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 uNF_Rena
Joined: 3/9/2007
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Blast: We can see that you aren't dog meat, but what we don't know is if you smell like dog meat. One spelling mistake is irrelevant. If we were to really get that upset over a small type, well then we should burn you at the stake for leaving out the word "haven't".

What job has been around the longest? Not sure but Prostitution is up there!!

What sells? Sex...

If prostitution was legal it would be far safer for everyone.

Some people have been burnt badly and don't want a relationship, so they find what they can. Some people don't feel like they owe the prostitute anything like a dinner after so it is more relaxing.

You live once, and if you aren't getting any, well... do something about it. This *could* be a solution.

For the women who do it? That's your choice. As I said, we have one life to live and if you choose to spend it having sex with strangers for money, go for it.
 Dr.Strange
Joined: 3/6/2007
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Posted: 3/16/2007 2:39:21 PM

I wouldn't fvck a man that a whore has sucked on.


oh come on?..it never stopped you before.


some of you girls are going on like you would know if a guy had been with a whore before.
I bet your boyfriend's been with a hooker lol


I would have to agree how would you really know??


Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?

I would never put myself in such a desperate position.
 sn0w
Joined: 6/11/2006
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Posted: 3/16/2007 5:34:44 PM
I've heard prostitution called the world's oldest profession and maybe it is and I think it is a viable alternative for people (guys and gals) that don't want to have a full relationship and don't want to lie about it just to satisfy their carnel urges. I think it should be legalized. Open up brothels, get them checked out for disease, and tax it cause making it illegal sure didn't stop any more than prohibition stopped people drinking alcohol. Sure you can go to a bar and pick up a star and all but really is she that different from a prostitute? ( I refer to that easy girl that goes home with a different guy each week or even night). You spend a bunch of money on her to get her drunk or just to grab her attention. Mind you if your taking a girl out cause you WANT the relationship then what does the money matter? I figure if all your after is a little sex go do what you want hire a prostitute (and I don't mean a $20 crackwhore), pick up the bar star whatever floats your boat. Just be honest with what you want and who your getting it from and don't judge others for what they do to make themselves happy cause really does it affect you?

P.S. Blast I wanna meet you at a mall and see if you can point out the guys that have hired sex workers. Hell do you think I have? (the answer will most likely surprise you)
 sn0w
Joined: 6/11/2006
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Posted: 3/16/2007 5:41:41 PM
I've heard prostitution called the world's oldest profession and maybe it is and I think it is a viable alternative for people (guys and gals) that don't want to have a full relationship and don't want to lie about it just to satisfy their carnel urges. I think it should be legalized. Open up brothels, get them checked out for disease, and tax it cause making it illegal sure didn't stop any more than prohibition stopped people drinking alcohol. Sure you can go to a bar and pick up a star and all but really is she that different from a prostitute? ( I refer to that easy girl that goes home with a different guy each week or even night). You spend a bunch of money on her to get her drunk or just to grab her attention. Mind you if your taking a girl out cause you WANT the relationship then what does the money matter? I figure if all your after is a little sex go do what you want hire a prostitute (and I don't mean a $20 crackwhore), pick up the bar star whatever floats your boat. Just be honest with what you want and who your getting it from and don't judge others for what they do to make themselves happy cause really does it affect you?

P.S. Blast I wanna meet you at a mall and see if you can point out the guys that have hired sex workers. Hell do you think I have? (the answer will most likely surprise you)
 WakeDan
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/18/2007 3:47:48 AM
a lot of guys i work with fought in vietnam. ALL the ones stationed in the phillipines had 'mama-sans'. As soon as a soldier showed up, he would pick out the woman of his choice.for, I think it was, $5/week, he lived at her house, she cleaned his clothes, cooked him food and took care of his every need. i say 'all of them' because no one wanted to stay on base in bunk beds.

it was very, very common.

not sure why its so frowned on these days. i havent done it, but then all thats around here are the $10 crackwhores.

i work with several young guys who have been to vegas and just HAD to go to one of the brothels outside of town. they sure dont feel guilty about it.

as the guys always say, you pay for it one way or another. i think most guys would rather pay bux two hundred than lose the house and car and toys in a divorce.

or, another favorite, you are not paying her for sex, you are paying her to leave HAHA.
 videogirl
Joined: 2/12/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2007 9:16:41 AM
Wow.... how depressing this thread is. Men who only associate women with prostitution or domestic servitude?

