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Joined: 3/30/2007
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if she wants me to i will but i prefer the wax method better than a razor.
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/4/2007 6:53:36 PM
I like a bare scrotum, now how it got that way doesn't really matter to me at all. The rest should be well trimmed... and if he happens to like to shave it all.. so be it. My last FB shaves, and it's wickedly delicious, but he doesn't have a whole lot of body hair to start with. The current BF does as well... probably 'cause I mentioned it at some point in conversation once.

Basically whatever he's most comfortable with... if he happens to indulge me in my *request*, then I'll be happy to show my gratitude... hehehe!!
Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/4/2007 11:32:29 PM
I personally don't mind either way.. sometimes it's such a hassle to keep it well-trimmed that i just get frustrated and take it all the way off, heh. If it's good enough for the guys in porn, it's good enough for me
Plus, as others have said, if I'm gonna expect it (or rather, want it) of her, i'm of course prepared to do whatever she wants in return.

I had an online guy friend of mine comment to me once, as if he were complaining about it, "my girlfriend says she won't give me head unless i shave..." -- me still being a virgin, and at the time rather completely and hopelessly single, all I could reply was "why are you sitting here talking to me when you could be in the bathroom with your razor?"
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 4/5/2007 3:27:11 AM
I prefer shaved or closely trimmed. Not a deal-breaker, simply a preference.

I got a kick out of the poster above that said he can 'rise above the shrubbery' therefore no need to worry about tonsil ticklers... evidently his experience with receiving oral has been terribly limited thus far in life.....
Joined: 2/19/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 4/5/2007 7:58:49 AM
I'm all for it. Shave, wax, whatever..even a trim will do..just some type of maintenance in this area, please? I mean, c'mon fellas!

Rumor has it I'm..ahem..orally fixated, as it were..though I'm sure that's just a vicious lie.. ..and as such, it has nothing to do with testosterone or a lack thereof. Little to no hair down there does not make the man any less a man.
To me, it makes the man a cleaner, more considerate man..just as testosterone-laden as he was before he'd dropped his pants.
There's plenty to concentrate on down there as it is (they don't call it a job for nothin'!) without having to gag and choke on wayward hair as well.

Also makes a smarter, more realistic man, in my opinion. Can't say that I've ever flat out refused to give head due to a lack of landscaping, but..
..well, y'ever had someone ask for a massage..and give 'em a bad one so they won't ask that of you again?

Real men don't shave?

Smart men do.
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/5/2007 8:51:10 AM
I always say - trimmed - neat and clean!!!! I like a little to rub on myself and I do want my man to look like a grownup thanks!!!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 4/5/2007 12:16:27 PM
I like it shaved
 call me J
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 4/5/2007 3:15:32 PM
It's common courtesy. If a guy expects a girl to go down on him, then he should at least make be trimmed nicely if not shaved. All the women I've been with have preferred it trimmed/shaved. They've said it makes giving oral much more enjoyable.

The guy who shaves is smart, not gay.
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 4/5/2007 3:50:27 PM
who is that cheap that they need free dental floss?
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 4/6/2007 4:02:16 PM
i prefer to wax down there and also i prefer if the woman does it.makes the sex all the better afterwards.
Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/8/2007 8:21:44 AM
i find it pretty gross. i shave as a woman, but i like my men manly. hairy, stocky, and chopping wood. oh and i'm 24..
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 4/9/2007 1:51:11 PM
I like to be shaved to feel of it is really nice with a womans touch and it is good high gin also like most of use say if we like the woman to be shaved so can we.
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/9/2007 4:19:16 PM
A Shaved Man Looks Bigger Then A Hairy One...
Correct Me If I'm Wrong, But Don't Most Men Like To Think Of Themselves As Big?
Well.. It Looks Bigger Bald... And In My Opinion.. That Is Freaking HOT
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 4/9/2007 4:32:09 PM
When I go down on a man.. I am not looking for floss...
It's shave or go without period...
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 4/10/2007 3:42:42 AM
<------ has been a "smoothy" for some years now. I've welcomed the opportunity to shave/trim a lady friend as well. A nice experience to share before.........
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 4/10/2007 5:20:24 AM
Well from my point of view, if I desire a woman I'm to be with to be either clean shaven or neatly trimmed, I would expect nothing less than to do the same for her in turn.
(unless she requested otherwise, but I'm used to it now and it feels good not only for oral sex sans hair, but for intercourse as well!)

