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 wheels4451
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 1
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Hi I'm just wondering what people think about mfm threesomes and how the men handle sharing their wives or girlfriends? This is what happened to me and how I felt...


I had my first MFM threesome about 11 months ago and it was amazing more than I could have ever imagined. First the woman and I became friends chatting on msn about anything and everything...she was very honest with her husband and told him all about me.
We had discussed having sex as I had been without for nearly 4 years being in a marriage without sex. She is a very kind and caring woman and really wanted to help me feel the touch of a woman again. So we decided...that her and I would meet for coffee which we did and we talked nonstop like we had known each other for years it was so natural.
We then continued our online chatting and became very serious about getting together an afternoon of sex. She had mentioned one of her fantasies was to have MFM threesome with her husband and another man so I suggested I be the other man...well she was thrilled with the idea as her and I already were great friends so she spoke with her husband who also loved the idea.....
We decided that her and I would get together one on one first to make sure everything was going to work sexually the way we wanted...as her husband waited at home surely getting more and more excited at the thought of us all meeting at a hotel later.
Well everything went better than we could have imagined one on one as she sat on the edge of the bed and we kissed for what seemed like seconds but was actually more like 30 minutes...I slowly undressed her licking and kissing every inch of her exposed flesh...she asked me to get on the bed which I did quite happily I layed on my back as she brought herself to me slowly lowering herself onto my eager mouth she tasted amazing and I could feel myself getting hard as she started to come shaking uncontrollably....she layed next to me and I held her tight as she continued to shake from the waves of orgasms...she slid her hand down to my c*ck and found it hard as she moved down and began sucking me tenderly at first then hungrily....I turned her so I could touch her wetness then she straddled me lowering herself onto me moving up and down faster and faster as she started to come my hands on her hips helping her move she once again came over and over shaking uncontrollably in my arms...we lay there I kissed her forehead and told her how wonderful it was....
We then got dressed and prepared to meet her husband at a hotel we had booked the excitement was electric as we drove to the hotel...we all went up to the suite we had rented for the night...we sat and chatted as this was the first time I had met her husband but we are both very easy going and were very comfortable with each other chatting about common interests. He then lead his wife to the bed and began to kiss her undressing her along the way she motioned for me to get on the bed which I did laying on my back both of then now naked him tasting her from behind as she sucked me feverishly....he then entered her from behind she moaned loudly on me as she sucked me with such passion it took mear minutes for her to begin to come I moved her up and held her in my arms as she moaned and trembled coming over and over then her husband came as well thrusting more quickly....he was extremely comfortable as was I as he opened a condom and handed it to her so she could roll it onto me....she straddled me lowering herself onto me so warm and wet mmmm...she began to ride me slowly at first as she was still very sensitive from the previous round of orgasms then she saw her husband watching and smiling...hard again from seeing how much she was enjoying it and she began to move faster and grabbed his c*ck pulling him closer...I could tell she was ready to come again so I asked him to rub her clit as she rode me...he reached between us and rubbed her cl*t back and forth as she rode me...she started to come uncontrollably nearly sobbing as I held her on my chest....once again kissing her forehead and telling her how amazing it was...
Unfortunately they had to be back home (kids) so we got dressed ordered some food ate and parted company.

I am still good friends with both unfortunately due to distance and schedules we have not been able to get together again although every time we talk the subject comes up and we must make plans to do it again as there are so many other things we want to try together.

Now as for him sharing his wife I at first had a hard time figuring that out but no look at it as not sharing but giving her something special as it is and was her fantasy even if it was amazing for all of us. I know I would not hesitate to do it again with them or another couple if the connection is there.
 justforumsplease
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 3
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 1:52:09 PM
Yes... but would you feel the same if your wife was the one being shared?

I used to play when I was younger... I had regular couples who liked for me to come over every week...

But you end up wanting more. Not sexually, but someone to have a connection of your own with.

All the sex in the world cannot replace love... not for me, at any rate.
 Robw993
Joined: 7/16/2005
Msg: 4
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 1:54:33 PM
SWORD FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You do know this is going to be deleted right? Anyway, I had to comment just for fun, I am bored.

Personally I wouldn't be very comfortable watching my wife/girlfriend getting it on with another guy, but to each his own.

Rob
 wheels4451
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 5
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 1:55:10 PM
I'm not sure if I would feel the same way I guess that's why I'm asking the question.
 justforumsplease
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/28/2007 1:57:59 PM
Then the only way to find out is to ask her. You might be ok with it... but the odds are good that unless you are incredibly open minded and love her very much, it won't work.
 wheels4451
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 7
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 1:58:01 PM
SWORD FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You do know this is going to be deleted right? Anyway, I had to comment just for fun, I am bored.

Personally I wouldn't be very comfortable watching my wife/girlfriend getting it on with another guy, but to each his own.