VVVVVVVV
"a lot of guys i work with fought in vietnam. ALL the ones stationed in the phillipines had 'mama-sans'. As soon as a soldier showed up, he would pick out the woman of his choice.for, I think it was, $5/week, he lived at her house, she cleaned his clothes, cooked him food and took care of his every need. "

"as the guys always say, you pay for it one way or another."
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Is it really that bad out there?
 familiarface
Joined: 3/5/2007
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Posted: 3/18/2007 3:07:45 PM
I'm sure that many women would have sex with you friend, the problem is that he doesn't know how to get sex in a short period of time, let me explain, as an example lets say that your friend ask a girl out, she likes him and he likes her but what's the kind of response that a regular guy can expect if he ask for sex in the first date?, maybe I'm wrong and it would be more accurate to post a poll for that question right?, in my opinion he'll receive a NO for an answer, in order to understand you friend in a rational way (forget you emotional reaction of being offended with him) it would easier to understand the situation on a biological basis, for men in general sex is a biological function, like breathing, eating, etc. when a man doesn't have his portion of sex, he MUST have one way or another, this is why porn is very popular with men, this is why man go with prostitutes and escorts, if you ask a man to stop having sex is the same as if you ask him to stop breathing or eating maybe he could do it for a while but for sure the repression would cause some kind of disorder (there's where the pervs come from).

Now for your question of how common for people (man?) is to use prostitutes or escorts, the response depends in many factors, with this kind of question you could get very different responses for different kind of people you know?, for example I'm sure you won't get the same response from men that earn $15,000. a year and for other that earn $300,000 in the same period of time, maybe both use the service of a prostitute the difference will be in the cost of the service.

I recognize that for women is different, and is very normal, because there are two different biologies and also men and women have sex for different reasons, many men use the service of prostitutes because is less time consuming and is very practical ( any position on the bed without sour faces, any time, any where, no liability after sex calls, no emotional or economical commitment after the act is performed ), I understand that you won't do it and is very simple to for you because you are a woman, lets say that "X" woman is very horny and want to have sex now, what are her options to get it?, in my opinion? her possibilities are endless, for example she can call pizza hut and do it with the delivery person, she can go to a bar and make the proposition to most of the guys (if she has an average look or less than average) and I'm assure you that she'll have it, in the other hand, are the same possibilities for a guy?, I don't think so.

Regarding your comment of "It goes against my morals and it's degrading really", let me say this to you at the moment I'm writing these lines there are many men that think that a very large portion of the dating, courtship, marriage and divorce scene is a very mercenary thing, most guys go all this path in order to have sex with a woman, is accepted for a very large portion of society, a prostitute and a mercenary are not very different , there are unspoken rules that dictate that a man has to pay for food, entertainment, gifts, etc. and later he has to pay for the kids, the house and bills, later if the marriage doesn't work in most cases he has to pay for all the aspects a divorce takes, if we see the practicality of this solution we can see also an answer to the dilemma right?

