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Joined: 1/31/2007
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I was wondering why I can't seem to find a Honest,one woman man? I have alot of great qualities and I've been told I have a sincer heart and have alot to give a great guy!Does a woman need to be bad or have alot of problems to get the good ones?? I know there are great men....why do us GOOD women ALWAYS seem to get hurt in the long run??? Can a man really change if he has hurt you?? Thanks for your responces
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Joined: 5/13/2006
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Are GOOD hearted women a bad catch????
Posted: 4/19/2007 5:49:31 PM

Can a man really change if he has hurt you??

Just a theory OP, but maybe you get burned a lot because your good heart gets in the way of your "F this guy, he's a loser" brain. Do you have a hard time turning away screwed up people because you refuse to accept that there are plenty of your fellow human beings who have little, if any, redeeming value?

I see so many shallow, petty reasons that people exclude others as possible partners it's ridiculous. But there are some who go too far in the other direction and let low-life users move on in and do their thing. The results should not be surprising.

And now to totally confuse the message OP, I will tell you that a woman with a big heart is absolutely magical, beautiful to me. just need a hard ass like me in your life to deliver the boot to all the weasels that come around.
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