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 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
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Wow.

Wall 'o Txt much?

Back off the guy. Anticipation hightens desire.

Duh.
 mitch97
Joined: 4/7/2007
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What did I do that made things turn out like they did?
Posted: 5/1/2007 10:04:33 PM
I gotta chime in here cause I just went through almost the exact same thing. I dated this chick for about 2 months, slept with her twice, and she was pretty adamant about not getting serious. However, I was looking for a girlfriend. Well, after the second time we did it she got cold and distant and I flipped out. I accused her of using me and she said I was "cool to hang out with but it got too serious."

I didn't want to just date around, and I didn't want her seeing other people, but that wasn't my call. It SUX when you're not on the same page with someone about that, and you just have to suck it up I guess. I say don't burn your bridges. You never know what will happen. Right now I wouldn't mind if I just kept that girl around to sleep with every now and then
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