I understand that you are angry and maybe resented with prostitutes, is your decision, it is possible that at that time you were not giving him sex? because you want to punish him in some form?, or another possibility is that maybe, for him the sex life in the marriage was too boring, or is just human biology, there are some books that speak regarding this subject, in a nutshell if you ask a man to stop having sex it won't happen, trust me.
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:13:38 PM
Hi all,
I will admit I am a working gal....a prostitue........an escourt........I am a high class grl with taste and refinement and that is why I do good buisness. Clients see me for that. For class not crass.
Its hard for people on the outside of the industry to really understand. Your either ok with the idea or you hate it. But its not the stereotype you may be thinking of. Before I stared working I thought being an escourt was the most degrading and humiliating thing possible. I thought that all the grls would look and act in a certain way and that's that. But its not true. You make of yourself what you wish. If you wanted to be that 20$ heady grl on the corner than that your perogative, but you can also build yourself up. I work in 5 star places around sydney, australia. Every room is immaculate and amazing. Nothing dirty about it. In terms of being degredating or humiliating I belive you make a rod for your own back. If you let clients do what they want and get away with it than yes you are the stereotype and deserve to be treated as such but being in the room is one of the most power inducing experiences of my life. I am always in control (nothing bdsm about it? Lol). Never letting them do or say anything I don't like or that isn't safe. There is nuthing degredating or humiliating about the way I work. You've got to think a gentleman come in and picked you out of 15 other grls for your ability to maintain class and to trip him with a single glance. Its an artform really and after working in the industry I can say I feel more empowered and proud of myself than I ever have.
Sure you get some bad clients and they do treat you like shit but you've gotta remember that one client treats you like shit but the next client brings you roses and champaine. You get treated the way you will let yourself be treated. All sorts of gentelman come through that door and all are looking for the same basic thing. And belive it or not a lot of the time its not sex. Its a companion. They want someone to listen, cause no one else in there life will. I've spent hours with clients talking to them about there families, jobs ect. I've even fixed a marriage or 2.....
All I'm trying to say is there's a lot more to the industry than meets the eye. You can't judge anyone of us for what we do we each have our own reasons as do you all when you get out of bed and go to the same job everyday.

Not every escourt is dirty either....I know I certainly aint. I've never had an STD or STI in my life and "if its not on its not on." And clients do respect that.


In short please try and remember that not all working gals stand on a corner, wearing cum stained clothes with track marks up there arms. They could be anyone. You would never know I was one unless I told you because I choose not to fall into that sterotype.

I am clean, I am beautiful, I am proud.

I am a working grl.
 Spiritualist
Joined: 7/9/2004
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:31:37 PM
I have a friend who lives in Thailand, he's from the USA but has worked there for many years and it is nothing for him to have and yes even live with women who only have sex if money is involved, I have visited him many times there and it is a fun place the people are very nice and everything is dirt cheap but everytime I visit he's trying to get me to pay the waitress her nightly wages and take her to my hotel but I just can't bring myself to do it, I don't drink a lot except when in Vegas or Thailand LOL and even in my drunkest hour I have never paid a woman for sex.
To tell the truth I don't ever think by friend will come back to the USA because I'm sure he's gone crazy over there LOL, he actually thinks hello how are you is a great pick up line and it seems to work quite well LOL in Thailand.
I hold nothing against him LOL to each his own.

Shannon
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 6:33:04 AM
Here here weebs28.
I cant agree with you more...... Please katerpiller, I wish to inform you that not all people can sit around and wait for mr right. I know I sure as hell can't. Lol. Hun I got bills to pay. I need to live. And I can definately assure you that there is nothing fundamentaly wrong with majority of the clients that I have and do see. Having said that yes there are some wacko's out there. But self worth doesn't come into the situation. I've seen gentlemen from various preimier football clubs in sydney....(parramatta eels, and st george illawarra ). Players from the team that get paid 10 mill a year, have every grl they want falling at there boots and they would rather come see me.... That has nuthing to do with there "poor self worth", or "self esteem". It just means that either
A) there careers are to busy to maintain a staible relationship and therefore refrain from entering into one for fear of hurting someones feelings or B) they just don't wanna put up with the crap that can come along with a relationship......
That's a man's perogative. It don't mean they have poor self esteem. And trust me most of the men spend all there time showing off about how good they think they are..... No selfworth issues there.