I mean, if us guys want our gals to be bare or clean cut why not do the same for her? No hesitation on my part to do so, especially since I prefer oral sex to intercourse overall.
If I don't want to worry on nuzzling hair or spitting hair out I wouldn't presume a girl I'm with would want that either. Smooth is preferred.

As to another poster's comment on leg hair, take an electric razor and trim the hair down on the upper legs, even the butt if need be, and it evens the look out.

I also keep my chest hair trimmed down or gone because I lift weights and it not only looks better but keeps me cooler in the summer when I'm in the Gym working out. And it is great for getting a tan on the beach in summer!

Nair cream while messy, does the job for taking off chest/body hair, and down below too as long as its around the base has been safe for me.

I've read reports in Men's Health magazine that you shouldn't shave the hair on your scrotum as there have been documented cases of pustules forming there from ingrown hairs that have actually caused problems where surgery was required so the testes were removed and a section near the leg is where they were placed. Not a fun idea, so there I generally trim short but not completely gone.
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 4/11/2007 11:31:37 PM
I'm a gracious host. I don't want you to stop at the front door, I want you to take the entire tour.

That means keeping a clean house.
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:43:59 PM
Shaved, not shaved...if I'm into him it doesn't matter. But he damn well better keep it trimmed at least, I don't want to be coughing up hairballs when I'm done.
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 4/18/2007 7:27:11 AM
trimmed is the way to go
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 4/22/2007 8:43:05 PM
I have been shaving my pits since I was a young adult. For me, it was purely a matter of hygiene. I sweat a lot and I didn't like the hair there gathering the odor. Perhaps, as a result of dating much younger women, or competing in body-building contests, not sure, but I later gravitated toward shaving my down parts too, lol. My gf's have appreciated it because they don't get hair in their mouths. So, that means I get more pleasure...
Joined: 4/11/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 4/22/2007 9:37:49 PM
Bloody classic mate !!!

You have had me in stitches as I sent this to a few friends to have a laugh about at work.

How about a hair transplants plant for those missing pubes ?

On a serious note - I think keeping the lads smooth is nothing too bad and it makes the sensations of touching and enjoying some female kisses there even better. As for the rest well - if you need to use a lawnmower (men and women) then you might think about about keeping it trim or just keeping the Kojak Look.

As for going all the way - ummmmmm some Euro Porn movies may have it but I think trimmed is a very good idea - come to a compromise about being presentable for your lady and women - support the USA and just say NO to BUSH in 2007.
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 4/23/2007 4:01:23 PM
Funny thread. I have had gf's who had a strong peference for both hairy and shaved. Go figure! However I am happy to complie to any request. I really enjoy a woman who is shaved for oral sex . Getting hair in my teeth is not sexy, anyway i enjoy the texture and feel of a woman in my mouth that way ... and it is my peference. I suspect it is the same of the lady. However in the summer when I do a lot of road biking, I really need some hair down there to keep from PS I am not gay, bi and all male.
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 4/23/2007 7:26:44 PM
prefer my men to be shaven....after all who wants to see someones hairy bottom.
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 4/23/2007 8:26:36 PM
its more sanitary if you plan to incorporate different types of play. Imagine pouring wax over your lovers scrotum and it sticks to the hair...its all together better if you plan to be more adventurous in the bedroom
Joined: 4/13/2007
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Posted: 5/8/2007 11:06:14 AM
...grrr... lol .... i shave my chest nuts head and my shlong and its only because alot of women dont want to be cuddlin next to a bear or a gorilla....... i am not gay and nor in the closet lol... i just know that most women dont like the fury beast look.....
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