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 Gravity_Vortex
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 2
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What...... Do you think for a second that, that is all there interested in.....? I think you need to give your head a bloody good shack....or better yet a good hard slap up the side of your head.....
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:20:43 PM
Ok Ross ...... old buddy.

I am about to give you step by step instructions on how to get over that bullchit “women are just not attracted to me” crappola

Step 1. Think you are attractive - and have things to offer

Step 2. Forget step one > KNOW YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE - and have cool azz things to offer


Before anyone else can become convinced - YOU have to become convinced.

Did you smile at any of those gals you saw today? - or did you walk around dragging your self-esteem along the ground by a little string tied to your belt loop?
 Sonlit
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:43:09 PM
Ok ~
Here it comes from a woman - since you didn't believe the GUY! -
(So, of course there will be more words! ha!)
Studies are STILL just somebody's Opinion! I love men, and I love sex, and I NEVER look at a guy's crotch til the third date at least! What for? It isn't the size that matters - really! It's what he does to my head and my heart that will do it when we do it..
Also, out in public, I NEVER would do such!! - It seems so rude to even think that! Men must have done that survey! The most I'd ever do is smile and quickly look away (from his FACE!), and I'm VERY assertive! But I like to let the man lead - Personally, I need an assertive man.
So, you see a lady you want to meet? Talk to her! A funny/witty remark, or a compliment, or a question, and she will definitely talk to you if she finds you interesting!
One other thing - If you are running yourself down in your own mind, you need to fix that FIRST!! OTHER studies have shown that the one thing most women find most attractive about a man is his CONFIDENCE, put another way, lack of self consciousness... So, quit stressing and have some fun! I forgot to look, but you must be young (for a man, that means under 40, or 50!) - Don't worry - It gets easier!! One of the few joys of getting older.. Ha!
Oh, and life is too important to take seriously, remember that...
Love always
Aliy
 Sonlit
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 9
sorry
Posted: 3/30/2007 3:48:15 PM
I thought that last post would go in right after Ron's as a response; but it didn't, and doesn't make sense where it is... k?
 Dark_Utopia
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:04:26 PM
Stop your whining .....the fact that no one seems to check you out does not mean there is NO ONE checking you out...

Women are very subtle about that , if you see some girl checking out your package she needs to be a bit classier and less obvious ...I mean really ...thats lame to get caught doing that

 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:08:21 PM

You know, there's been studies. When a woman finds a man attractive she looks at his crotch.

Oh that's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! Where was that study done? Fool U?
Cindy O
 HikingFitGuy
Joined: 3/20/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:20:36 AM

I always knew it was impossible for a woman offline to be interested in me.


good thing you are online then. It's good you realise how it is, so by going online, at least it may not be impossible to get a date afterall now
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/31/2007 8:18:56 PM
Well I am REALLY crushed now.

Ross I am about ........ around ........ maybe about ....... TEN TIMES OLDER than you are and I have never caught a gal looking at my crotch ..........

I think I will go eat some worms ........
 virgogidget
Joined: 11/10/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2007 5:02:19 PM
Do you believe all you read?

Intellegence and a great personality with a good attitude is what women are after.
I look at a mans Face when speaking to him not his goods.
 meanweener
Joined: 12/31/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2007 5:47:39 PM
yeah well I wouldn't worry about it. I went to the store last Wed. and I must be getting old or something because when I got home I realized I had my fly open the whole time . I didn't get any phone numbers .
 JustKelly70
Joined: 2/9/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2007 5:49:34 PM
I had no Idea you women were checking out my crotch, I would have stuffed a pair of socks down there if I knew that
 JustKelly70
Joined: 2/9/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2007 6:29:13 PM
I've been doing this all wrong, I should put up a crotch pic instead of a face pic,,Duh silly me.
 JustKelly70
Joined: 2/9/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2007 6:50:40 PM
Who me? of course, not sure about the OP..lmao
 johnny prophet
Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 4/2/2007 12:58:10 AM
Hmmm. I'm wondering if this is not just one of those "huge organ" phenomenons. I mean, I tend to prefer women with breasts on the smaller side, but if I see a woman walking down the street that has ENORMOUS BREASTS, I can't help but notice them. I don't drop my jaw and salivate (because, like I said, I typically prefer the shape of the smaller ones) but I do notice (and yes, ladies, some of us are just as capable of being sly about it as you are.)