Here's a different point of view!!! Everyones talking about working GRLS but what about the working GUYS.... Is it different standards for them or do we just shadow over the things in society that people don't want to see.
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 6:45:47 AM
HUMANCONDITION;

Thank you for the compliment. But I can assure you I am no whore as you nicely put it my dear.. And no I did never mention "rates" becasue I am a lady above all else. And a lady I will always be........
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 7:09:53 AM

there's a big difference between a $20/heroine (sp) addict in an alley than an escourt for company or a show


GIRL I COULDN'T SAY IT BETTER MYSELF.
There is a big difference but not a lot of peole will see it that way. Sometimes a client just wants to feel like someone cares. They don't even have sex. They just want a friendly face across the table or a fall back for the dreaded school reunion.......

May I ask people what's so wrong with that.
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 7:41:57 AM
Belladona;

Each to there own opinion. It really doesn't bother me what other people say about be for I am what I am and you don't really know me. so I'm glad you've had you opinion heard and you feel clarified.

Secondly: I'M GOING TO MAKE THIS VERY CLEAR. I AM NOT ADVERTISING MY CAREER OR MYSELF IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM. THAT IS CRASS!. AND ANYONE WHO THINKS THIS SHOULD RETAKE ENGLISH CAUSE THEY DIDN'T READ OR TAKE NOTICE OF FOLLOWING POSTS....
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 8:27:54 AM
TO IVORY BEAST

You are brilliant.... I think it would be good for a system of some sort to be in play for workers and people affected by the industry. The area I am in does provide a lot of services for workers (guys and gals) but I do belive that what society needs is more openness and publication. For example: gay couples where massive taboo up until about 5 years ago, now the mardi gras, gay couples and individuals can practice a free lifestyle and and celebrate there culture just like anyother community. This is all due to publication. People are afraid of what they don't understand, and to all this fear breeds contempt. (Fyi..... Previous statement aimed at me from a certain female individual)
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 8:45:11 AM
Ivory beast
I have removed the restrictions on my page. Drop me a line if you want too.

And thank you very much for the compliment. Much appreiciated.....god I have bad spelling at this time of the morning.
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 9:04:57 AM
That's understandable and respectable..
As long as you realise that not all prostitutes carry STD'S and I would have to say that it is true that women don't really have the same physical need that men do to "procriate".... We shall say. But the biggest problem is a lot of these men that use my services may not have such luck in picking up "partners". Or have a hectic home life. Us working grls provide a calm hr or so to rest there head and relax
 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 11:18:51 AM
Personally, I couldn't care less whether someone goes to/uses a prostitute or not. If you think about it, it's just an exchange of services between 2 adult human beings. IE, sex/conversation for material compensation.

This sort of dynamic has existed since the beginning of civilization. Whether it was vestal virgins in Babylon, the brothels of Pompeii, courtesans in Europe, or the teahouses in China, sex/companionship for money has always been present. Not only has this existed since the dawn of civilization, evidence has mounted that it has existed well into our evolutionary history as well as observations of chimps and gorillas have shown (banana's for sex).

As for why people go to prostitutes, I can't speak for women, but my impression from men is they either want personal companionship, or they are horny, or both.

Those who seek the services of a prostitute tend to do so because they are unable to satisfy their needs/desires within the frameworks of their lifestyles/relationships.

First, the vast majority of individuals that see prostitutes are in fact married or in a relationship. Personally, I don't consider it fair or right for people to see prostitutes when they are married or in a relationship, though I suppose it's okay if the spouse/girlfriend is either okay with it (yes, I've seen that before), or actively participates (supposedly it does happen), or those extreme cases where the spouse is extremely physically ill and unable to have sex at all such as in cases of Alzheimers, people in vegetative Comas, etc. Similarly, for those in loveless marriages where they fear a loss of access to their children or may suffer severe financial consequences for seperation, I can understand the logic though I may not always agree with it.

