys just jump on and off,then go wash there cars or whatever they do as for us older guys we lay there and hold our partner
 Liquidus
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 37
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/9/2005 5:04:43 AM
I my self am 27, and would like to date an older woman, for the simple fact that they are like a fine wine, gets better with age
 kitchensink
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 9/14/2005 3:07:00 AM
Some of them do. A good friend of mine bagged a 19 year old guy when she was 42 (3 years ago) and I had a great looking 47-year-old friend I did just about everything with when I was 25. I was her first way younger guy.
 Myfakename
Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 9/14/2005 3:45:31 AM
Never been a problem for me. Not sure I understood what your posted. The ladies tell you the reason why is because you are 19, or you are just guessing?
 blondblueyed
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/14/2005 10:53:37 AM
Well, the OP doesn't mention what age group the women are that say this to him, but I would tend to agree that most women 10 years or older then 19 wouldn't be interested. Most teens are not interested in anything long term and that's probably what these women are ready for by that age. Not always the case though, I met my ex when he was 19 and I was 8 years older we were together a long time and our split had nothing to do with age. In my own experience (and frankly that's all anyone can truly go by) when I was younger I mostly dated men 5-15 years older because that's who approached me, now that I am in my 40's in most cases I date men 5-15 years younger because in most cases that's who approach me.

I don't hold to this idea that older is better at least not in my own experience. Most of the younger men are far better in their manners, knowledge of women inside and out and in their maturity in even ending relationships. I never had a 30 year old guy have his mother call me to break up with me. That was a 45 year old MAN! I never had a 25 year old guy/kid push me (literally, no exaggeration) out of his car onto the side of a dark highway at midnight because I wouldn't go home with him. It was a 37 year old MAN! So, in my view, maturity doesn't really have much to do with age. Now that I am in my 40's though the idea of trying to make a 19-21 year old a "life" partner doesn't really make sense. I say that only from the standpoint that it would be kind of hard to grow old with someone that won't be old until you're already dead.
 callendargirl
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 49
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 11:16:30 AM
Back to your profile Bomber....... Dearest Benjamin,

why oh why , would an older woman even look twice? The only thing we might have in common is pink floyd , and they were new when we were young! I think for now, you had better keep Mrs. Robinson as a fantasy , because I don't think she is in your cards in the near future!
 Sassy_Val79
Joined: 7/16/2005
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Posted: 9/14/2005 11:21:03 AM
I can say for myself I was 25 and I was dating a guy who was 22, and even tho we got A LOT of flack for it (just cause im older) we were happy. He was very mature for his age and the only reason it didnt work was because he was movin to Australia for a year and even though I was invited i had too much here to take care of. But we remain best friends, and who knows what the future holds.
 Sunshine_30
Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 52
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 11:28:44 AM
To be tactful, mostly it's because there is not much in common with someone who is not closer to you in age... Secondly for me, a man doesn't even know how to make love until he's 30+... Food for thought ;)
 techgirl27
Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 10/9/2005 7:07:11 PM
Some go for the younger guys because they have more working years left in 'em.
 JL in burnaby
Joined: 10/9/2005
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Posted: 10/9/2005 8:51:03 PM
I used to shy away from younger men.... but I let my guard down one day to a very sexy mature 25 year old latino, and have never looked back!!!

It is all about maturity and that can come at any age... I don't make a selection based on age.. but I have to say, there are many men my age that seemed to age faster?

jl
 dorian_c
Joined: 9/25/2005
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Posted: 10/9/2005 9:34:17 PM
I am 31 and I have to say the youngest I will date is 21. I can't ever see myself with someone I can't even go to bars with. I have always dated younger men with the exception of highschool, then I dated older guys. There are women out there who will date a younger guy. You just have to find them. Good Luck :D
 Unfocused1
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 76
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Posted: 10/9/2005 9:41:46 PM
Ok you all have very good points....But..the man is correct. I am only 25 and granted thats only like five years older but i am definitly down for dating an older woman. Im charming, romantic, and extremely polite. I work in a hospital where i work with mostly girls. Ninety percent of which are 35 or older. I have absolutely no problem with this. In fact ive even dated two or three of these smart older more experianced women. I wont necessarily date someone over 40 unless given special circumstances. I was forced to grow up early in life. My parents left me at home by myself when i was eight and i never got to do the immature, party all night, get arrested thing. I learned to cook, clean and generally live life on my own. I have spent my entire life growing up around beautiful women older than me and in fact find it easier to approach an older women than some little girl who has no clue what shes doing. So ladies .....please, please, before you pass up a guy whos younger at least say hi and give him a chance. Some of us are not all snot nosed brats who just crawled out of the diaper. We are younger mature men who know what we are doing. Im 25 and dont date often. Im looking for a girl to settle down with myself. I actually kinda want a kid. They are cute and aside from the smells and body fluids they arent too bad. So like i said ...at least say hi and give a guy a chance. Have a nice day.
 Shits~n~Giggles
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 82
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Posted: 10/9/2005 10:47:15 PM
I LOVE YOUNGER GUYS !!! I could NEVER be a high school teacher !!!
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/16/2005 1:34:34 AM

who the hell wants to be called a cougar?


Exactly. I will go 10 years younger....no more.
 rainy37
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 10/27/2005 5:31:01 PM
Hell,,, I love younger men but at 19 ...Sweety that's always wayyyy, wayyyy to young. How much older do you want anyway? I could just invision it.... Me and my 20 year younger boyfriend strolling down the mall and bumping into your friends and hearing.....Oh, is this your mom? I'd have to die.
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