Rob

Would you feel the same if it was your wife and another woman?
 HockeyBabe19
Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 8
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 2:00:32 PM
that story...true or not...very intense........................
 Robw993
Joined: 7/16/2005
Msg: 9
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 2:01:22 PM
Either wheels, I guess I am not the sharing type when it comes to that. I have experienced a 3sum though, it was ffm and I wasn't emotionally involved with either of them.
 antwon13
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 10
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 2:02:28 PM
I would do it a second too.
 Melody37
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 12
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/28/2007 6:00:03 PM
Open marriages are most times very close and strong marriages.
Understanding the difference between love and lust. You can be totally in love with your spouse and never have any desire to leave however be sexually attracted to someone else.
Not going to be the majority here in thinking but......
 thinker2866
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/28/2007 11:36:15 PM
some people have all the luck.
My gf was all okay with the idea until the last moment...she chicken out and i looked like a fool to the other girl she (the other girl) thought i was ****ing around with her and was not on the up and up................but i still wanna cross that bridge someday..if i find a gf or female partner that will not scared.
 Augiedougie
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/29/2007 1:25:59 AM
^^^I totally agree with Mia. I also think that most homophobes are closet homosexuals and just can't face it themselves. I know my daughter has had a 3some and that's fine with me, as long as she was safe and comfortable with it and wasn't forced into it.
Also, I've always wondered why is it considered acceptable if a woman is bisexual and that if a man has any interest in another guy he's labelled as gay?
 justforumsplease
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/29/2007 4:56:20 AM
Uh oh... I am in deep trouble now!

I guess I must be gay because my balls touched another guy's when we DP'd her.

Christ on a bike, some people need to grow up.
 youngJ2005
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 21
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 6:49:58 AM
I had that happen once. I was on my boost phone on boost hook't a while back and this married women messages me saying hey I see live around me. I am like yeah. We talked for a while on the phone, text messaging and after a while, she said her husband like to watch her get ****ed by other guys, I was like huh..... ....I was going along with it because I thought she was full of shit, then one night she said she would pick me up. I was like ok.....she said she would be there at 8pm, called and it got bumped to 9pm and then it got bumped to 10pm and after that I decided to stay home and relax after realizing that she was bullshitting me. So after I kick off my shoes and turn on ESPN and watch sportscenter. She calls my cell phone saying we are in your neighborhood, where you live? I told her and I went outside and they told me to get in. I got in, this woman was incredibly sexy as hell and I am thinking her husband is dumb as a pile of bricks, but i really wanted to say ha ha ha ha. They drive maybe 2-3 miles from my house to a hotel. The husband went in and paid for a room, we go to the room, the women jumps in the shower and I am sitting on the bed feeling a little nervous, husband out of no where was like yeah , you think my wife is sexy huh, here have a beer. I am drinking and then his wife walks out of the bathroom after taking the shower. pushes me back on the bed and we start having sex. then i thought the husband was just gonna watch , but he joined in and we tag teamed his wife and after we were down, we left and dropped me off. Now I feel used......lol.....but hell it was fun being used..... I want seconds....
 iluv3smes
Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/29/2007 7:24:02 AM
Your name suits you. Why do you feel compelled to push your narrow-minded morality on others? You sound pretty ignorant. I have had MFM threesomes with my girlfriend on numerous occasions, and I can assure you that I am not gay, impotent, or a pedophile. Your comment to Melody was a foolish red herring. We are not talking about sex with children.

Let me ask you a question. Are you the type of person who also threatens to beat people up when they don't agree with your distorted POV? I often wonder if guys like you have any clue how foolish you look to others.
 iluv3smes
Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/29/2007 7:25:28 AM
Dominate It,

Your name suits you. Why do you feel compelled to push your narrow-minded morality on others? You sound pretty ignorant. I have had MFM threesomes with my girlfriend on numerous occasions, and I can assure you that I am not gay, impotent, or a pedophile. Your comment to Melody was a foolish red herring. We are not talking about sex with children.

Let me ask you a question. Are you the type of person who also threatens to beat people up when they don't agree with your distorted POV? I often wonder if guys like you have any clue how foolish you look to others.
 92009
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/29/2007 7:53:43 AM
sex is best one on one IMHO, been there and done that with MFM and FMF. I don't think either of those two situations is healthy. Just my .02 here though.
 Gamestermtb
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/29/2007 8:26:45 AM
This is such a common fantasy between with both man and women... women like the attention of it, the knowledge the are being a sexual goddess to two men...most woment if not all have a bit of an expansionist craving… guys like the dominating taboo bad girlness of it.. and the new kind of visual stimulus

I have found that with most women I have been in a relationship with .. talking, and telling explicit stories about MFM while we’re are getting our freak on is a very intense experience...

I have not had a MFM with someone I love .. but my last love and I both shared the fantasy.. unfortunately the world was kind of stacked against us.. so it never came to pass..

I think I will say no more.. except this

I have never cheated on a person.. not even a kiss.. I'm passionate about trust. there is not a gay bone in my body ..hehe.. lol.. I pun you

I personally think just because people explore their sexuality dose not in any way morally bankrupt or homosexual make.

I have had this conversation with people that don’t approve.. Ironically while this type of behavior is often demonized…. I find that many of the people (not all) that demonize it have cheated.. or have engage in behavior that is much more vicious .. dating several people and because their “Just dating” the think they have license to do very deceitful hurtful things. ..… how we all like to throw stones in our glass houses ..