I've actually seen a TV program fairly recently (last couple of years or so) wherein a not-so attractive guy (might've even been jimmy kimmel, pre-jimmy kimmel show) puts a large phallic object in his tight pants and walks around in a public place and discretely films the reactions he gets from women.

Many of them make a point of trying not to look, but most of them, even 90 year old ladies, did. A few of them actually came back again and again for second and third looks.

I'd say it's a fairly common HUMAN phenomenon.

I DON'T think that means that every time, every woman ever looks at a man she finds attractive that she automatically checks out his package.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 4/2/2007 12:58:57 PM
i don't look at guy's crotches unless there is something funny about it
but then i tend to look at all sorts of funny things.
after looking...do they laugh or comment? i don't really know. does the survey answer this question as well?
 Xcen
Joined: 4/7/2005
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Posted: 7/2/2008 12:38:56 PM
Ummmm Lost PassWord (aka fupped up) Msg #31 ,,,,the OP said LOOKED at the males crotch,,,,,,,,,,not STOOP over,,,,,,,,
 CourtandSparkler
Joined: 6/23/2007
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Posted: 7/3/2008 2:33:45 PM
We all have our "little" problems.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/3/2008 3:06:28 PM
First of all what studies? show the url so we know what you are talking about.

I think just the fact that you are asking this ignorant question shows the real problem why women aren't into you. You need to read more than maxim and playboy.
 degostyle
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 60
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:14:06 PM
Studies are frikin stupid...When they do studies, its of 100 people usually..thats it...Its like the Movie reviews....They may give a movie 2 thumbs up, but it doesnt do crap at the theaters..and the ones they give 2 thumbs down to, it destroys box office records..Just dont pay attention to them
 Chippy2
Joined: 6/21/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 5:46:40 AM
Why do people go around believing studies, there are just people playing with numbers and a good at it.

Hell I could do a study that says 100% of women asked said I am the most eligible bloke on the planet, all I have to do is ask me mum and she would say yes, 100% thumbs up and not tell any body who I asked.

Point is a number of these "studies " are done to sell papers, and little tit bit for those that buy lads mags that can be bothered to keep reading skills up to date.

Glad to see your asking some real people, and getting answers from those in the know i.e. women themselves

By the way not all women are crotch watchers, some like a nice arse, going by some chats at various meets, half the women you walked past could have turned around a stared at your arse , but because you were so busy watching the ones coming towards you, you missed the interest coming from behind.
 degostyle
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 64
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Posted: 7/5/2008 8:48:08 AM
I would be more inclined to look at his crotch if he was unattractive...just to clarify if he had anything going in his favour



.....I guess your right...There might be a party in his pants and he may want you to "come" over
 EagleEric
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 7/5/2008 10:29:03 AM
Who told you this nonsense? Are you demented? It's obvious to me that you know nothing about women.

A man is very likely to admire a woman's physical attributes while a woman will pay very close attention to the features of a man's face, his general appearance especially his clothes and how he wears them, and details like do his shoes have a shine. There are numerous other things like how he smells (BO is bad but a nice cologne is good), his finger nails (clipped?), his breath, teeth (does he have any), and so on.

I think your post betrays a terrible attitude towards women totally devoid of respect.

BTW, using your theory about what women like, you should post a picture of your genitals rather than your face (or did you already do that?).

The Eagle
 oc_jon1965
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 69
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Posted: 7/5/2008 10:52:16 AM
aren't thier studies that dispute that study?

LOL

naw..if a women is interested in you...she will look in your FACE
emoutions are way more important that crotches to women

the crotch emoution..is kinda ...narrow minded !
 degostyle
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 72
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Posted: 7/5/2008 11:05:29 AM
All it takes is confidence...Women can smell if a man is confident or not a mile away...Its like thier 6th sence......My buddy Tommy once said to me..."Nino, you know that Im not gay, but seriously, you are just an average looking guy, yet women flock to you. Its your damn confidence and its annoying me so stop!!"..And we both laughed, but its the honest truth. Have confidence in yourself. Women will notice it.
 Frankycadillac
Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 2:38:14 PM
absolutely correct. Women want a man who can kick some ass. Self pity is no good, they dont like that.

never pivot your happiness on anyone but yourself.
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