The reasons married men give tend to be repeated over and over again. Keep in mind

1) The desire for a partner to listen to you. Prostitutes, as service providers are paid to listen to everything you want/need to say, and will do so without judging or criticising them.
2) Differences in sexual appetites. There is no shortage of men in sexless or low sex-drive relationships. Rather than force their partners to have more sex, they seek a different outlet.
3) The desire for variety of partners. There is a human tendency to lose desire for things which we have increased/unlimited access to. Chocolate once in a while is great, every day not so great, 5 times a day and it can become nauseating.
4) The desire for specific sexual services and fantasies. There are women who love their husbands/boyfriends, but have no desire to satisfy their particular sexual desires. Whether it's BJ's, anal, BDSM, unusual positions, dressing up, fetishes, etc, there's always men who desire something that their wives either have no desire to do, or don't particularly enjoy. Instead of trying to force their wives/girlfriends to do them, they seek professional sexual services.
5) The freedom to pursue additional partners without the emotional and logistical complications of a mistress/affair. Some men will never be physically monogamous, it's not in their nature. However, they can be emotionally monogamous in loving only one person, and bearing only that person's children. There's a saying in some South American countries, it doesn't matter where he's been, only where he sleeps at night that counts.
6) Loneliness when they are apart from their partner for any significant amount of time, such as being posted in other cities or overseas. When you are seperated from your girlfriend or spouse for extended periods of time, you miss more than sex. You miss the comfort of someone next to you in bed, or the smell of perfume, or the sound of a woman's voice. In fact, in some forms of Judaism it's not considered cheating if you're more than a certain distance from your home town.

As for those men without partners, they tend to focus on similar but slightly different things.

1) The desire for the presence of another human being. While the hand works fine, it's a poor substitute for the warmth of a body in your arms.
2) The desire for sexual gratification that is immediately available. While you could find a random girl in a bar/online, there is usually a significant time investment before you would see sex, assuming you are outgoing enough to meet random girls in bars and had sufficient charms to seduce one. If one's schedule is difficult or busy, or they are somewhat shy or introverted, the ability to date can be severely impaired making this almost impossible. Compare this with someone picking up a telephone and going to meet a professional sex worker.
3) The desire for sexual gratification without emotional complication. Women often speak of how hurt they are when a man "uses" them just for sex. Some men choose prostitutes as it is a way to gratify their sexual desires without taking on the responsibility or risk of hurting a woman's feelings. Between the provider and the man it is purely a transaction in it's most basic form, without emotional or psychological repercussion beyond the transaction. This can also free a man from the immediate impetus of "needing to get laid", thus allowing him to more fully focus on the qualities of a woman beyond the sexual.
4) The desire for sexual gratification without financial risk. For men that are affluent, or very successful in their careers there is always the concern that any woman they get involved with will be attracted more by his earning power than by his personal charms. While there are lots of women who aren't trying to be "gold diggers", there are a sufficient number of attractive women out there who are "gold diggers" to make the whole concept of dating rather daunting. Prostitutes give those men the option of intimacy without the fear of jeopardizing their financial stability or risking their emotions over their desires.
5) The desire for companionship. Being single can be lonely sometimes. Even if it is just an illusion, the professional sex worker's job is to make the customer feel strong, competent, sexually attractive, skilled, and desirable. While it may not be the reality, the emotions that can be evoked are real for that individual. This is another reason why prostitutes can be "addictive" and why more than a few men fall in love with the prostitute.. ie, not realizing that it is a paid service.

That being said, I guess my thoughts would be to each their own, and let's not be too judgemental.

On a side note, I always find it funny how much of American society (and to a slightly lesser degree Canadians) have such a puritanical view towards sex.

Sex on screen = Bad
Man murdering and dissecting people on screen = OK

Give someone money to have sex = Bad
Give someone money to pound the crap out of someone else = OK

People walking around in sexy clothing = Bad
People walking around with loaded guns(in the US) = OK

Most of the world is actually less uptight about sex than in North America. Just take a stroll through Europe (porno on regular TV, legalised prostitution in many countries), Asia (Quickie motels in Japan, major/minor wives in Thailand/Vietnam, barbershops in China), South America (no shortage of sex/mistresses down there), etc, etc.