Its not what you do in life.. its the "integrity" with which you accomplish it
 SCOUT196838
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 29
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 11:49:06 AM

This is such a common fantasy between with both man and women... women like the attention of it, the knowledge the are being a sexual goddess to two men...most woment if not all have a bit of an expansionist craving… guys like the dominating taboo bad girlness of it.. and the new kind of visual stimulus


Depending on the situation, relatioship and circumstances; Some things are better left as fantasies. If you are in a committed relationship, you can lose alot, thinking ok this would be fun and all good think it through thoroughly prior to doing it and make sure that you are secure in your relationship cause once it happens, it will usually happen again and again. best of luck to all though
 iamtheone39
Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 3/29/2007 6:24:55 PM
Hmmmm.....recognize "pony" we both got banned from another dating site for arguing....see things still haven't changed,either has his picture.
I have to say that the couple has to be very very secure in their relationships....my ex and I used to comtemplate a threesome with another man plenty of times....but it was only to please her sexual gratifications,not mine. At the end of our marriage,infidelity had set in fom her living with different guys and it was the only thing that used to get us off during sex,was to talk about it. I don't miss that though because it separates you from your partner except in a "sexual" sense. There is no way on earth you can have a sound relationship and a threesome at the same time unless you were just only friends. If it can be done,I would like to know the formula,we aren't made that way and it just isn't natural.
 justforumsplease
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 38
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 5:19:21 AM
The last serious relationship I had before my failed second marriage, was with a woman who engaged in threesomes on occasion. And while I had done this more than a few times in my past, it was always with a bed buddy or someone I was not strongly attached to. It was the first time I had done it with someone I was seriously involved with. Was I reluctant to do it? Good Lord, yes! I told her so, and what I feared would happen. She took me aside and told me this.

"I love you. When this is all over, I'll be sleeping with you. I will wake up with you, and when you wake up, I will tell you again that I love you... as many times as I can before you tell me to be quiet."

She allayed my fears by telling me this. She also told me that love and sex, intertwined as they may be sometimes, can indeed be separated. She wanted me to do it to fulfill her fantasy. She wanted me to be involved because she loved me, and wanted me there.

Over the course of our 18 months together, we had several trysts with a few guys, quite a few more women, and one time... both. Our relationship ended over other reasons, but while we were together, she was right about a few things. We never went to bed angry, and she always told me she loved me when I woke up in the morning.

It is possible to have a sound relationship while doing this, but you have to want it badly.
 justforumsplease
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 41
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:05:33 AM
Yes, it did... You need to remember that in whatever type of threesome you have, the other person serves as an object in a way.

If you have a woman with 2 men, then she is the focal point. With 2 women, then he would be the focal point. My g/f and I just viewed them as "sex toys that moved, drank a beer when they were done, thanked you and left". It was the same when we had a FFM threesome.

We saw each encounter as variations on a theme, in most ways, but we always kept eye contact. We always talked to each other. and when we were done for the night, we always told each other what turned us on the most about the night's activities.

Yes... I viewed it as intimacy, from my point of view. Others may think differently...

But if we were all the same, it would be a very boring life, yes?
 lindjen
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 4/1/2007 9:36:49 AM
I’m not an expert but I have a little experience being ‘with’ couples, five to be exact.
All meetings were spontaneous as opposed to pre-arranged through the Internet or some other service.
The first two, one in London the other near Philadelphia, occurred when they met me en femme. I think both couples assumed that crossdressers were all bisexual and ‘hot to trot’. That generally is not true but it worked for me.
I met the wife of the third couple at a singles club near Toronto when I was in male mode. After a lot of dancing and chatting we decided to spend the night together – but wait, there was a man I had to meet – her husband. He had been watching us all evening. I could go to bed with his wife if he could watch. That was okay by me. He watched, he participated and we had a great time. That was the first of about ten meetings we had. They all started with Ken watching but eventually joining in. He would be the first to leave the bed satisfied.
The last two couples I met just in the last two months. One happened while I was en femme, one in male mode. Both men seemed to get excited by their wife’s arousal.
Sometime I hope to find out why these men enjoy their wives’ arousal at the hands of another. In the meantime I hope to continue to enjoy their generosity.
 preshuz one
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 48
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 4/3/2007 4:50:42 PM
[sex is best one on one IMHO, been there and done that with MFM and FMF. I don't think either of those two situations is healthy. Just my .02 here though.]

Being a true Scorpio here, I am all about sexual exploration also....did the MFM & FMF thing 2x each way respectively. I have been asked to engage in these types of encounters again several times, but declined. Just seems to not feel right, the one on one is so much more intense!

I was molested as a child by a neighbor and also raped as an adult, but still felt like I needed to experience these things. Since doing so, I now have no further interest.

If I were married once again, I know I could not feel a healthy loving relationship with my husband being in this manner. I feel much more "open" one on one, I think because it still feels like cheating even though it is "out in the open with permission".

To each his own, be a pretty boring world otherwise!
 southernhighlander
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 49
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MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 4/3/2007 4:58:11 PM
it just depends on if each wants it if so then yeah i will go along with it.
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