Just some stuff to think about.
 dachar
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Posted: 3/21/2007 1:26:12 PM
i'd bet you already have :)
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 4:51:55 PM
Jonnhy Z.
I can see where your coming from and it is true I guess. It is different for a woman to call a woman a whore than it is for a man to say it. Same as its different for someone in the industry to call me a whore than it is for other angry old ladies.

People should try being on the receiving end of all the previous s*it that's come from ms. Belladona and others. I live with that on a daily basis....and no I don't have to be doing what I'm doing. And no I didn't have to say what I do for a living on the net. But I belive that this thread needed an insiders opinion cause without it its all "ifs" and "maybes" and "my friend told me"......

Thank you for all the people being reasonable.
 sabel15788
Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 3/21/2007 11:37:20 PM
Here here.

Some men have a hard enough time telling you they broke the your favorite vase, let alone telling you they've slep with an escourt....... It takes a lot for a man to admit. It can be a bit hurtful to a mans ego knowing that he has to pay for sex..... So he wouldn't go around telling the world..... I garentee you would never know if a grl was an escourt and you would never know if the man down the road has seen one.
 HikingFitGuy
Joined: 3/20/2007
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Posted: 3/24/2007 10:54:21 PM
Id never go to a hooker,

Id want to sleep with a woman who wanted to sleep with me, not because I am paying money,

plus you don't know a hooker's background and I believe their lifestyle is not in tune with my healthy fitness orientated lifestyle.
 TheOneWho_
Joined: 3/22/2007
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Posted: 4/20/2007 7:36:26 AM
If I were going to a social function where people were encouraged to come as a couple, I would consider hiring & bringing an escort if I didn't otherwise have a wife/date/SO to bring.

Since I assume women escorts are attractive, I'd probably be physically attracted to her. However, I don't see myself continuing the evening afterwards for sex. That would be a whole different realm... I don't feel comfortable with the idea of being intimate with a woman who did not actively& enthusiastically want to be with me that way.
 Ving
Joined: 1/27/2007
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Posted: 4/20/2007 12:12:26 PM
Let me give you an example, this is my own example. I am from India, and am here for an year or so. In here, I work with a team where I do not know any gals. I work hard for 5 days and have the weekend for myself. I have also been a member of POF just to find myself a hang out so I can, may be roam around, have some fun over my free time. Of course, since I have all plans to return back, I cant and dont promise longterm commitment.

Now, for reasons I dont know, but can only guess - may be because women here dont find me charming, or are unsure/scared/ of my ethnicity or bcoz of conflicting interests, or commitment issues, they havent responded to me.

Would you not consider it fair that I can use the services of an escort or pro? Isnt Sex a one of the "basic instincts" ?
Also, if not for sex, why cant I have an escort just for companionship? Whats so morally wrong with this?

Not that this changes things anyways, - I havent used them yet. But was just curious to know what makes it so wrong?
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 8/14/2007 1:29:40 PM
Well personally, I would not use them, I have been helping them get off that kind of activity that for most is a nightmare here on the streets of Southern California, most came from very painful backgrounds and most are not much better .

Anyhow I do not need any of the services, women call and call and knock on my door , sometimes I have to sleep in the basement so I cannot hear them and they cannot find me , so much for being celibate .... hehehehe

I feel for the guys who have to use them , it seems so lonely that something is missing in their life that they have to pay for someone to listen , some personal contact, fake affection , the fantasy of feeling attractive to someone. I wish the best for those guys but reality is that guys get less attention than even the most unattractive women, that they have to pay.

I know I was in that boat, skinney and nerdy, my first kiss at 20 years old after a girl was dared to french kiss me . Some girl lost 20 bucks on that bet.
 jg65
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 93
Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 8/26/2007 6:22:26 PM
LET'S BRING SOME HUMOR IN OLD JOKE:

So I said to her...if I give you a house and a car and $100,000 a week to spend would you sleep with me?

Her...Yes

oh, ok well, if I give you $10.00 would you sleep with me...
Her: Hell No , what kind of girl do you think I am???

Me..well..we have already established this, we are just negotiating on the price......


ok, old and corny., so sue me....
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